Deepika-Only one sign that a woman wants to have sex. If she says YES. - Page 15

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: Heisenberg.


The truth is we objectify people all the time, anyone we find attractive we objectify, straight men objectify women, straight women objectify men, lesbians objectify other women, gay men objectify men.


When we see an attractive woman or man, we see them as objects of our attraction at that moment, we don't really care at that moment in time that they are a complex human being with feelings and emotions, with problems and troubles, anymore than the random people and homeless people we walk past everyday without showing a care of concern that they are a complex biological organism with intellectual and emotional capacities.

Just take the level of objectification that happens here, actors and actresses are scrutinised threadbare purely on the basis of their physical characteristics, they are dissected, mocked, made fun of, ridiculed and dehumanised on the basis of their looks and sexuality, they are reduced to nothing more than a bunch of physical traits and body parts, aren't they also complex human beings with feelings and emotions who deserve the respect and dignity that you want for yourself?, where is the feminist outrage then?, they only seem to appear when it suits them... the usual excuse here is that since they are public figures and earn money on the basis of their looks, then they have the right to criticise and mock as much as they want... you say that just cause a person shoots some provocative magazine ads, it doesn't mean that they can be objectified 24/7, but people do that here all the time, actors and actresses get objectified even in candid shots with fans, or any pictures taken outside of their professional life, again mocking, bashing, fawning on the basis of their physical characteristics, so feminist principles go for a hike when you wanna indulge in a bit of bashing for entertainment.

Ofcourse, culture needs to change for the better, and I see change occurring in India, albeit slowly, but it's a positive sign, and a steo in the right direction. But I don't see how selling yourself as a sex product is helping anything, it's just doing more damage atm, it's like a house is on fire and you wanna add more fuel to it.




We all objectify people we find attractive. That is why I don't think objectification in itself is wrong. A lot of time that's our most interaction with them - a few fleeting moments of objectification. At some point though the normal person acknowledges that the other person is a human and needs to be treated as such.

I admit there is a lot of hypocrisy here in the forums. We do treat celebrities as pieces of flesh and objects of entertainment. I am guilty of it too. TOI publishes a video focusing on cleavage because we as a society form a culture that consumes the celebrity as a product disregarding the fact that they are human.

There has to be some line though. I don't know where the line exactly should be. I definitely think when a reputed news source resorts to sleazy voyeurism, things have gone too far. A few anonymous user id's on a forum dissecting a celebrities looks aren't as significant as a mainstream newspaper. That is not an excuse for the individual though. If we really are outraged about the issue, the least we can do is try to be aware of how we ourselves view celebrities.

The fact remains though that what TOI did was out of bounds. A journalist should not be a voyeur waiting for a wardrobe malfunction or revealing footage. I think we should be able to unanimously reject such journalism at the very least, irrespective what we feel about the celebrity.


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Posted: 11 years ago
She does not have big boobies she was wearing covered long clothes in that pic its harder to notice anything so thats the reason why cameramen had to peep inside her blouse from a top angle to capture a good close view of her boobies 😆 😆




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Posted: 11 years ago
Edited by light_year - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
Oh I didn't see this...
And what's the point she is trying to make here? Was the guy trying to have sex with her? Or she is just trying to gain a few more feminists on her side? LOL

I like deepika Btw...😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
@Lovanika
for your kind information majority of the people here who are objecting to deepika's letter and find her hypocritical are NOT EVEN KATRINA FANS but of course you use that excuse always 😆


and secondly why is it a MUST that Katrina should comment on this matter? she has done 1 event after Deepika's rant on twitter, and in that interview she was not asked about it!

and secondly before making ignorant comments like "Katrina is not commenting about this issue because it is not bothering her" then do your research better 😛

At the bang bang song launch before the event started she stated loud and clear: "I request all photographers to please NOT take photos from low angles(don't intentionally try and take pic from under my dress) and at Dhoom 3 song launch she stated the same, so stop this whole only deepika is targeted...

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Deepika will milk this for ever, quiet clear it is a publicity stunt for her film...

anyways #PrayForDeepika the bechari who only got targeted by TOI😭
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: blue-ice


Nope...not even if she turns up fully naked...even then its not a sign..😃



yea yea, when she turns up naked and opens her leg wide open and grabs your penis and inserts it herself then I guess that's a sign but even then tell her that 'r u okay with this? I don't want to force u into doing anything that u don't want, please take deep breaths and decide again, u might regret it later and if u do then its rape and its not your fault as I forced u into it'

rite 😆
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: OrganizedChaos





You expose 99% of your leg, and don't expect people to stare and drool? So much for being worried about "RESPECT for women" and the double standards.

Roll in the fake outrage now.



You being female & saying all this! I don't know what to say! So u expect that ' those pervert' people will not stare you if you are fully clothed!!??? hmm...🥱
Edited by -Shraddha- - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: shaddy25



You being female & saying all this! I don't know what to say! So u expect that ' those pervert' people will not stare you if you are fully clothed!!??? hmm...🥱


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Posted: 11 years ago


Aren't they thinking the same?? 😕

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