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Paru

@paru_rox

Rocker

+ 8

Posted: 10 years ago

Ever since I watched yesterday's episode, this Ser-pint (serious pint) has been going on in my head. Was being too lazy to write it down. But here I am.

This is about the entire Romi-Sarika kaand (as Raman put it so delicately 😛).

The CV's are clear that Romi is back to being a grey character (his original self). Apparently they drew the selective amnesia stick on the whole Romi-turned-sanskaari bit where the guy was shown in love & actually started seeing her everywhere. People in lust don't do that ('least I definitely don't think so). And Voila, Romi is back into action (in more ways that one).

So unless at the last moment CV's pull a recap of the accident track, where they forgot the adult eyes wala FB & pinned the whole thing on expressionless Adi 🤪, this track has definitely gone back to Romi ki acchai ka dehan with the guy turning negative.

Firstly I completely agree with Raman's POV that Romika should not get married if Romi doesn't want to, it will just spoil Sarika's life further (not that kuch kasar reh gayi hai).

While Ishita is being an idealist in her decision to get them married, Raman's being the realist. He knows he can't keep beating Romi into submission all his life to make him stay married to Sarika or keep her happy.
Though of course this throws the bigger question on the baby coz clearly Sarika is not the sort of girl -- in circumstances (financial or social) or inner strength -- to actually raise the baby as a single parent.

And best was Raman's stance NOT to sort this out for Romi 👏
Now comes my ser-pint wala kostin - BUT, why is he still helping Romi through Neil. I don't buy the family thing here coz Raman now clearly understands that Romi won't change till he faces the consequences of his actions (maybe not even then). Then why help him?
Toshi ji by herself would not be able to do much, why not let Romi actually face the shit he swirled just so that he understands every kaand of his can't go unpunished.

Why would Raman - who has always been fair & has a sense of justice attempt to safeguard Romi (with or without his knowledge is inconsequential here) AGAIN especially since its clear he does not understand the magnitude of his deeds.

The real RKB would NOT do that. He would want Romi held accountable for his decisions. Clearly this has gone past the "slapping him into sense" stage and crossed over to some adult own up time where Romi would know that every wrong of his has a consequence, a bleddy BIG one. Basically Raman knows that his brother needs a "You do the crime, you do the time" lesson asap. Bas.

On that note, the real Ishita too will not want Romi to go scot-free in this whole mess. Till now she is being herself & is insisting on what she thinks is right - the two get married. But am not sure when the CV's give her a roundabout too.

On another side note, Toshi ji has succumbed to the slot change and gone further bonkers on supporting her laadla bigda hua beta. i especially failed to understand her logic that if Sarika was a "NOT" a characterless girl, she would have come to Ishita or her to complain about Romi. Errr, what's that again Toshiji? Care to explain coz my mind overloaded on the complete lack of sense in that whole dialogue 😕

PS - In all the above, I am not speculating on up-coming twists by the CV's which might change the track. Just my thoughts & confusions on what has happened till now in this track.

PPS - A bit disjointed. Neend aa rahi hai 😳

Edited by paru_rox - 10 years ago

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@--Megha--

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Posted: 10 years ago

🤣 awesome. bun in the oven reminded me of Bun on the head Ishita ke 😛

Well For ur serpints 😳 I think Raman assigning a lawyer for Romi's case is right coz this case is indirectly directed towards him n Ishita. They wud need a lawyer n also another lawyer in Romi's defence might start character assassination for Sarika so Neel is a better choice as he knows fsmily history n he might npt do it.

Ishita might look stupid in saying that Romi needs to marry Sarika, but if Sarika proves that Romi married her n fathered her child, then he needs to accept that. If its proved in court then either he needs to accept or divorce Sarika give her alimony n financial support for his child. So I guess Ishita is not wrong too.

But I guess Sarika has not much proof so Raman's option is better as Romi is not ready to accept her. 😳

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Rajji (Shanu)

@.Rajji.

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Posted: 10 years ago

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why is he still helping Romi through Neil ?

if he is not doing it for romi then maybe he's doing it for himself or for justice :

- for justice : romi did NOT sexually harass sarika. She slept willingly with him, got pregnant and Romi wants out. This is not sexual harassment so why should romi go to jail for a crime he didn't do?

- for himself : romi's name is linked to raman's so if the little brother gets accused of sexual harassment, the weight will be on both of them. So maybe raman wants to save his own reputation.

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Sandysprings

@Sandysprings

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Posted: 10 years ago

In yesterday's epi Raman was 100% right whatever he said to toshiji, to romi, to sarika , to ishita ..practical and perfect ...not biased and straightforward ..but he told neel to help toshiji ..why??? Definitely this RKB is not old one who was ready to put romi behind the bars for amma's accident ( when they thought romi did the accident) ..

Ishita is one of them who thinks in this type of case only marriage is the best solution .emotional fool who is not ready to think what next after forced marriage..

Romi's kaands r very much serious and till he won't get punishment he will not realize his mistakes..let him handle the mess he created by himself ..

Toshiji is/was like this only when its related to her kids ..I'm not shocked to see her reaction..in param case also she called ishita( her own daughter in law ) characterless ...she never liked sarika so she got point to call her characterless ..after all she is pregnant without entering bhalla house and so she can prove her son innocent..

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Dolly-heart

@Dolly-heart

Sparkler

Posted: 10 years ago

To keep the Bun or not is the Kos-tin ??

I agree with you that is about time Romi a full grown adult should pay the price for his

"Kaand".

Raman made the right choice at first that Romi needs to be responsible and face the consequences of his "Lets play but not be serious" type of game.

Well now the seed has taken root and you, dear foolish Romi have to bear the repercussions of the fun you had for a few minutes for the rest of your life.

Raman is right that Romi might not be husband material but helping him on the Q T is not right either.

Raman either let Romi step up to the plate and make a mature decision because being wishy washy at this time and sending mixed signals is not helping anyone.

Toshiji is a blind mother that blames the girl and not her son for this. Somebody please explain to her that it takes two to Tango and her son is as much to blame as Sarika.

Toshiji all your mollycoddling your son for so long and turning a blind eye to all his wrong doings has eventually come home to Roost with his philandering .

Both Ishita and Raman need to stay out of this and let Romi figure out for himself what is right and grow up and face the music.

And as you said Paru, the CV's could change this serious dilemma into just another twist.

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Ash

@-RisingAsh-

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 10 years ago

Awesome post Paru !
I m away frm the serial since past few days is NO COMMENTS on whtz happening .. Why to bother abt RoJiSa.. 😆

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Lucky

@alwaysaTVFan

Stunner

+ 4

Posted: 10 years ago

Hey Paru

If I don't speculate what could happen (and also not speculate if Sarika is Really pregnant and if she is, Is Romi really the father) ... and think 'like' Raman and Ishita...

I agree with the question you asked. These are the answers I came up with:

- at first I thought Raman did this because, at the end of the day Romi is family

- He knew his mother would need support too

- It was better he get a lawyer for Romi, so he could really control the situation (including maintaining Sarika's reputation)

BUT ... What I don't understand is, the whole point of the accident track was about Raman+Ishita's trust AND Raman realising his blind love for his son and its consequences. So if Raman was ready to let his OWN SON receive a fair treatment for his mistakes, then he would surely not protect Romi (even indirectly???)

About Ishita... honestly, I am not too surprised by her stance. Her meddling not-withstanding, she always sides with the underdog. In this case, there is a child into the equation too. And with Ishita, concern for the child would be paramount. If there was no pregnancy, and Romi disowned Sarika after a mandir waali shaadi and some fooling around, I would like to think Ishita would drag Romi to jail herself.

PS: I havent seen the episodes, so if I have missed anything that Raman said that would justify his stance, then I stand corrected (in advance 😆)

and girl -- what's the ETA on Mani CV series ???

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Veeann

@Veeann

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Posted: 10 years ago

🤗Paru. Sorry I missed the spamming this morning. Sunday tha, was sleeping in.

Now, as to your ser pint. I don't know the criminal code in India but i believe that inducement to have sex on the promise of marriage can be taken to negate consent, and sex without consent is rape. My take on this is that if Sarika believes her consent to sex was based primarily on the promise to marry, then her consent was induced by fraud and was not real consent. Hence she was raped. I don't see where sexual harassment comes in. Sexual harassment is unwanted sexual attention, with most charges in workplace situations. The leery workmate, the boss who tries to touch you up. Those are the situations where you would accuse someone of SH. The situation is further complicated by the marriage in the mandir. Is that legally binding? If so, then there was no rape, because if he induced her to have sex on the promise of marriage, he fulfilled that promise. So no rape or SH. But again, I am not familiar with the IndianPenal Code, so these are just assumptions.

IMO, if the marriage is legal, then Romi has abandoned Sarika and she should file proceedings against him in the Family Court for alimony, child support and restitution. If the marriage is not legal, she can have him charged with rape.

What does all this have to do with your query on Raman supporting Romi? Nothing really, I just wanted to vent. But I will say that puttar must know that if there are court proceedings, Sarika's rep will be further tarnished and so perhaps he is also trying to protect her. And of course Romi and Sarika shouldn't get married, what a recipe for disaster, when one partner is dragged to the altar. Sarika and Romi both need family planning classes, Sarika needs to stop being so gullible and Romi needs to grow up and develop a conscience.

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BIaddict

@BIaddict

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Posted: 10 years ago

To me it made sense for Raman to get a lawyer to support Bhalla's because it is not a case of sexual harassment. I think Raman should have made Romy shoulder the responsibility of the kid. Romy cannot be forced to marry Sarika but he most definitely should take a fathers responsibility in that child's life. He works, he has an income. Why can't he support that child. Similarly Sarika shouldn't file a case of sexual harassment but should seek paternal support from Romy. But then that is real world, in the world of Soaps it could be sexual harassment 😆

Also to me Toshi Ji's dialogue made sense. Because Raman has warned her against Romy, it was her stupidity to not pay atrention and jump into a relationship especially a physical relationship based on a shadi in a temple with no witness. That spells disaster and is highly irresponsible of her and according to Toshi ji that could also mean she was trying to make herself a Bhalla bahu by hook or by crook because supposedly bhallla's are loaded though they live in non luxurious style 😆

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vidya.anand

@vidya.anand

Sparkler

+ 4

Posted: 10 years ago

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Agree to all your points Paru...

Regarding Romi, I really am confused of what this guy is made of. Wasnt he the one who gave lectures to Param when he talked ill about Ishita? And then he had even begged apologies during MMS fiasco came out. He was shown as if in true love with Sarika. Was all that mere acts? or are CVs just doing a 360 degree twist and also thinking that we will also forget the past story and jump in with the twist.

Again I dont understand Sarika too. Raman and Ishita had warned her. Raman had also moved her to some other job out of Romi's reach. She again falls back into this so called trap of Romi, marry him in the temple and also get pregnant. I mean when did all this happen. ek hint bhi nahi tha...

Heights of stupidity was showing S Bhalla ka report reaching the eyes of Ashok. Which hospital does this exhibition of a report? Dont they have their patients registered? And one more point is if Romi wanted to hide the report, then why didnt he just throw it into the hospital dust bin or give it to Sarika? why did he give money to the ward boy and give back the report? I mean what did he think? the hospital will do an auction of the report and sell it off to whoever wants a pregnancy report, is it? Many confusions and it seemed all cooked up just to involve Ashok into the whole conspiracy against Raman.

Raman helping Romi without his knowledge is also confusing. ok, he wants to get Romi out of it but then whats the purpose of hiding behind? is he just playing safe so that Ishita doesnt misunderstand him? I am worried that it will all cause bigger misunderstandings.

Apart from that I am really with Raman regarding the marriage part..only that Sarika isnt intelligent enough to understand what he said. the emotional weakness is blinding her. Cant blame her but she isnt able to see beyond the present solution to the problem and she thinks marriage will solve everything!

Now some new promo is also up...thats again worrying...

Originally posted by: paru_rox

Ever since I watched yesterday's episode, this Ser-pint (serious pint) has been going on in my head. Was being too lazy to write it down. But here I am.

This is about the entire Romi-Sarika kaand (as Raman put it so delicately 😛).

The CV's are clear that Romi is back to being a grey character (his original self). Apparently they drew the selective amnesia stick on the whole Romi-turned-sanskaari bit where the guy was shown in love & actually started seeing her everywhere. People in lust don't do that ('least I definitely don't think so). And Voila, Romi is back into action (in more ways that one).

So unless at the last moment CV's pull a recap of the accident track, where they forgot the adult eyes wala FB & pinned the whole thing on expressionless Adi 🤪, this track has definitely gone back to Romi ki acchai ka dehan with the guy turning negative.

Firstly I completely agree with Raman's POV that Romika should not get married if Romi doesn't want to, it will just spoil Sarika's life further (not that kuch kasar reh gayi hai).

While Ishita is being an idealist in her decision to get them married, Raman's being the realist. He knows he can't keep beating Romi into submission all his life to make him stay married to Sarika or keep her happy.
Though of course this throws the bigger question on the baby coz clearly Sarika is not the sort of girl -- in circumstances (financial or social) or inner strength -- to actually raise the baby as a single parent.

And best was Raman's stance NOT to sort this out for Romi 👏
Now comes my ser-pint wala kostin - BUT, why is he still helping Romi through Neil. I don't buy the family thing here coz Raman now clearly understands that Romi won't change till he faces the consequences of his actions (maybe not even then). Then why help him?
Toshi ji by herself would not be able to do much, why not let Romi actually face the shit he swirled just so that he understands every kaand of his can't go unpunished.

Why would Raman - who has always been fair & has a sense of justice attempt to safeguard Romi (with or without his knowledge is inconsequential here) AGAIN especially since its clear he does not understand the magnitude of his deeds.

The real RKB would NOT do that. He would want Romi held accountable for his decisions. Clearly this has gone past the "slapping him into sense" stage and crossed over to some adult own up time where Romi would know that every wrong of his has a consequence, a bleddy BIG one. Basically Raman knows that his brother needs a "You do the crime, you do the time" lesson asap. Bas.

On that note, the real Ishita too will not want Romi to go scot-free in this whole mess. Till now she is being herself & is insisting on what she thinks is right - the two get married. But am not sure when the CV's give her a roundabout too.

On another side note, Toshi ji has succumbed to the slot change and gone further bonkers on supporting her laadla bigda hua beta. i especially failed to understand her logic that if Sarika was a "NOT" a characterless girl, she would have come to Ishita or her to complain about Romi. Errr, what's that again Toshiji? Care to explain coz my mind overloaded on the complete lack of sense in that whole dialogue 😕

PS - In all the above, I am not speculating on up-coming twists by the CV's which might change the track. Just my thoughts & confusions on what has happened till now in this track.

PPS - A bit disjointed. Neend aa rahi hai 😳

Edited by vidya.anand - 10 years ago

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