Sanjana Vs. Mani

Hi friends,

I saw the episode tonight at 7:30 after a long time.. my usual time is at 11.. but today I had the time to watch and I did. There are many good writers and analyzers on this forum. I enjoy their take on the episodes better than giving mine😉. I saw many posts tonight saying Ishita was wrong about the trust rant that she made with Raman because she herself did not trust Raman in Sanjana's case. Well, I have something to say about that.. so, here goes my first post😳

Disclaimer: I love this show and also both Raman and Ishita.. I do not favor either one and I am only putting my opinion out.

1) Sanjana was a character planted by Shagun to create a misunderstanding in Ishita's mind. Sanjana told Ishita that she was Raman's GF and Mihir's sister and Raman was responsible for breaking up the bro-sis duo. Ishita believed Sanjana because she did not know Raman's past after Shagun left him. She thought he must have had a relationship with Sanjana after Shagun and that he did not tell her anything about it. Moreover Mihir and Raman did not want to talk about Mihir's sister even after Ishita asked them several times. So, she felt that Sanjana's story was true. And yes, she is wrong in trusting some girl she met just days before. But her MU was fueled by Raman's silence about revealing Mihir's story. I am not saying Raman was wrong because it was not Raman's secret to reveal; it was Mihir's.

Ishita did not feel bad that Raman had an affair with Sanjana, but she felt bad that he did not tell her about it. But she would NEVER have believed Sanjana if she had said that Raman was having an affair with her NOW.. that is when he is married to Ishita. She believed Sanjana because it was about Raman's past, before SHE came into his life. ISHITA WOULD NEVER FOR A SECOND DOUBT THAT RAMAN WOULD CHEAT ON HER. She was only mad that he did not tell her about Sanjana. She infact trusted Raman so much that she brought Shagun to the house when she was drunk.

2) Mani is Ishita's friend who is very close to her and Raman was very insecure about their relationship because Mani liked Ishita back in the day. Raman felt that Mani was a serious threat to him(I don't blame him,, at the rate Ishita was going Mani mani mani😡). He did not doubt Ishita but did not trust Mani as he caught Mani flirting with Ishita several times. When Mani told him in the hospital that Raman was not a good husband, Raman did everything to please Ishita because he believed they were Ishita's words which were shared with Mani. And when he saw her trying the bracelet on Mani, his insecurity reached new heights.. to the fear of rejection.. so, he rejected her bracelet and also implied that she bought it for Mani because she liked him. Which to Ishita meant that RAMAN DID NOT TRUST HER WITH MANI NOW! Which inturn means ISHITA WAS CHEATING ON RAMAN! That is where ISHITA"S TRUST issue comes in that she talks about to Raman. She says she can take anything but not 'shaq'.. shaq she was talking about is Raman's shaq that she IS CHEATING ON HIM.

In my mind, these are two different circumstances. In Sanjana's case, Ishita was only mad that Raman did not tell her about his past as opposed to Mani's case where Raman insinuated that Ishita was emotionally cheating on him. Hence Ishita did not forgive him in tonight's episode.. and Raman knew what he said when he threw the bracelet was wrong. That is why Raman's reaction on Sanjana's case was flirtatious as he came to know that Ishita was feeling jealous. Now, he feels apologetic because he knows he accused her.

I liked the episode and would love to see how they patch up this time. We have always seen a very forgiving Ishita.. would love to see Raman manaofying her for once! And yes, in all this, there was NO MANI in tongiht's episode😃

Cheers

Hima😉

I want to slap these two, lock them in a room and only allow them to come out if they talk and hash out all the differences. 😊

I said, Ishita felt like he was doubting her.. I do not believe Raman was doubting her. Please read properly before commenting😊