Originally posted by: niknid
How can you say it is drama...his hands were definitely under the blanket and maybe he did touch her in an uncomfortable way. If he did touch her without her consent then forget inapprorpiate - it is wrong in so many levels. Molestation, sexual harassment, rapes etc all are crimes that have one main element- consent. I'm not say I g that him touching her is the same as rape, but the concept of non consensual touching that I am trying to draw from the above examples is very much there. Small things like this add to the perception that just because the woman is pally or tocuhy with others that means anyone has the liberty to do anything. This is a seriously wrong mentality amin society. Just because she let's upen and Gautam get touchy with Ber and fools around with them does not mean she consented to Ali touching her in the same way. Where there is no consent, the act is wrong. He did say something like...upen is also touching you like this...that does not in any way mean that Ali too has the license to do the same. She did not consent to Ali touching her. It is NY ardent request to you guys not to equate this incident with that of the other girls using the women card for incidents that do not have a place for it. This is about violence against women...so please guys...it is small things like this that can help us he state awareness...I work really hard in my life to uphold and spread such awareness through my work...so please consider this as my sincere request to look at this beyond just the idea of the game.
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Arjun
