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Posted: 11 years ago
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I don't post much but the forum "Bashing" has ticked me off, I am just disgusted with the way people are banging on about Ishita vs Raman Aka Team Ishita Team Raman.So here goes my views of the character portrayals and MY views on the current track.

Raman's actions and Misunderstanding are justified totally, he is allowed to feel hurt, mislead by Ishita's actions and betrayed. Why? he is a married man who believes that his wife is cheating on him, " once bitten twice shy" Its that simple, but for the story to progress this misunderstanding has to happen! in REAL life these things happen, so to me this story has to come into play because history in Raman's life is repeating itself. ( Which is what he RKB thinks that the women in his life betray him ) OH THE MAN KP CAN ACT NO DOUBT. HE HAS AMAZED US ALL 👏

Now I agree that the story is going at snails pace and their should have been a confession between IshRa and their story of more focus. But what can we do now!?

Now Ishita's actions are ALSO justified, yes at times annoying but the amount of "Bashing" of her character is just plain ridiculous! I agree with some peoples views as to the fact that Ishita's friendship will make Raman jealous, well YES OBVIOUSLY! but how may I ask are her actions wrong? Okay changing a name Mani to Manisha was drawing a line in terms of hiding something, that I agree with on but the fact that Ishita hugged Mani and those lines were said wasn't something unnatural if you have that comfort level! She will not be the last women or the first to have a male best friend, other then the phone incident she talks to Mani openly, in front of people and in real life a man would tell his wife if he was unhappy with the friendship but this hasn't happened with IshRa yet and this isn't going to be plain sailing. It is a TEST FOR ISHRA

All this Portrayal of IshRa and MU is happening because TRUTHFULLY they can't read each others feelings yet so I feel only if they talk it out and confess will the story move. My views!

So the people that are not willing to read two sides of the posts are not going to agree. I just find it very odd that people can't have a proper debate. Please respect my post and I will do the same towards yours. If we appreciate IshRa-DivAn-YHM then we would all continue watching. Its that simple. For everyone, including me there is a tipping point and am not there yet, "Picture Abhi Bakhi hai" 😆😉
Thanks

- Ursh
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Posted: 11 years ago
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i agree how you described both Raman and Ishita situation MAINLY THEIR RELATIONSHIP which is lost somewhere as they keep on solving others problem...
The sweet and bitter fight cannot run life forever both respect and love is needed in a marriage...
Now coming to Mani I never felt he's a danger for the couple but he's a true friend...I like your point, Ishita never hides while talking with Mani except when she wanted to know the progress in Romi case with Sarika as for her Raman does not want to interfere in it...
Then again good friend keep on kidding, like Mani and Ishita.
Raman at least should have said two words to Ishita that he does not like their camaraderie...but he kept quiet...
Now everyone here will judge the situation based on their liking.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ALUJNA21

i agree how you described both Raman and Ishita situation MAINLY THEIR RELATIONSHIP which is lost somewhere as they keep on solving others problem...
The sweet and bitter fight cannot run life forever both respect and love is needed in a marriage...
Now coming to Mani I never felt he's a danger for the couple but he's a true friend...I like your point, Ishita never hides while talking with Mani except when she wanted to know the progress in Romi case with Sarika as for her Raman does not want to interfere in it...
Then again good friend keep on kidding, like Mani and Ishita.
Raman at least should have said two words to Ishita that he does not like their camaraderie...but he kept quiet...
Now everyone here will judge the situation based on their liking.


@blue ..Perfectly said ..👍🏼
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Thank you for the unbiased post! I feel like I can safely say on this post that today did no one hear the sarcasm and playfulness in Ishita's voice when she said that she should leave her husband and child for him. I thought is was a in a joke way she replied to Mani because she knows that he is not being serious. I will criticise Ishita's character when she truly deserves to be criticise like changing Mani's name to Manisha and I will criticise Raman's character when it need to be criticise like not being honest to ishita about how he really feels about Mani and her friendship. I think Ishita would have backed off if she knew because Raman and Ruhi will always be first to Ishita. THE BIGGEST PROBLEM THIS COUPLE HAS IS THEIR LACK OF COMMUNICATION AND THEIR FEARS!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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well u knw what ursh today frm 9 to 12 noon they r showing RUHI ki ISHIMAA here n in that what i see raman n ishita they r nt at all the same now. everything has went down the hill thanks to the CVs that aggressiveness, passion, love,care has vanished now its all ruined if i compare the first drunk scene wid today's nthing will look good compared to first one


its not gonna b the same now EK has lost it completely n now after ishita's mani jaap v will see raman hurting ishu 😒
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Beautiful post Urshu..

Not all actions of Raman and Ishita are that big faulty...it's we fans are making them look huge. Cos, really, many of us even me too sometimes tend to think from one POV, whereas other part is kept in total dark in mind.

That's why problem arises.

I had replied to someone's post that this time forum will be one side...only IshRa. Cos, both are doing mistakes and both are suffering. But, I was wrong😆.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Ursh u know I dnt know anything about these fan wars or anything like that since I have only started watching a few months ago and I dnt come much on the forum so I cnt comment on that. But the current track for me especially Ishita's behavior today really got to be. More than the storyline it was divyanka acting she just got on my nerves with her laughing and she just looked fake in those scenes she didn't look natural I dnt think she was at ease doing those scenes and it so it showed. There was just something lacking in her performance this whole time I think a certain fakeness came into her performance. Furthermore I actually dnt even have a problem with the current track although I think mani, mani, money has over stayed his welcome bt the actor is so good and sweet in his protrayal of the character that I would miss him when he is gone. So its not him its just divyanka that I am not feeling at the moment bt she is a good actress it maybe she didn't connect with what she had to do. Furthermore there is no problem with a married woman or for that a married man having a friend who is of the opposite sex. Bt ishita's daily chant of mani, mani, money is soo annoying. Those trp aunties watching the show with their husband must be watching this mani chant transfixed coz now ishita just ruined the possibility of them ever having any male friends coz of her and mani. And she knows that raman doesn't like her relationship with mani and is jealous of her being near her bff. I dnt think he needs to tell ishita that he doesn't want her to be friends with mani coz its obvious that he doesn't like it. Bt it was really cool that he never said he wants her not to go by mani. Furthermore I think a certain awareness and sincerity should have been brought into her character if not by the writers than by divyanka herself as an actor. Raman ex left not only him but his kids as well and for them to get her to utter those words even though she was joking(and we all would do it sometimes if we had a male friend)was still,utterly, utterly wrong. Although I think that even though karan was amazing in the episode certain times his acting was off as well in this episode. And mani's evil laugh was also bad.

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