Why doesn't Nandini stand up for herself??

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shreya

@.Lilith.

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Posted: 11 years ago

I don't know if I'm the nth no. of person saying this, but REALLY NOW, why doesn't she??? 😡

I know she belongs from a small town and all that but that's just a PATHETIC EXCUSE!! I belong from a small town as well, and I knew there were these guys and girls who used to laugh behind my back for a variety of reasons, but never had the courage to do that in my face. Nandini doesn't have a personality to begin with! The only gutsy thing she did was slapping Maanik!

Though that hardly counts, as she had gotten herself into another mess...what for? Can't the CV's show her going to the police and report against them? Police doesn't always sway under the weight of gold, and these are deprived, sadistic retards by the look of it, so I doubt how far their parents would support them! And that's hardly the point.

My point is, why let the likes of Maanik make you look like a hopeless puppet? Someone who could be used the way one wants?

I know how the CV's are heavily hinting to a Maanik-Nandini union in the future...but should Nandini forgive him that easily? 🤢

About Harshad, from day one I had this feeling about him being shady...now I see numerous posts and comments having the same feeling. But at least he's got a spinal cord...I'd give him that. I know it was wrong to use Dhruv against Maanik- but I feel he's just equally guilty. May be he didn't actively participate in the whole ragging thing, but he didn't protest it either!

I know that he has been friends with them for long...but this is not healthy friendship! NO person in his/her right mind would support this sort of atrocity, regardless of the bond they have with the doer! If you love someone, you are supposed to STOP them from doing wrong. What he does looks more like 'Chamchagiri' 😡

I dunno if I'm gonna be bashed for this...but try and put yourself in Nandini's shoes and think! Would you take this sort of sh** from someone regardless of how that person looks or how obscenely rich that person is?

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Samana Bohara

@Targaryen-gal

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Posted: 11 years ago

Coz the CVs don't want her to! 😆
On a serious note, I think the CVs find bullying cool and normal. Yeah that is it. Otherwise why would they should a GIRL being pushed around by a BOY? like literally.
They are like ' O let's make manik bully nandini and show some romantic scenes later on coz that's gonna make everything okay!' No it's not! You stupid morons!
I am so pissed off that this show is showing bullying and the characters are accepting that. Wow like wth!

And harshad... I knew he was a negative. I mean haha he dated mukti!! He's a womanizer and he's gonna use navya and cause rift between nandi and manik.
Yup! This character is a copied one from BOF.

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DISHA

@shinaa

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Posted: 11 years ago

Just what i said in my post.

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shreya

@.Lilith.

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: Targaryen-gal
Coz the CVs don't want her to! 😆
On a serious note, I think the CVs find bullying cool and normal. Yeah that is it. Otherwise why would they should a GIRL being pushed around by a BOY? like literally.
They are like ' O let's make manik bully nandini and show some romantic scenes later on coz that's gonna make everything okay!' No it's not! You stupid morons!
I am so pissed off that this show is showing bullying and the characters are accepting that. Wow like wth!

And harshad... I knew he was a negative. I mean haha he dated mukti!! He's a womanizer and he's gonna use navya and cause rift between nandi and manik.
Yup! This character is a copied one from BOF.

Hang on... BOF?? What did I miss? 😕

Even I sorta felt that could have been the case (of Harshad dating Mukti and breaking up later) because of the manhandling scene and Mukti's convo with her mom.

That being said, IT IS NOT an excuse for being a moron!! 😡 😡 😡

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sadhanager

@sadhanager

Inactive

Posted: 11 years ago

If she is not going to kick him on face on monday, she is
going to be real disappointment to viewers, (not dhruv) her
ammamma, her chikkamma (who told once mumbai tumhe ladna means
jeena sikayegi)

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charminggenie

@charminggenie

Stunner

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Posted: 11 years ago

@Shelly - Share your sentiments about Bullying.

But considering its the remake of a Korean Drama - Boys over flowers,which had a group of guys bullying and a girl kind of brings changes in their life. So this serial has kept that angle intact - what I don't like here is , they are not treating it well. bullying is kind of romanticized , which they need to stop.

Nandini is almost accepting of their behavior , more than her not protesting - the fact that she is not resisting it internally is worrying. Her resigned behavior is sad and wrong.

I do get the fact that she is under his contract and the money sword is hanging on her head. But she should be street smart and look for loop-holes. I don't want her to warm up to any of them ever.

F5 are ridiculous , lost teens who have their own issues and they get their kick by bullying others. Thats how they are coping with their lives also its the only thing that binds them as a group. All of them equally - Dhruv included are to be blamed and should be taught some lesson.

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Samana Bohara

@Targaryen-gal

Dazzler

Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: shelly_08

Hang on... BOF?? What did I miss?😕

Even I sorta felt that could have been the case (of Harshad dating Mukti and breaking up later) because of the manhandling scene and Mukti's convo with her mom.

That being said, IT IS NOT an excuse for being a moron!!😡😡😡

If you have seen BOF, you can see the similarities between a guy geum jan di's friend dated and harshad.
Gu jun pyo was jealous of him and later on got into a fight. This made jan di upset because he attacked her bff's Boyfriend. But jan di later found out that that guy was a womanizer and was only dating jan di's fren as he wanted to use her physically. He even tried to persuade gu jun pyo to use jan di. Jun pyo basically hated him for saying demeaning things about the girls. So yeag harshad's a son of a beeetch!!

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Cat.

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Posted: 11 years ago

See while I do understand her vulnerability with regards to her brother makes her stop from speaking out, she could have easily complained to the cops about manik kidnapping her, which was what he did when he took her all the way to Madh Island. Also if someone trying to commit suicide was a big news and embarrassing for the college to give these 2 girls scholarship, she and Navya could have easily gone to the press.

I dont mind fights but debasement of female lead with her just taking it as an abla naari annoys me. Her wiping his shoes really annoyed me, I mean how can anyone treat another human being like that and your friends just allow you to do that. It is the very reason I had a problem with Dhruv too, because while he's not an active participant, he's an enabler and especially because he knows its wrong, when his morals do tell him its not right. I don't want Nandini to forgive either of the boys easily,Dhruv to a lesser extent(I would like to see him stand up against Manik for her and tell him off) and Manik , needs to have a complete personality change for Nandini to even consider him as a friend let alone a lover.

There is nothing romantic about being bullied, just as there's nothing romantic in being abused, people need to understand this especially in context of the violence women face in this world.

Edited by Catatonic_Cat - 11 years ago

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shreya

@.Lilith.

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: charminggenie
@Shelly - Share your sentiments about Bullying.
But considering its the remake of a Korean Drama - Boys over flowers,which had a group of guys bullying and a girl kind of brings changes in their life. So this serial has kept that angle intact - what I don't like here is , they are not treating it well. bullying is kind of romanticized , which they need to stop.

Nandini is almost accepting of their behavior , more than her not protesting - the fact that she is not resisting it internally is worrying. Her resigned behavior is sad and wrong.

I do get the fact that she is under his contract and the money sword is hanging on her head. But she should be street smart and look for loop-holes. I don't want her to warm up to any of them ever.

F5 are ridiculous , lost teens who have their own issues and they get their kick by bullying others. Thats how they are coping with their lives also its the only thing that binds them as a group. All of them equally - Dhruv included are to be blamed and should be taught some lesson.

EXACTLY my point...Dhruv is EQUALLY guilty!! People should seriously stop justifying this sort of thing...even their issues with their families doesn't justify it! 😡

I just read the wiki for BOF as I didn't know about the series. And you are right, the fact that Nandini seems so resigned is pathetic! 😭

I've stopped feeling sorry for her...she seriously needs to get a backbone 😡

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shreya

@.Lilith.

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Posted: 11 years ago

#10

Originally posted by: Targaryen-gal

If you have seen BOF, you can see the similarities between a guy geum jan di's friend dated and harshad.
Gu jun pyo was jealous of him and later on got into a fight. This made jan di upset because he attacked her bff's Boyfriend. But jan di later found out that that guy was a womanizer and was only dating jan di's fren as he wanted to use her physically. He even tried to persuade gu jun pyo to use jan di. Jun pyo basically hated him for saying demeaning things about the girls. So yeag harshad's a son of a beeetch!!

The concept of two people who cannot stand each other ending up falling in love is done to death all right...but when it comes to Indian t.v, they go on portraying the male lead as a 'kind of guy who have a heart but prefers not showing for some goddamn reason'...and end up presenting a distorted character who have not been taught how to behave with another fellow human being (YES, fellow human being and not just women), thinks bullying is cool, raising your voice makes your opinions clearer and manhandling is the coolest of em all!

The girl on the other side have to be some bumbling-fumbling, small town damsel in distress who doesn't have a spine or personality or brains to begin with, is scared shit of her 'future hero' and keeps praying to some entity to come and save her miraculously! 🤢

Perhaps 'Geet...hui sabse parai' was the only show I've seen so far which presented character transition so wonderfully, along with a tight storyline to go with it.

Here, the star sign is the only thing I want to know about 🥱

Indian CV's do know how to make a khichdi out of a good foreign show 🤪