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Posted: 10 years ago
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Hello everybody.
This is my first post in this forum.

I watched the last episodes of Itti Si Khushi . And I am in love with Neha and Aman.

Neha is this sweet girl with heart of gold. How great to watch her playing,smiling , asking innocent questions. This makes me remember my childhood. And wish that I'v never grew up.

For this I wonder if this is what Aman feels! 😲

Neha makes him smile, remember his childhood. How she stood by him in the worst situations. How she put blame on her self in that accident which they showed in yesterday's episode. Neha is his best friend. And as a teenager she loved him and she still does , but as a teenager.

Now , Is Aman in love with her? Did he feel the same when he was a teenager? I don't think so.😕

Aman didn't live his childhood freely. His family members were strict. His mom , his dadi. They put lots of responsibilities on him. He grew up fast to face this bad world.

His dreams of becoming a cricketer died. His smile disappeared. Now he looks at Neha , and feel happy , coz she didn't change. She reminds him of his happy days. 😃

I hope Aman doesn't mix friendship with love. I hope he realizes his true feelings ..I hope he helps Neha to discover this bad world and how to deal with it.

I hope their friendship grows stronger. And cvs don't make them marry each other soon. It will destroy this story which is really different.

Aman and Neha are perfect with each other. But Neha has to grow up before their love blossoms.😊

I remember an old movie of Jaya Bhaduri named ( Uphaar) She was that kid who refused to grow up. But aftee marriage she faced many problems before she discovers her love for her husband. I don't want Itti Si Khushi to copy this movie . I want to watch something new.😃
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Great post! My feelings exactly!

Their love story is coming across as so artificial! Aman does not love Neha as he does not know Neha. Neha herself does not know who she is. I'm waiting for the show to embark upon her journey of self-discovery. She's just recently awoken from a 12 year coma. Things have changed so much. She needs to relearn everything about herself and the world. Until then, there's no way he can really love Neha herself. After all, Neha is still 14 year old Neha. She's not the eventual woman she will become. And there's a huge difference between a 14 year old and an adult woman.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: lovely_lady

Great post! My feelings exactly!

Thank you very much Lovely_lady.😃

Their love story is coming across as so artificial! Aman does not love Neha as he does not know Neha. Neha herself does not know who she is. I'm waiting for the show to embark upon her journey of self-discovery. She's just recently awoken from a 12 year coma. Things have changed so much. She needs to relearn everything about herself and the world.

You are right. 😊 I too want to watch Neha's journey.

Until then, there's no way he can really love Neha herself. After all, Neha is still 14 year old Neha. She's not the eventual woman she will become. And there's a huge difference between a 14 year old and an adult woman.


I agree with you. Cvs need not to rush the show. I know Aman has to make a decision whether he wants to continue with marring Akku or not. He is now aware that he isn't in love with her. And there is a lot to learn from Neha. Aman and Neha didn't grow emotionally since they were 14 yrs. It will be interesting to watch them helping each other in descovering their selves. Who they are?and what do they want.😕


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Posted: 10 years ago
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Hello all I am a lurker and have been watching from the beginning and strongly agree with everytjing however I feel they should do a flashback storyline aswell about the accident and her years in coma...what do u all think
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: neetusidhu

Hello all I am a lurker and have been watching from the beginning and strongly agree with everytjing however I feel they should do a flashback storyline aswell about the accident and her years in coma...what do u all think


Thanks for comment Neetu.😊

Good idea. ⭐️ We need to know more about this.

Also I loved that flashback of Neha and Aman's childhood. Those kids were super cute. And I want to see more of them.😊
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Posted: 10 years ago
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No problem awida...so glad someone agrees with...hope the writers decode to show the incident and the aftermath
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I am wary of labelling what Aman feels around Neha as 'love'. Sure, he laughs and smiles and feels carefree but so does everyone else. When Neha came back everything changed even in her own household. Everyone started smiling more, they started having breakfast together, they stayed up till 4am eating pakoras and started enjoying the little moments in life which we otherwise lose in the process of growing up. So why is this being given a romantic undertone when it comes to Aman? Just because he's not a blood-relative? I might have felt a little differently had Aman been a little reciprocal of Neha's feelings twelve years ago but he wasn't, at least not what we have seen so far.
I do support the pairing eventually but not at this stage of the show and where they are as people, specially Neha. She needs to have that journey from a 14-year-old to 26-year-old and figure out what to do with life. And I know this will not happen on the show but it is a possibility that once such a person emotionally matures to their physical age, they might decide that their teenage crush was just that: a crush which they outgrew. They further complicated matters by getting Akku and Aman engaged.

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