She doesnt love me only

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Posted: 11 years ago
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I know what Raman is going through is bad. Neither of them to be blamed. Only the situation has caused this. But one thing that struck me was he was expecting her to tel him I love you, talk to him lovingly. Has he ever given her that oppurtunity. Whenever she tries to be good with her he really spills poison in terms of anger. How long do you expect a girl to keep getting insulted. Even when his is very passionate neck of the moment he will back out many many ex
He danced with her sensously in Mihir's enagement party, almost confessed his love saying be along with me for whole life and and then taunted her saying u are wering tamatar ka chilka
He wanted to take her out alone for the picnic when she apologized for spiling his plan he said he just wanted to give her a day out
He literly was about to kiss her after the rain danc and turned her down when she stood in anticipation
If she praises him he feels she is not well - the scene after Mihir's Tilak when she said she was impressed
She hugged him in an insecurity to lose him when the goons attached both of them, but to even hug her back he thought twice.
He kept a fast and literlly spil jeher in her heart saying these vrat and all for ppl who have a husband and wife relationship which we do not have and we will not have ever.
Always cals hr moti, chudai, bhut etc and how does he expect her to come and share her feelings with him. He has time and again called her reject. He tries to flirt with girls to make her J, Even today after so many years of seperation with Shagun he has a soft corner for her and is infuenced by her word. I am talking abt the incident where he went and spoke to shagun when he got to know that Ashok is not going to marry her and he thinking so many times abt shagun's words for Ishitha.
Ishitha is a human being. She also is a fun loving girl. just bacuse she is a woman doesnt mean that she must not talk to a man who makes her laugh and wants to keep her happy. I know what they spoke was little over board. But still Raman's expectation that she didnt talk to him with a normal way is primaryly his fault and not Ishitha.
She has been with him. This is not the first time he has suspected Ishitha. During Param's incident ( When he saw her in the coffe shop with the bank emp for loan initial days of their marriage when simmi truth was not out) he decided she was decieving, braclet incident and now. Can he talk to her frankly and take a decision. Raman always creates notion thats also a problem.
The reason for the void in the relationship is primarly bith of them not working on it. Ishita busy with her social service and Raman not ready to talk to her due to his ego. If this is going to continue they will always be in the same stage of their relationship

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Posted: 11 years ago
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i don't agree with u sorry ...
Ishita is also behaving like a kid..nowadays she has nothing to do except chanting mani-mani..😡husband to chodho ..agar friend aur relative ho to unhe bhi doubt hoga ki they have in a relationship...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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You have points but Ishita has always made him feel that he's ONLY Ruhi's dad to her, nothing more than that. In case of Raman, he not only many times openly declared "biwi ho tum mer" but also acted like a true husband as well. Ishita's effort is missing there big time. I agree with the fact that they are both responsible for the stagnant stage of their relationship.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I cant tell you how much i love you for this post of yours, not tat i hate raman, , nobody really can hate tat gentle man, but ishu is a human too !
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Posted: 11 years ago
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This is very apt post to judge Raman (not K).
It is Raman who created all these problems and has the illness of suspecting his wife.
Well he should have thought for how long will Ishita live with him as she's also a human being she's a woman she needs to be loved.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I partly agree with u 😳

But most important factor I agree with u on is Raman not being polite with her, Most of the times either he has joked or shown anger with her n he needs to tone down both his jokes n anger n understand her.
N also when yesterday he said that She says I love u to Mani aur mujhe ek baar bhi I like u nahi bola 😛 Ishita has so many times said that she likes Ravan kumar he conveniently forgot that. 😆

Its just that both Ishita n Raman expect a lot from each other but dont want to show their true self. 😳

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