Who's at fault??

This is my take on today's Sumeet - Dolly fiasco :

According to me, today Dolly was majorly at fault. Why??
I agree Sumeet lied to her and so her frustration was justified. But is she really a kid?? I mean why she was sulking so much on one small issue??
She says Sumeet never really cared or loved her but I say that Dolly don't love him .
Why she is pressurising him so much to seperate from his family right after their marriage. I do agree her mother-in-law is not easy to go with but Dolly is behaving like she wants everything the way she wished ... Without thinking of her partner. He's the only son of his parents... They can separate after sometime.

Also today, Nisha was also wrong when jumped in between Dolly - Sumeet fight. Umesh was right its their matter, let them handle. And loving or caring for ur cousin doesn't mean you will support her in stupid things.
Hacking someone's official mail Id and sending such unprofessional mails is very embarrassing and stupid on Dolly and Nisha's part.

There was no need for Sourabh to get harsh with Sumeet ... Unless he has feelings for Dolly ...

Anyways I find Dolly irritating one, always absorbed in her iwn world... That raises a question in my mind

When parents fixes a marriage of their kids, shouldn't they consider the maturity level of their kids in handling matters??

Shaadi ki umra hona hi kafi nahi hota...

Well its my opinion.

Firstly, Sumit shouldn't have lied to Dolly. But Dolly deffinitely shouldn't have gone ahead with the hacking thing. It was very wrong. Sumit was right in getting angry.
I've said this before the two of them should have fought it out between them. No one should've got involved. And i don't think saurav has any feelings for dolly. He is in the cousins gang from when he was little so has a comfort level with them that's probably why we see him getting too involved. Aur kuch nahin.
I sometimes find Dolly irritating (like today in the hacking business) but most of the time i think she's just immature. Kuch log aise bhi hote hai believe it or not. Like i have said previously, now is the time she'll start to learn from her mistakes (hopefully cv's) because after she gets married her cousins won't be able to support her in everything.

I think elders should've given her some seekh before her marriage. They knew how she is so why didn't they train her before hand if they wanted to get her married at this age?

Obvio dolly was at fault nd i dont ame sumit at all for bieng angry!Fine he lied she couldhave confronted him rather than creating an embarrassing situation like this..nishu i guess she shouldnt ha e spoken up bw them bt its nishu nd saurabh went a lil ott there obvio he was behaving as such he has feelings for her!

Sumit not only hid truth about his transfer, but also
1) he ran away keeping her alone at the roof, where his mom came and declared that if it is Dolly's fault, than she'll break the wedding. For which Nisha is still suffering.Did he told his mom about the truth ? Did he once said thanks to Nisha ? No. Even Ritesh did, but not he.
2)He gave all the money she got as shagun. Shadi toh abhi hua bhi nehi. Already he is taking everything , even the shagun from her? Untill marriage , isn't that her property? But he kept on listening only to his moma. He is his mother's son. Keya woh kisiki beti nehi? She is leaving her family, her name and her every thing here just to be with him. At least here he could say "no". Manners naam ka bhi koi cheeze hai.

But still what Dolly did was stupid, immature and above all unprofessional. But who says Dolly is intelligent or mature or professional. She is the idiot girl who is still marrying Sumit, after knowing , "no matter what happens she'll always be blamed and he'll hide under moma's achol". If she was a clever girl like Kirti, she would ditch him long ago. If she had the maturity like even Nisha she'd have more fight with him.

What Saurav did, I'm puzzled. Because Nisha was against it. Then why Saurav helped Dolly? May be he is another Sukku.

But at the end this is what cousins do. No matter we are right or wrong they stand with us. Do stupid mistakes like this. It can make Sumit jobless. But these cousins are a group of "pagols". Not a single one is matured or practical. Is this the first time they've created a trouble? No. I guess there will be more in the future. But I'm taking the whole thing as fun. Accha hua . Sumit ko kuch pereshani toh mila. If he loses the job for these crazy cousins, then they too will get more punishments. I guess tomorrow we will see how they get their punishments. I'm loving the way they are showing critical and serious issues in a funny manner.

Who is at fault nishu, dolly sumit and surabh we can generate a good poll on it...lol. laughter apart this serial is really showing which is getting very general in today's life. No girl want mil like dolly has it's not 80's aur 90's serial where if girl n boy will meet before marriage that means u will break it.

In my point both dolly and sumit are at fault. Dolly is not feeling secure abt her future with sumit which leads her what she did and this is very natural if girl like dolly who is very pampered at our home and not getting proper response from sumit in future it will cause problems in their married life which definitely impact both personal and professional life's.
Heads to cv, director of the show who are trying to show real scenario of today's life. I'll not say that dolly and sumit are not mature but their is something more then maturity and they are showing it perfectly till now.

Of course , Dolly is at fault for sending the email.