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Posted: 11 years ago
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I don't think anyone is forcing Myrah to like Rudra shes being herself at that house and IF she does fall for Rudra i don't think there will be anyone forcing her.
I agree she does love her mischievous antics and are child like but it don't mean she is still a child now does it, i mean look we all do childish things when we grow up but it don't mean we are kids does it.

IF myrah decides to marry Rudra then that isn't a decision of a Kid, to accept a family and fill in the role of a mother for a kid isn't a childish decision it is a decision of a very wise and mature women a childish woman would never see past the guy already having a child, a mature and wise woman accepts the baggage that comes with a relationship no matter what the situation is and it takes a women with a bigger heart to accept a relationship where she might not be love of his life but intends to be, don't get me wrong i to wish she could be paro but if she is not then i won't be unhappy either, infact i would be happy in the fact that a new love story will start might not be love at the start but eventually that door will open to in my opinion.


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Posted: 11 years ago
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I agree with most of you. As a stand alone character, Myrah is good. I suppose she's more relatable to the average girl. However, it would be really sad if Myrah falls for Rudra and automatically assumes the role of Paro and Dhruv's mother and on the other side, Rudra only falling for Myrah because she looks like Paro. It's not fair on either of them because they'd just be doing things based on these false expectations of each other and the situation.

I really believe in 2nd chances for widows and widowers, but I cannot accept it when Rudra and Paro were/are soul mates and cannot survive without each other and when the new girl is a humshakal of Paro. I mean, the latter is just so creepy. How would Myrah know if Rudra loves her for her and not her face? Heck, how would Rudra know if he really loves Myrah? It would be a relationship of constant insecurity. Yes, love is the answer, but Myrud isn't and wouldnt be true love because Rudra already has/had his true love and that was Paro.


Myrud is basically not fair to either of these two individuals. Not to myrah because she's an innocent girl from the West who deserves someone who loves her the way Rudra loves Paro. Not to Rudra because he doesn't want anyone else besides Paro.


At least to me, the ONLY way to justify this would be that Myrah is Paro. To the CVs, it might be different, but to any sound RR viewer - casual or obsessed - Myrah and Rudra cannot work.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: PhoenixRising

Exactly!! no woman would want there niece, daughter or sister to end up in a situation like this.

If my daughter comes to me and said she wants to married a widow man with a 7 year old kid. I would slap some sense into her before locking her up in a room.

I'm still waiting to see this Rohit guy, if he really loves her then it would be stupid of Myrah to let go of a guy like that for a widow man who's in love with his dead wife.


plzz don't take my comment the wrong way i just like this topic and want a healthy discussion on it and interested in the answers

interesting reaction
but let me ask you this say it was the other way around instead of your daughter wanting to marry a widower what if your daughter was the widower would you still say the same?

would you not want your daughter to marry again and be happy?


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Posted: 11 years ago
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I feel bad for the viewers, the true fans of the screenplay in its original form.😭
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: IMMI-


plzz don't take my comment the wrong way i just like this topic and want a healthy discussion on it and interested in the answers

interesting reaction
but let me ask you this say it was the other way around instead of your daughter wanting to marry a widower what if your daughter was the widower would you still say the same?

would you not want your daughter to marry again and be happy?




I don't mean to intrude on your reply to PhoenixRising, but I just want to say that in theory, a widow or widower re-marrying is perfectly justified. Even in real life, it certainly is perfectly fine to re-marry.

However, I feel like this argument doesn't apply in Rudra and Rangrasiya's case. Rudra had his true love already. He doesn't want anyone else but her (up until now). Here's it's not a matter of hypotheticals, it is that Rudra falling for Myrah when his lifeline is solely dependent on Paro's wish to raise Dhruv with love and laughter goes completely against his character and the story's concept. This is fiction and in this fictional story, there isn't Rudra without Paro.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: squivi



I don't mean to intrude on your reply to PhoenixRising, but I just want to say that in theory, a widow or widower re-marrying is perfectly justified. Even in real life, it certainly is perfectly fine to re-marry.

However, I feel like this argument doesn't apply in Rudra and Rangrasiya's case. Rudra had his true love already. He doesn't want anyone else but her (up until now). Here's it's not a matter of hypotheticals, it is that Rudra falling for Myrah when his lifeline is solely dependent on Paro's wish to raise Dhruv with love and laughter goes completely against his character and the story's concept. This is fiction and in this fictional story, there isn't Rudra without Paro.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: squivi



I don't mean to intrude on your reply to PhoenixRising, but I just want to say that in theory, a widow or widower re-marrying is perfectly justified. Even in real life, it certainly is perfectly fine to re-marry.

However, I feel like this argument doesn't apply in Rudra and Rangrasiya's case. Rudra had his true love already. He doesn't want anyone else but her (up until now). Here's it's not a matter of hypotheticals, it is that Rudra falling for Myrah when his lifeline is solely dependent on Paro's wish to raise Dhruv with love and laughter goes completely against his character and the story's concept. This is fiction and in this fictional story, there isn't Rudra without Paro.


Exactly this thing we r not watching to learn the philosophies of life nor to learn about the reality of things. This was a fictional story that gave us certain expectations. Here generalization of factors doesn't apply.
THIS IS about Paro and Rudra. One without the other in incomplete, they r 2 parts of one whole.. And as there is a saying 'once she is gone there is a hole in the shape of her left in his heart... no one else is going to fit in there because only her shape would be carved to fill that void..'
For Rudra its like that.. it will always be like that..

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: squivi



I don't mean to intrude on your reply to PhoenixRising, but I just want to say that in theory, a widow or widower re-marrying is perfectly justified. Even in real life, it certainly is perfectly fine to re-marry.

However, I feel like this argument doesn't apply in Rudra and Rangrasiya's case. Rudra had his true love already. He doesn't want anyone else but her (up until now). Here's it's not a matter of hypotheticals, it is that Rudra falling for Myrah when his lifeline is solely dependent on Paro's wish to raise Dhruv with love and laughter goes completely against his character and the story's concept. This is fiction and in this fictional story, there isn't Rudra without Paro.


Isn''t this story based on othello?

i haven't read othello but dosen't othello kill his soul mate because of a miss understanding hence loosing his love of his life?

so fictional stories can have tragic moments can't they?
reguarding the love for paro and just seeing myrah as a fill in as a mum for the kid that is abit bad

but every story has a harsh twist to it and my hope is that he starts to fall for myrah and loves her in return

don't get me wrong if she turns out to be paro in the end it won't bother me either way like i said before i like the storyline and the way its going because i like to see tragedy in a fictional story too as well as a good ending

Also i know its about paro and rudra but the reason i replied to PhoenixRising was because she talked about real life hence the reply i give
most of the comments i have read people have talked about real life too thats why i wrote that comment
Edited by IMMI- - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: IMMI-


Isn''t this story based on othello?

i haven't read othello but dosen't othello kill his soul mate because of a miss understanding hence loosing his love of his life?

so fictional stories can have tragic moments can't they?


No this story is NOT based on Othello. Rudra's character was inspired by Othello's character.

Fictional stories can definitely have tragic moments but if they will they should advertise it as tragic. I watched this show because it was advertised that the show is about two soul mates who find each other despite their own respective pains and hurdles in life. Rangrasiya was about Rudra and Paro, and their journey in life together. "Rangrasiya" itself describes Paro and Rudra.

If it had been advertised from the beginning that this show is about a man who sleeps with one woman and treats her like an object for 8 years, and then happens upon another woman who he spends a short time with and she changes him for the better, and it will seem like they are the perfect couple, but unfortunately she dies and Rudra's story continues and he finds love again 7 years later; I would never have watched.

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