Will u tolerate a man coming near you unnecessarily & deliberately

Will you tolerate a man coming near you unnecessarily & deliberately?

After watching 8th October episode, the first thought which came in to my mind was about one's self respect and how can we tolerate one person if he/she tries to come near you, tries to touch you unnecessarily and deliberately?

Palash who is a painter, a well known and established painter by his profession tries to go near a married lady in the excuse of making her portrait on the canvas which has made him what he is today. He has worshiped his art, his talent but now he is doing 'the misuse' of his talent by using it as a way to go close to a lady who is merely his imagination and not reality, Venus, who do not appear to be on this world is accidentally a look-alike portrait of a live person, Mrs. Anandi Shiv Raj Shekhar!

Anandi who was not fully agreed to receive her own portrait and to do modelling for palash has agreed because others have advised her to. She did not knew earlier that this may create havoc in her life. This seemed to be a easy but it is certainly not!

So, the question is, as we all saw, Anandi was never comfortable with Palash, but agreed to be with him to respect his art and talent, and tried to tolerate his gestures towards her. Anandi is a strong woman who cannot tolerate any other man's wrong behavior with herself!

We cannot blame Anandi or Shiv or family for this as all were unaware.

So, will you tolerate a man coming near you unnecessarily and deliberately?

A very good topic for discussion !👏

Friends ...just recollect that incident , one of the greatest scenes of this epic show ----when Anandi was about to leave to marriage venue ...Jaggiya entered in to her room and gifted her Shiv -Parvathi statue to her and after some beautiful soliloquy type expressions on past dreams and realities ...when tears rolled from the eyes of Anandi ...Jaggiya stretched his hand to wipe his childhood friends' tears ...with a classic stern look Anandi stopped him from touching her !!!

That is the character of Anandi !

Toleration is the practice of deliberately allowing or permitting a person or thing of which one disapproves. Tolerance is an attitude of mind ...that implies non-judgmental acceptance of different lifestyles or beliefs, whereas toleration implies putting up with something that one disapproves of!

I want to make one thing very clear here ! I'm not saying that you should put up with behavior that annoys you ! This is not about being meek and humble and never complaining about the mistakes that others make. This is about not getting angry over annoying people, because getting angry is rarely good for you...esp it is not Anandi's characteristic trait ! That's why she is trying to adjust ...but---

Once in a while, getting angry may be just the ticket. It can be exactly what's needed to unlock a tight situation !At times we must know how to say NO !.

But as Aristotle said - it's not about getting angry, it's about getting angry in the right way.' And in most situations, keeping your cool is better for you, and produces better results !

No I won't. I will always try to keep a safe distance from a man if I don't feel comfortable around him. Here Anandi was uncomfortable around him since day 1, its her sixth sense telling her that something is wrong with this man. Inspite of that she agreed to pose for him because I guess she herself didn't find the idea totally unappealing, plus Shiv was also kinda up for this...Having said that I'm sure Anandi will not tolerate Palash's indecent behaviour with her in the near future. Going by the precap Shiv is already furious with Palash about something...Good that she is sharing everything with Shiv.

Will not tolerate a man who does that.