Lot of my friends who are not on forum anymore ask me these days whats happening there and in Kasam se.
Well both the questions have one solution. Visit IF and they will come to know answers for both.
There are practically two groups now. One stands for Jai Bani and another for Ad-DDG.
There is lot of bashing which goes on and on and on, despite of the numerous warning posts made by Moderators.
There is a remorse in JB camp as events in Kasam se are taking unreasonable turns. They are unhappy with the way characters of Jai Walia and Bani Walia are being deformed into nothingness.
There is an aching feeling in everyone's heart to see Jai and Bani diving in misunderstanding galore created by others and moving away from each other like Galaxies do in heavenly space above….its difficult cause they are the center of universe for the JB despos.
There is a disappointment in the hearts of those who have seen golden days of Kasam se.
Noone here is nave to expect everything hunky dory between Jai and Bani ALL THE TIME but there is always boundary to how much indignity and disappointment one can take.
There is ruefulness to see Mighty Jai walia turned into a trifle…gone with the wind. Any Homo sapien can come, hit him and then move ahead as if nothing happened.
All the characters that JB despos thought would support Jai and Bani are turning negative. Jai walia is being made THE only person who tell lies, who commit adultery, who is right now in live in relationship with his sister in law and take her for honeymoon even when his three-times-already wife bellows at the altar that she is his wife….
He is the only person who has been committing crimes all his life, some 20 years ago and then sometimes 7 years ago and get away with it till some relative of the deceased arrives in spotlight with only one intention—destroy Jai walia.—an ultimate Punching bag.
On the other side, there are celebrations in AD DDG camp. What started as just a cameo is considered one of the strongest character in the serial now. May be the only one who can call The Jai Walia as a walia….
He is shown a man of principles who is sheltering three orphan sisters under his roof and mind you…he has no guilt feeling attached to it. He have not killed their parents in any freaking accident.
His wife is dead some 20 years ago but he still loves her so much and so that he treats his MIL as his own mother. His devotion for her is so intense that he promptly fell in love with DDG the moment his MIL thought of it. The only catch here is that he couldn't even guess that his beloved MIL is suffering from Brain Tumor for years now…so what?? He can compensate that simply by marrying a Born Babysitter that Bani is. Havent seen such devotion in years where most of the Son In Laws are ready to bite off their MILs. That's where he stands different…Look at that moronic Jai Walia…what did he do to his MIL?? Sent her to heavenly abode…Now Now what kind of man does do that!!!!!!
He substantiated Bani without any expectations as he put it. He not only supported her when she needed it the most, but he was human enough not to let her lose goal of her life. He kept it alive and throbbing.
He fanned the ambers in her hearts so that when she needed it, she can destroy the person who ditched her the most….her husband..Mr.Jai Walia…..
What was his intensions?? No one knows I suppose. I do not see people supporting others so selflessly with no interim motives.
He did everything a saint is suppose to do but err….he forgot to tell her the truth. He kept on saving Bani from the hurtful truth i.e. his motives and making her believe into a superficial change from Bani to DDG. He is not Mr Nobrain though, He knows that the transformation of Bani into DDG is only skin dip. The moment she realizes the innocence of Jai, she is gone from his clutches forever. So he keeps on hovering above her frame like a satellite around mother earth so that Bani does not melt with those powerful glances and an investment worth 5 years does not go in vain. But can a flower be kept untouched by bee, can a breeze be kept from carrying the fragrance from one place to other, similarly, Jai and Bani cant be aloof of each other for long.
But AD's brains is a subject that even President Bush is willing to sponsor the research for so he found out a unique way to keep DDG, DDG forever. Marry her. What could be the better way for him to license his weapon this way and then use it as and when its required..i.e. when he need to take his revenge.
I do not call him brainy for nothing. This man knows that Jai Walia has a Midas touch when it comes to business. If he is to be destroyed then target his family, target his love, target his wife whom he loved like his only precious gift by God. Business is nothing to him, money never drove Jai Walia. Given the misunderstanding already infiltrating its way into their lives, it wasn't too difficult for AD to use it best to his advantage and such a conniving businessman that he is, he left no stone unturned into using it.
Kudos to this character, its creators and all his supporters
Today being an ultimate Jai Walia supporter, I respect and admire AD a lot and very humbly pronounce him as someone that Jai Walia can never be….
What a chit of person Jai Walia is!! Always thinking about his wife first and then the rest. A person who tell lies as decisively as a parrot blabbering out names one after the other.
So what if he thinks what would his lies bring about for others….so what if he thinks too much about how it would destroy other's lives and then chose to keep it in wraps.
So what is he has to go hell and come back to save others from disasters all his lives, he deserves a disaster himself for being so coy and emotional fool.
And if the disaster itself is so hot and happening like AD then it doesn't take too much for the people to love the disaster and not to care two hoots about the hero. At the end of the day what really matters is what soothes our eyes. Hell with the story, hell with the logic and sense and hell with all the blunders that disaster itself creates.
So here I take the opportunity to thank the Creatives of Balaji Production for coming out with such an excellent serial which portrays urban woman to the hilt.
And if I am not being too humble, then I should thank Creatives for keeping the spirit of this forum alive. What was there to read it anyways… people going ga ga over their cuddles and his Munni, cursing Pia as if she was their inattentive Kam wali Bai. Today on forum we have everything from Fights to official drooling sessions. From petitions to some more counter petitions. What a bless!!!!!
Instead of booing for what is being shoved down our throats by kekta and her Creatives, we have fights over characters and actors.
Argh!!!!!!!! Cant contain my grief in sarcasm anymore….lets get to the point Kekta Kapoor.
When you say that you make serials for Masses which mainly comprises of Housewives and other woman viewers, I would rather advise to get few facts correct.
We, even when considered mass instead of class have a class of our own. We do not like to see husbands making out with their sister in law or vice versa and then buckling under pressure of blackmail or self imposed guilt.
We, being Masses, value loyalty in a relationship more than anything so be it our husband, Milkman or Kamwali bai….we do not change loved ones in our lives as often as bedsheets or pillow covers. Hence we do not appreciate when the protagonist of your show which supposedly reflects a urban middle class woman marry two different men at two different places.
We, being Masses, do not hold woman as kitchen mistress. She has much more to do and achieve in her life. For example why does Bani need a Man…AD to avenge??? Cant she be shown a hard working woman rising fast as a potential hazard to Jai Walia's business success.
Instead of bani being the puppet in again a man's hand, why cant she be shown a real strong woman rising from the ashes and having conviction in her own self.
We, being masses, oppose to what you said on Koffee with Karan with a glee-ed face.
Women in middle class do fantasize men on TV but when it comes to their own lives they wouldn't want their husbands to be like them. They might be idolizing Women on TV but when it comes to their daily problems with Mother in law and demanding Dhobi she can hardly resort to Plastic Surgery or Turn-Into-A-Maniac strategies that you show in your serials.
Kekta, Please stop saying that Women are the protagonist of your stories. They are Not.
They are either fighting for MEN,or they are proving their worth to their MEN, either they are supporting MEN to get their desired revenge…or getting married to MEN as if that's the ultimate goal of their mortal life and so forth and so on…..Women in your serials are nothing but satellites that orbits around earth called MAN.
Ultimate goal of your stories is not to prove how women are strong or how womanhood is something to be proud of but it proves only otherwise.
If womanhood is something that your serials portray then, sorry I am for being a woman of true blood and flesh.
Get your facts right about Masses and Women around, weave their dreams in your stories where men do constructive work other than impregnating any vamp they can set their eyes on and then getting blackmailed all their lives.
Then see where your production house soars, not only in terms of popularity and TRPs but also being the true reflection of what an Indian Woman of today's age is.
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