Why is Akshat so fixated on Suket's Approval?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Hi all,
I want to vent my frustration about Suket today. I just can't wrap my head around what his problem is?!
What is the big deal that Akshat and Arpita had a love marriage?! Is Arpita a bad person? Is she not a good fit for their family? (well technically speaking Arpita could have done much better than Akshat but thats a different discussion) What IS the problem?

Sorry to say but Akshat is an equal if not bigger contributor to this mess. Even if we accept that Suket is older - stuck in his ways has his own ideologies etc - Akshat does not have to fuel this fire. Just because his dad is so hell bent on proving that Suket's views are correct and everything else is wrong - that is strictly Suket's opinion.

Yes I understand that as a child you don't want to hurt your parents feelings and you want to make them proud but there has to be a boundary or limit to everything. If Suket isn't budging then why is Akshat so fixated on placating him? For example in today's episode when Suket wants to give Akshat his share of the property and asks him to leave - that would have been prime opportunity for Akshat to stand tall and show his dad his place.

Why couldn't Akshat say - look dad while I can understand that you feel hurt and betrayed that I made a decision with out consulting you the reality is your strict rules and zero tolerance for anything outside your viewpoint really left me no choice. I chose Arpita and I know she is a good choice for me and our family but if you want to be stubborn and not look past your ego - I can't help you. I don't want your property, I want your love and acceptance but if you can't accept that I am an adult and I do have the right to make my own decisions then I'm sorry it is better we stay apart. I have married Arpita and as a husband I have a duty towards her - I'd appreciate it if you didnt make me choose but since you leave me no choice I ill leave you be. Perhaps one day if and when you are able to look past your ego - give me call.

Why is Akshat such a coward? If his life revolves around his dad so much then why did he even bother to step out of his dad's shadow?

Sorry guys but I'm just frustrated with Akshat's characterization - it's actually more irritating to see him than Suket - especially the way he treats Raj's family - so ungrateful!

What say guys?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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To be frank...he is emotional fool. I wonder, when he was so much attached with his family especially father, when he was aware that his love marriage will never be accepted then why the hell he fall in love and get married? Whats the mistake of Arpi...why she is suffering because of her husband's weakness?
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Originally posted by: skar1984

Hi all,

I want to vent my frustration about Suket today. I just can't wrap my head around what his problem is?!
What is the big deal that Akshat and Arpita had a love marriage?! Is Arpita a bad person? Is she not a good fit for their family? (well technically speaking Arpita could have done much better than Akshat but thats a different discussion) What IS the problem?

Sorry to say but Akshat is an equal if not bigger contributor to this mess. Even if we accept that Suket is older - stuck in his ways has his own ideologies etc - Akshat does not have to fuel this fire. Just because his dad is so hell bent on proving that Suket's views are correct and everything else is wrong - that is strictly Suket's opinion.

Yes I understand that as a child you don't want to hurt your parents feelings and you want to make them proud but there has to be a boundary or limit to everything. If Suket isn't budging then why is Akshat so fixated on placating him? For example in today's episode when Suket wants to give Akshat his share of the property and asks him to leave - that would have been prime opportunity for Akshat to stand tall and show his dad his place.

Why couldn't Akshat say - look dad while I can understand that you feel hurt and betrayed that I made a decision with out consulting you the reality is your strict rules and zero tolerance for anything outside your viewpoint really left me no choice. I chose Arpita and I know she is a good choice for me and our family but if you want to be stubborn and not look past your ego - I can't help you. I don't want your property, I want your love and acceptance but if you can't accept that I am an adult and I do have the right to make my own decisions then I'm sorry it is better we stay apart. I have married Arpita and as a husband I have a duty towards her - I'd appreciate it if you didnt make me choose but since you leave me no choice I ill leave you be. Perhaps one day if and when you are able to look past your ego - give me call.

Why is Akshat such a coward? If his life revolves around his dad so much then why did he even bother to step out of his dad's shadow?

Sorry guys but I'm just frustrated with Akshat's characterization - it's actually more irritating to see him than Suket - especially the way he treats Raj's family - so ungrateful!

What say guys?

u r rite he's a big coward n now suket too is behaving like a kid.these k's are disgusting

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