Deepika-Only one sign that a woman wants to have sex. If she says YES.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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From her Facebook Page :)


My Point of View...

There is only ONE sign that a woman wants to have sex and that is that she says "YES".

The reason I write the above line is because we all know that in India we are so desperately trying to make a change in the way sections of our society think in order to move towards a happier world devoid of inequality,rape,fear and pain.

I am not naive about my own profession; it is one that requires lots of demanding things of me. A character may demand that I be clothed from head to toe or be completely naked, and it will be my choice as an actor whether or not I take either. Understand that this is a ROLE and not REAL, and it is my job to portray whatever character I choose to play convincingly.

What my concern is and I am stating it clearly so it is not misconstrued or confused with Shahrukh's 8-pack or any other woman's or man's anatomy. I have spoken out against an ideology that such regressive tactics are still being employed to draw a reader's attention at a time when we are striving for women's equality and empowerment. In a time where women should be applauded for making headway in a male-dominated society,we blur the lines between REEL and REAL life and dilute all our efforts by making a one-year old back sliding piece of news a headline. Digging out an old article and headlining it "OMG: Deepika's Cleavage Show!" to attract readers is using the power of influence to proliferate recessive thought.
When an actresses inner wear decides to do a "peek-a-boo",she most definitely did not step out with the intention to do so.So instead of zooming in,circling it and pointing arrows at it,why don't we give her some 'respect' and let it go instead of making it 'headlines'!? Are we not human?Yes we marvel,envy and drool over a male actors 8pack abs in a film,but do we zoom in on the mans 'crotch' when he makes a public appearance and make that 'cheap headlines'??!!

I have no issue celebrating my body and I have never shied away from anything on-screen to portray a character. In fact my next character portrayed is a bar dancer (sorry Farah for the spoiler!) who titillates men as a means to support her livelihood. My issue is you propagating the objectification of a REAL person,and not a character being played. Sure,dissect my characters if you wish-if it is of so much interest then discuss the character's cup size and leg length if it is relevant to making the role convincing. All I am asking for is respect as a woman off-screen.

It is not about breasts,penises,or any other body part being reported.It is a matter of context and how out-of-context the reportage is just to sell a headline. And more so during a time in dire need of an attitude shift towards women.

For me this topic ends here.Everyone is entitled to an opinion.I have little interest to take this further as it might get more attention than it deserves and might be further misconstrued and twisted to sell more undeserved headlines.

Having said that,please may we show love,dignity and respect to each other.

Live well, laugh often and love much.

Deepika Padukone
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Well said.

Now I hope no one views the bra/panty and wardrobe malfunction news so that the views reduces and the websites stop posting them.😆
Edited by .Elixir. - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Gina101

So instead of zooming in,circling it and pointing arrows at it,why don't we give her some 'respect' and let it go instead of making it 'headlines'!? Are we not human?Yes we marvel,envy and drool over a male actors 8pack abs in a film,but do we zoom in on the mans 'crotch' when he makes a public appearance and make that 'cheap headlines'??!!


Yes we do. You can just look online for the countless websites which thrive on male nudity.



I have no issue celebrating my body and I have never shied away from anything on-screen to portray a character. In fact my next character portrayed is a bar dancer (sorry Farah for the spoiler!) who titillates men as a means to support her livelihood. My issue is you propagating the objectification of a REAL person,and not a character being played. Sure,dissect my characters if you wish-if it is of so much interest then discuss the character's cup size and leg length if it is relevant to making the role convincing. All I am asking for is respect as a woman off-screen.


So this is her justification for her hypocrisy. The onscreen character might be fictional, but isn't she still a woman. This is nothing but sheer hypocrisy.

And which character were you playing here?


You expose 99% of your leg, and don't expect people to stare and drool? So much for being worried about "RESPECT for women" and the double standards.

Roll in the fake outrage now.
Edited by OrganizedChaos - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Gina101

From her Facebook Page :)

What my concern is and I am stating it clearly so it is not misconstrued or confused with Shahrukh's 8-pack or any other woman's or man's anatomy. I have spoken out against an ideology that such regressive tactics are still being employed to draw a reader's attention at a time when we are striving for women's equality and empowerment. In a time where women should be applauded for making headway in a male-dominated society,we blur the lines between REEL and REAL life and dilute all our efforts by making a one-year old back sliding piece of news a headline. Digging out an old article and headlining it "OMG: Deepika's Cleavage Show!" to attract readers is using the power of influence to proliferate recessive thought.
When an actresses inner wear decides to do a "peek-a-boo",she most definitely did not step out with the intention to do so.So instead of zooming in,circling it and pointing arrows at it,why don't we give her some 'respect' and let it go instead of making it 'headlines'!? Are we not human?Yes we marvel,envy and drool over a male actors 8pack abs in a film,but do we zoom in on the mans 'crotch' when he makes a public appearance and make that 'cheap headlines'??!!



This 👍🏼

Those low camera angles and high camera angles to capture a panty or nip shot is nauseating.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Edited by Deewangi - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Gina101



...issue is you propagating the objectification of a REAL person,and not a character being played. Sure,dissect my characters if you wish-if it is of so much interest then discuss the character's cup size and leg length if it is relevant to making the role convincing. All I am asking for is respect as a woman off-screen.

It is not about breasts,penises,or any other body part being reported.It is a matter of context and how out-of-context the reportage is just to sell a headline. And more so during a time in dire need of an attitude shift towards women.


THIS right here! Preach sista! :D
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Posted: 11 years ago
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So glad she wrote this letter. 👏


For me this topic ends here.Everyone is entitled to an opinion.I have little interest to take this further as it might get more attention than it deserves and might be further misconstrued and twisted to sell more undeserved headlines.


👍🏼
Edited by MoodyFoodie - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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For Shobha De and Pooja Bedi, this is a the apt, crisp and the blunt reply. She covered all the points smartly.


Whatever her intention was at that time, I dont know, but I know this reply will work in her favour.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I respect Deepika's stand but this whole open letter thing has become a joke now
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Posted: 11 years ago
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If there is anyone in this forum who dislikes Deepika the most, it is ME. I say this with all honesty. However, I think as a woman, it is my duty to stand by her. I agree with her points, her profession requires her to expose and actresses are required to look "hot". I do not know if this is a publicity stunt or not, but I want to say that she has the right to speak her mind.
I do hope, Deepika remembers about the Katrina's bikini incident. She had said " media is doing their job, id be careful". I am not holding it against her because she obviously didn't understand how it felt to be on the spotlight for the wrong reasons. Katrina wore a bikini on her vacation, that was her private moment which she was reluctant to share with the world. Deepika wears such clothes in media and then cries aloud. But whatever, I agree that cameras shouldn't be zoomed to her breasts.


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