Why cant we get our old YHM back?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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I have already posted this reply in a previous thread, but just wanted to have a general discussion as to the old YHM we all adored so, so much! In contrast to the absolutely bizzare tracks running simultaneously these days!

Keeping everything aside, I just want to ask - WHY cant we have good old YHM back??? What's the deal with this entire story going haywire?

There are SO many unresolved issues going on at the same time.

For starters, Param has simply vanished. The guy who was dying to get a place back in the Bhalla house to plot against them, is nowhere seen. Granted, Anurag Sharma (Param) is busy with ADHY (aired on Life OK), but CVs should have taken care to wind up that bit ki itne din woh gaya kahan!

Second, Romi had been shown as a changed person the last two months or so. Suddenly, SARIKA ends up pregnant. No scenes whatever as to how they met chhup chhup ke, mile bhi hain ya nahin. And NOW, Romi does a complete U-turn and behaves like the a$% he always was. Back to Square One and ALL hopes of Romi Bhalla's redemption down the drain!

Third, Mani flies in from absolutely Nowhere at all and becomes a major pest, hovering around Ishita round-the-clock. Never do I see Mani working or Ishita working. Ishita is freer than ever to cancel a gazillion appointments with patients and hang around with Mani. No backstory whatsoever. The portrayal of their friendship - overdone, oversweet, forced making it look unreal. And for ONCE, Ishita doesnt rack her overused brains to understand why her husband is acting the way he is.

Fourth, Ashok is into a full-fledged planning mode of dumping Shagun and snaring Mihika instead. Shagun and Mihika are gradually blossoming in the friends zone, close enough to be besties soon. Shagun is blissfully unaware of what a creep Ashok is. And Mihika is ready to go the Ishita way to save Shagun's dignity and relationship. I am scared she will agree to get hitched with Ashok instead, to save Shagun's life. OR she will get trapped in her own plan and made to look like a loose woman, ready to sleep with her "jiju". And then she will lose Mihir, hear all sorts of shit from Shagun and then more drama that side.

Fifth, Bala is currently hiding something from Vandu. A past secret showing its after-effects now, or a "student"who became something more, or a slip on Bala's side which has landed him as a victim of blackmail..What the hell is it? The CVs have ignored that as well, and show us fleeting glimpses.

Sixth, Ruhi (the WHOLE POINT of YHM) is hardly seen, no mama-papa-Ruhi bonding scenes whatsoever. Didnt know children are deported to far-off places when there's high voltage drama going on inside the house.

Seventh, ADI has mysteriously vanished. Never seen with Shagun, Mihir, Raman - ANYBODY. Is everybody so caught up with internal drama they've forgotten to pay a visit to poor Adi?? Even if he is a remand home, why cant they show us the progress he is making as an adolescent.

SOOO many loose ends!! What the hell is going on? Does it have to become ghisa-pita like each one of Ekta's other soaps. I really think realism should be brought back in, and some of the drama toned down so that aleast, our heads dont spin the way they do!!

Kam se kam, Ruhi ko toh scenes mein laate hi rehna chahiye. When Ruhi was the reason IshRa came close in the first place, why not incorporate Ruhi as the factor that binds them now?? Now when they need it the most? A breakfast scene here and there doesnt justify her existence as a character in this show. The whole point gets defeated. Even drama should have some sense of logic, and here, EVERYTHING is spilling out of control.

I miss Ruhi's chanting of Ishima, Ishima and playing pranks on getting both her parents together. I miss Mrs. Iyer's and Toshi's silent battle of wits and 'beauty'...sooo badly miss Simmi and Ishita's nok-jhok as well. Mihir-Mihika's romantic moments, Romi-Sarika's newly developing relationship (with Romi as the changed guy), Ashok and Shagun trying their darndest best to put down RKB, and Rkb'S brilliant comebacks and retaliation at the same...Ishita and Raman fighting as a team, as a strongly bonded couple in stark contrast to Shashok's dwindling romance, Suraj-Shagun spats (he really shows her her place sometimes)...badly want to see Adi discovering his 'dad'Ashok's true colours and making pay for it by doing something silly and childish like pricking a pin on his a#%...Param's slyness and chalugiri even...

and most of all I miss Raman-Ishita verbal banter, Raman checking her out but trying to convince her she's a toad and isnt all that pretty ;), Ishita's chupke chupke wala pyaar for Raman (which is nowhere to be seen considering Mani the Shani doesnt give her the time and space to behave so)...Ishita's "kuch bhi", Raman's "pagal Madrasan"..and "Madrasan hai badi sweet", the marked changes in Raman's temperament, his blushing at doing something special for his Madrassan...(like the Karwa Chauth episode)..his being unable to HELP staring at her and yet, pretending he was looking at his phone or the newspaper or whatever...his lovely smiles that spread such sunshine!!

Want more of the SHITA-sewing-her-blouse-and-Raman-caught-stealing-glances-at-her"episodes, more of their raindances, more of the scenes where Raman can apply some more balm on her throat and well..., more of them being forced to sleep together (like once Raman had to), more of their intense staring "ankhon ankhon mein"...

Miss seeing Ishita grow as a character, and discover herself as a woman, a real woman who LIKES and secretly WANTS to be loved and touched by her husband..the man she is slowly falling in love with. Not this ridiculous Jagat-Mata image she is roaming around with!

Heck! Why am I ranting?? The CVs have dashed it all in the quest for newer, bigger drama! And some of it doesnt even MAKE sense!

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Posted: 11 years ago
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wow gud post👍🏼 i was a fan of old YHM not this changed slot. i hope we get our old YHM back
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Great post Gravity. I dont think the original crispness in plot or the fiery writing will ever return. I dont mind Mani's entry if Raman was kept the same. He went from a Googling toilet seat sitting clown to this emotionally disturbed mess. Ishita has been struck by a "teen lightning" she cant seem to shake off.
Ruhi stopped taking center stage a while ago. She is around only to coax her IshiMa to crusade for one thing or another. Mihika is blind with her eyes wide open... she deserves what ever misery she beckons...Param? Yes I do miss Param, he is a complete original... and was a brilliant addition to the Bhalla house. Ekta usually doesnt have actors bailing on her like this, in all the years Ive watched Ekta shows. Param's disappearance is missed.

Raman is HEALING apparently... all I am waiting for is Ishita to HEAL. Raman to "Enable" that by bringing Subbu's Mom home, or have her watch child birth videos everyday...On a serious note, I am completely against such cruel and unusual punishment. Raman is NOT mentally ill for the writers to make him go through such horrific things...is plain wrong

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nisha0604


Raman is HEALING apparently... all I am waiting for is Ishita to HEAL. Raman to "Enable" that by bringing Subbu's Mom home, or have her watch child birth videos everyday...


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Yes, its disturbing the way they have painted RAMAN in the last few episodes. Added to the horror of seeing this character assassination of RKB was last night's flashback of how Shagun had lied to him. It was pure torture, the situation he was in. And to see a strong lead character like that go down in ruins, i almost cried. You are right when you say there was a lot of crispness earlier. YHM is slowly losing its plot. Mihika, I have a bad feeling, will pay heavily for her newfound frndship with Shagun, and Ashok wil leave no stone unturned in trapping her in her own plots!
Even if she DID manage to reveal Ashok's true colours in front of Shagun, that doesnt really help matters. It just makes things worse, coz once its final that Ashok is a cheating crapster and not worth Shagun's time and 'love', she will have no choice but to stay with Mihir. And then the WHOLE Raman-Adi-Shagun drama will unfold again, which again, is a PAIN to watch.

I'd rather our dear RKB behave like the unruffled guy he was and give Ishita a run for her money by hanging out with a sexier, prettier woman, THAN beating himself up every single moment trying to figure out if Ishu is cheating on him!!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: gravity23

Yes, its disturbing the way they have painted RAMAN in the last few episodes. Added to the horror of seeing this character assassination of RKB was last night's flashback of how Shagun had lied to him. It was pure torture, the situation he was in. And to see a strong lead character like that go down in ruins, i almost cried. You are right when you say there was a lot of crispness earlier. YHM is slowly losing its plot. Mihika, I have a bad feeling, will pay heavily for her newfound frndship with Shagun, and Ashok wil leave no stone unturned in trapping her in her own plots!

Even if she DID manage to reveal Ashok's true colours in front of Shagun, that doesnt really help matters. It just makes things worse, coz once its final that Ashok is a cheating crapster and not worth Shagun's time and 'love', she will have no choice but to stay with Mihir. And then the WHOLE Raman-Adi-Shagun drama will unfold again, which again, is a PAIN to watch.

I'd rather our dear RKB behave like the unruffled guy he was and give Ishita a run for her money by hanging out with a sexier, prettier woman, THAN beating himself up every single moment trying to figure out if Ishu is cheating on him!!


THANK YOU!!!

THIS albeit cliched (who am I kidding LOVE cliches😆) would have been so drool worthy to watch.
Unruffled.... thats exactly how I wanted Raman to be around Ishita. The moment he felt something suspicious or became insecure, he shud have completely shut off and switched to his lean mean avatar

Why bother?

She will come around whenever she wants to. Or go on to her next crusade, after delivering Sarika's baby... maybe would have opened a homeless shelter for all the women Ashok slept with... maybe?

At the end of this track, she will walk over to him and say "Sorry Raman main jaanti hoon aap Shagun se kitna pyaar karte hain"

That would be it... Mani would call and she would have to take his call since its "all about rescuing her Mere Raman"😆 Why waste time apologizing sincerely, or investing time in romancing the guy...she can spend that time in fighting one battle or the other for HIM 😆

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Posted: 11 years ago
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but it could like this also na... if shagun don get married to ashok...mihikas marriage will also delayed... more over her jealousy will be back...mhika has applied for loan for shagun... i don no how these people are sooo mahaan,... shagun who left a six month baby..who is still not forgiven by her own kid..is gettin all the care...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ashat123

but it could like this also na... if shagun don get married to ashok...mihikas marriage will also delayed... more over her jealousy will be back...mhika has applied for loan for shagun... i don no how these people are sooo mahaan,... shagun who left a six month baby..who is still not forgiven by her own kid..is gettin all the care...


Well said...
Ishita and Mihika are NOT smarter than a five year old

Why else?


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nisha0604


THANK YOU!!!

THIS albeit cliched (who am I kidding LOVE cliches😆) would have been so drool worthy to watch.
Unruffled.... thats exactly how I wanted Raman to be around Ishita. The moment he felt something suspicious or became insecure, he shud have completely shut off and switched to his lean mean avatar

Why bother?

She will come around whenever she wants to. Or go on to her next crusade, after delivering Sarika's baby... maybe would have opened a homeless shelter for all the women Ashok slept with... maybe?

At the end of this track, she will walk over to him and say "Sorry Raman main jaanti hoon aap Shagun se kitna pyaar karte hain"

That would be it... Mani would call and she would have to take his call since its "all about rescuing her Mere Raman"😆 Why waste time apologizing sincerely, or investing time in romancing the guy...she can spend that time in fighting one battle or the other for HIM 😆



Yes!!! I sooo badly want to see him the way he was INITIALLY...unruffled, non-fussy, care-a-damn boy! I mean, there are SOO many instances that have given rise to these suspicions about his wife...and since she is sooo bothered about others' bhalai and Samaj Seva, he might as well have shut her off his radar. Completely. Nothing hurts like THAT, you know!!

Yeah. At the end of this track, this idiot Ishu is gonna think that Raman still has the hots for Shagun. Why does this woman try to decide other people's feelings man??!! Let them do it on their own naa...you get your butt out! But No. She has to do bhalai and rescue people, when its clearly not needed. And Mani...for the life of me, How did he even MANAGE to get at the top of his game?? With all the time spent On Ishu For Ishu...pathetic and totally disgusting!!

Have heard of soo many best friends, but none who had SOO Much free time in their hands!

After today's episode I stand by Raman. Unflinchingly. Ishita is behaving like a goddamn teenager, going all mushy and huggy with Mani when a "thank you" can be said in a million diff ways. They should really tone down their best frndship a bit, coz its getting unreal, controversial and ridiculous.

But most of all, I am sorry for Raman. The way he teared up...God, you need to be made of stone not to be affected!!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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@Ashat 123
you THINK Ishita's "jealousy wil be back"...Gosh! She is so busy getting worried Ashok might be dumping her and how Shagun will be left homeless, penniless and husband-less, that I dont think jealousy will even CROSS her mind.

A woman with some amount of jealousy in her mind will NOT get her husband's ex-wife to sleep in the same bedroom as he...no matter how drunk the ex-wife is..and ESPECIALLY since its a 5-bedroom flat!

If Shagun gets dumped, she might even suggest to Raman ki "kahan jayegi Shagun...ek akeli aurat society mein kis kis se ladegi..." or sme bullshit like tht...and prolly allot one room to SHagun-Adi...You should bear in mind SOME boundaries dude. For Ishita's goody-two-shoes attitude, no such line of control exists.

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