Mera's musings Oct 18 2014 - Page 3

Originally posted by: MERARAI

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Ishita's character was butchered a while ago, whether they will return her to her to be a sensible, grounded woman is yet to be seen. She never was one to toy with anyone's emotions when the show began. In fact, if my memory serves me right, she took issue to it when anyone's emotions were toyed with.

It's apparent she knows Raman sees her as more than Ruhi's mother at this point. If she wanted him to see her as his wife too what is the need to toy with Raman's emotions using Mani as bait ...it's sadistic. It defies logic to drag Mani into Raman's family problem while she sidelines Raman. I bet her excuse will be "Raman is hot-headed and will not handle it with the finesse it deserves". If she goes there, someone ought to remind her of her insensitive actions of welcoming her molester Param back to the Bhalla house not to mention bringing Raman's ex back to the Bhallas and have her sleep it off on Raman's bed.

I am all for Raman telling her to leave him and go to Mani. Ishita is playing a dangerous game picking on Raman's emotional wounds and protect himself he could push her away in spite of loving him. Ishita needs at this point to come to her senses is a shocking reality check. As they say "set the one you love free and if it's meant to be they will return to you". Raman should give her a piece of his mind and remind her Mani has no business in his family matters.

Originally posted by: MERARAI

Mihika is engaged to Mihir and decided to observe KC this year for Mihir's well beling so Shagun sent her a KC platter. She's fasting for Mihir but the once smart woman is walking right into Lambu's lair with her eyes wide open intent on exposing his duplicity to Shagun. Will she be smart enough to get out before Lambu traps her in his net?

Ya Shagun sent her Sargi 😆 Too much of BFF's na , Y didn't Full moon light (Poornima prakash) send her sari coz she is officially her Sasuma na 😛 Margayi kya woh jo Shagun Bhej rahi hai 😛

Shagun is engaged to Ashok and decided to send Mihika a platter but didn't consider observing KC herself? She never could when she was married to Raman. Had Shagun been smart KC would have been a prime excuse to get together with her fiance Lambu and Sunny bro would be tongue-tied about it lest they reveal their plot to get rid of her from Lambu's life.

Well ur wish got to b true in today's epi 😉 We know that SHagun will cheat in KC when Mihir n mihika r not around but just to show off that she cares so much for Lambu will try to do the vrat 😆. Ini jaldi hair maanane salon mein se nah hai Shagun 😳

Ishita graduated dental school with 98.5% but why can't she clue into the fact that Raman doesn't like her gushing about Mani? 🤔 Mani is being a good friend to her but she gushes like a teenager every time he calls her...that grates on just Raman but viewers nerves too. Bec' of her Mani gets a bad rap as being a "kabaab ki haddi" in Raman/Ishita marriage.😕 It's understandable that she didn't see Raman was jealous of her friendship with Mani but by now it's as plain as a nose on a face to viewers but Ishita is still too dense to get it? Or is she getting her kicks out of seeing Raman feeling jealous? She's recognized his jealousy a few times but still talks herself out of a follow through in understanding his reasons for feeling it.

Ishita is being portrayed as stupid, insensitive shallow bass. No comments on her, if cvs want to show her like that there is nothing we can do about it. 😭

She is getting kicks from making RKB jealous n thinks that this is the only way she can get him confess. 😆 (her own dialogue )

Raman's towel came in handy😛 when he was drooling at his lady in red.☺️

😆 Haha good observation 😛

Mani should look for another lawyer in Delhi, looks like this low-yer slept through class in law school when they covered the topic on client/lawyer confidentiality. That potrait in Mani's office looked like a bad photoshop of the big biz-wizs in Delhi and Raman was missing...even after winning CEO of the year, and being President of Delhi Business Association and Asia Business Guild.😕 Does Mani work with second-tier businessmen like Lambu? Who is going to clue him on the fact that Lambu is a Loser with a capital L.

U r talking about Lawyer confidentiality rules, here they have broken marriage confidentialities, medical confidentialities, business confidentialities so y leave Legal profession 😆 Mani being such an influential person in delhi does not know Ashok's brother was involved in betting scam, Ashok was once indirectly involved in fake Land deal scam and framed by police, Ishita herself has said that Ashok is not a nice guy n yet Mani is doing business with him. So that speaks volumes about Mani's business sense 😛 again as portrayed by CVs.

Romi has been slapped with a sexual harassment suit but he doesn't seem to get to him and ttake the joy out of him...he was smiling and checking his emails (or was he playing games) on his cell phone while Ruhi and Mr. Bhalla came home after playing badminton.

Ya I saw him having a happy family moment today in background 😆😛

Raman had another moment of "zyada kush hone ki zaroorat hai" today...he gave Ruhi a hi-5 and instantly his mood was ruined when Mani called Ishita.

Well he is Happy n he needs to be happy but cvs like him in anger or cry mode 😛 Y name him happy if u never wanted him to be happy or is there something more in it that I am missing 😉

Raman has a brand new wardrobe courtesy of prime time slot...light pink, brick red and purple vest...he looked like a politician except his vest was colorful.

i liked his pink blazer he looked dapper in it. 😳

The chatfest between Bala, Mihir and Raman was so natural. The three Iyer maapillais (not marumagan as Mrs. Iyer calls them) have great chemistry and their scenes are always a treat to watch.

Hahaha CV's really don't have much idea about portraying Tamil Iyer customs and language. 😳 Ya that scene looked so natural 😊

Today Ishita wondered that men who fast for their wives usually love them, come Monday she's back to first base, doing jasoosi with Mani. What's with wanting to hide things from Raman and venturing on her own over and again? For someone who needs to prioritize her marriage, Ishita is busy looking for ways to alienate Raman from matters that involve his own family...in this case Romi and Sarika. Let's see if she will team with Raman and resolve the situation or keep him in the dark and team with Mani to solve a family problem that has nothing to do with Mani. Will Ishita save Mihika from Lambu's clutches even as she exposes his role in instigating Sarika to file a sexual harassment suit against Romi?

Her defense is that she knows ki Raman Loves her so she wants to blurt this truth out of him by making him jealous by doing Mani jaap whole day 😆 But when he gets angry because of jealousy or acts stupid (fake accident) because he wanted to say Sorry to her, she blames him calls him non caring n insensitive all the time. 😉 Well its human tendency to forget the good n just harp on the negatives but having said all that considering Ishita has been portrayed as understanding one and someone in the past has observed Raman's achai too then she blaming him does not make sense.

it is done by CV's just to justify mani's labelling Raman as a failure in marriage. Ishita taking help from mani to solve Her n Raman's house problems is ok, Raman might not follow her path of getting justice so she is taking things in her own hands. Raman again might just go n yell at Ashok for trapping him n Romi n it might turn the things to an ugly end. But ishita going out of the way n taking help only from Mani was not really required, she could have asked Mihir to get involved this might have saved her from future Misunderstanding. But ya CV's like to throw Misunderstandings at us for drama sake. 😳

Ishita should take some pointers from the senior Bhallas. Even after all these years they keep their marriage fresh and behave like a couple young at heart, while Ishita is busy doing everything but prioritize her marriage. 🤔 One minute she's all shy and happy about KC and just a day ago she gave him the silent treatment. Maybe it's time for Ruhi to step in and redirect her mamla magnet mother Ishita towards her patient pati Papa.😛

😆 how much will that Child try? Now she has to force her parents to fall in love. its not possible right? If these two don't want to seriously work on their relationship? Especially Ishita these days looks like she just wants to blurt truth out of Raman's mouth but doesn't want to work on this marriage herself, she thinks she has given 100%. Well cvs portray her like this what can one really do? Raman on other hand is shown as trying now after her outburst, has not said insensitive things to her so far n yet she is still not getting it?

Please add your thoughts.😃

Originally posted by: MERARAI

No worries, continue spamming.😊

Ishita's character was butchered a while ago, whether they will return her to her to be a sensible, grounded woman is yet to be seen. She never was one to toy with anyone's emotions when the show began. In fact, if my memory serves me right, she took issue to it when anyone's emotions were toyed with.

It's apparent she knows Raman sees her as more than Ruhi's mother at this point. If she wanted him to see her as his wife too what is the need to toy with Raman's emotions using Mani as bait ...it's sadistic. It defies logic to drag Mani into Raman's family problem while she sidelines Raman. I bet her excuse will be "Raman is hot-headed and will not handle it with the finesse it deserves". If she goes there, someone ought to remind her of her insensitive actions of welcoming her molester Param back to the Bhalla house not to mention bringing Raman's ex back to the Bhallas and have her sleep it off on Raman's bed.

I am all for Raman telling her to leave him and go to Mani. Ishita is playing a dangerous game picking on Raman's emotional wounds and protect himself he could push her away in spite of loving him. Ishita needs at this point to come to her senses is a shocking reality check. As they say "set the one you love free and if it's meant to be they will return to you". Raman should give her a piece of his mind and remind her Mani has no business in his family matters.