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Posted: 11 years ago
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I have never actually understood the need to pair Durga with anyone in this show.

My biggest objection to Dev and Nitya would be that when he found out that his Best Friend and her sister Payal were in dire trouble especially accused by his cousin he chose to stay back in the U S.

He should not have stayed back especially if he professed to have loved her back then.

To be talked out of that decision tells me he did not then nor does he now have the gumption to fight for what he wants.

Secondly, when all is said and done he is after all a Goenka. He may be the good one but Durga marrying into the family that destroyed her whole family should be the furthest thing from Nitya's mind.

Dev's character is weak and is easily persuaded to keep quiet by his mother and Shakshi. He has even after all that has happened has not been able to deduce that his family has to have something to do with covering up the Rape Case to save Shaurya.

Dev could have gone and talked to witnesses that besmirched Payal's reputation and asked them as to WHY they said the things they did. Someone could have given him a hint that they changed their minds because of Shakshi. The bought witnesses must be feeling mighty guilty and one of them could easily have given him a lead.

Dev is NOT at present a good match for Durga. He is a mere distraction to Durga and her plan to avenge her sister and family.

He has NOT helped till now and and Durga needs to overcome her confused feelings and concentrate on completing her mission to get justice.

When Durga has accomplished what she came to do then she can marry whomever she wants.




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Posted: 11 years ago
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I wouldn't marry a guy like Dev at all.
He may be educated, decent, rich, well mannered. But he is not street smart. Often ignores the obvious. He gets bullied easily and is weak. He gets too influenced by others to use his own brain.

I would never feel protected and safe to face anything in the world with a man like Dev.

He is not what a householder ought to be.

Honestly there is no such thing as perfect match.

I don't see need to pair Durga with anyone as of now.

But if it had to be someone it would be a man like Neil.

I said Neil because he was not only educated, handsome but also fun. He could counter Durga's seriousness. He had biggest advantage of having no strings attached. Dev is a Goenka which is a huge hurdle in Durga's battle and her well being. That family could meddle any time, never leave them in peace in any part of the world.

Neil helped Durga readily after knowing her story. He supported and applauded her mission. I am sure had he been given more training and info then he would be perfect against Goenkas.

He had a voice and in one day he took digs at Sakshi and Shaurya!

Durga deserves a guy like Neil who is unattached with Goenkas, is street smart and gutsy besides being educated and pther qualities.

But in this story they keep plugging Dev who has qualities but equally huge disadvantages and weaknesses. Dev might be good for Nitya as standalone. But not in her battles. Not as Durga. Not even in general family matters as he can never stand up to his family or defy mummy. He is more debilitating than strengthening.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#13
Sorry to say but DEV IS NOT PERFECT FOR ANY1 ...


neither Nitya Nor Durga...


and the main reason is NON OTHER THAN CV/PH the way they portrayed DEV ,he may b Honest/educated/well-manner &good human BUT BIG FOOL who never observed anything carefully..


If Nitya get married to Dev then either Dev had to leave GOENKA's ID Or nitya had stay in her house BCOZ i dont think any goenka would b ready to Accept driver's daughter as their DIL..
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If this durga get married to dev then he'll proved as ANOTHER BIG WEAKNESS for her mission ...
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If REAL durga{dayal's daughter} get married to dev then she might enter Goenka mension BCOZ OF same status


But what if shaurya likes her ??


What if she comes to know raj/ sakshi's any secret and they want to kill her??




What if she too want some power of Goenka empire like Sakshi&u know sakshi'll never leave it so want to attack her???


Will DEV ever b able to save his Wife??!!!


Until CV brings any change in his role, he cant b fit for anything Spy/husband/BF xcept perfect son & bro...


Dont get Y they introduce DEV when they didnt change his role a little bit till now ?? !!!


Did they bring him only to show some OLD LOVE STORY/friendship!!??


Im sorry to say BUT until CV/PH wont bring any change in DEV, he'll remain as a weakness of Durga in any angle whatever it is...




But yes Strong point for opposition...


Edited by Sana_J. - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
#14
in eht land dev is perfect match becos he is mr. white,spineless,brainless n dilse sochne wale goenka by birth only n d only richest clan in d world n in eht world dev types r every girl's dream husband as he is rich big dumbo n spineless too 🤪 😆 according to d lunatic goenka fans cvs lol.
Edited by Savz_Startling - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Television shows believes in stereotypes.
Since Shaurya is the black sheep, Dev has to be the white donkey.

Shaurya is a spoilt brat Dev is a 'agyakari' beta

Shaurya is a womaniser Dev is a one woman man

Shaurya disrespects everyone Dev respects everyone

Shaurya has a fake degeee Dev has a real degree
Shaurya is immature Dev is a mature man

And so on...


To make one character evil, they make the other character a simpleton. To make a character clever or calculative, others will automatically turn dumb. To make one bahu manipulative other will have to become an ideal tyag ki murti type bahu. It is called theory of relativity. Something is better than nothing


Perfection is the word that exists onlyin the dictionary. God never made it and man will never make it. I wonder why the TV shows come up with such larger than life characters.

Its general trait of all humans to calculate his own profit or loss before doing anything for others. But in Tv shows you will find the leads giving away their shares for their siblings or cousins while their own children would be left to starve. This is neither possible nor logical. In many cases we see such brilliant sacrifices 'mera bhai/behen tumse pyar karta/karti hai so I can't marry you. Like really ? You make your sibling marry your mate to keep them happy ? Is this what an ideal man or woman is suppose to do ?


An ideal man is suppose to keep his woman safe. Dev can do that ? I wonder...I know he is a great man with all godly qualities but the day his mother says, " Nitya ne mera ghar tod diya" he will quietly and with desperate emotions and not to forgot with tearful eyes can say, 'Nitya tum chali jao yaha se' I need not argue on this because all the Tv shows come up with such dialogues.


Thus, I am still confused about the logic to why I am to believe Dev is the lead here. Basically, Shaurya's imperfect character makes us believe Dev is a perfect match. But at the end of the day, love is part of life and not everythng.

Remember Lata Mangshkar's song


" Pyar se jaruri kai kaam hai

Pyar sab kuch nahi hai zindagi ke liye "

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