Maithili is the parent here

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Maithili is the real parent here. Dont mistake me. Rudra loves his son. His Paro's legacy..her last wish and the promise he made to her,he has to fulfil it no matter what but ..there is a big but here, a big part of him died with his paro. Druv is the only reason MAJOR RUDRA PRATAP RANAWAT is still with us tday. For a guy who has to be both mother and father to the boy, he is still clueless abt his son. He doesnt know what his son wants for his bday. It was MAITHILI's idea to gift Dhruv the jacket. And tday.. Maithili teaches him the way to wake dhruv up. Clueless dad again. Look at the way he shuts himself instantly when druv mentions abt his mommy. Oh, yes he talked abt paro to dhruv ( rose garden scene) but thats because he wants him to remember his mother's wish. It was maithili again who described paro to druv and koel not Rudra. Rudra has shut himslf after paro's death and i dont think even druv has the keys to unlock or reach his father. His is on 'automaton.' Breathing but not living.

Its sad...it hurts when a young boy of seven has to watch out for every word he spoke becz it would hurt his father. It hurts for he has already lost his mother and in a way lost his father too. It hurts to see a man who,finally found his happiness at the age of 28 and to have the same happiness snatched away from him . It hurts when a woman was robbed her chance to live and see her boy grow into man with her ever loving husband beside her.

A boy missing..yearning for his mother...a man lost in grief..a woman lost...

Cant talk anything abt myra..failed to connect with her. #ineedtime to accept that #suchislife.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Right-on about Rudra shutting down after Paro's death. He is like a zombie. Or like a sleeping prince who will be awakened by Mryah.

But the thing is that most fathers are clueless about parenting anyway, Most mothers handle everything, all the planning etc, and they tell the fathers what to do. So there is nothing new here.

Waiting to see Myrah and Rudra's relationship develop 😛
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Agree about Rudra.. He shut himself about Paro. He's not sharing his feelings with any one as He's not used to except with Paro. 😕
Dhruv 7 years without mom is hard though he is getting love from Masi and everyone but he's curious about his mom as she's special. Feeling sad for him.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Most fathers wouldn't know what to buy their sons, it's usally the wives who know what to buy.

Rudra is being the best father he can be. He loves his son, there is a bond between them just how a father would bond with their son.

Maithli is the 'motherly' figure in Dhruv's life and is a true help to Rudra who, If Paro was alive, would have asked her for help.

Rudra went through a massive loss, just like his son, It's only expected that he shuts down at the mention of his wife.

Usually, women find it easier to talk about their feelings and men prefer to repress the memories.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Rudra always seemed the type of man with a great attachment towards the people who deeply affected him.. first it was his mother who hurt him deeply thats y he was focused on that gathering all the bitterness inside.. until paro came into his life.. it took a time for him to let her in but when he did she turned his centre of life.. now that shes gone he some how has closed all roads to his heart..even to his son.. Myrah is the new cathalyst who will bring colors in both dhruv and rudras life..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I feel like crying
Love you post
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Posted: 11 years ago
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well said Kate...i felt the same too...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Maithili is truly keeping her promise to Paro. The last scene broke my heart. He is such a cute and sensible kid.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I agree with you.
Maithili really is the mother of not just Dhruv but Koel as well.
She knows the kids better than anyone else.
I also agree with what you have said about Rudra.
Since Paro has died part of his soul has died with her. He is only living and breathing because of his son and no one else.
Even I can't yet accept Myrah. Paro dying is still very fresh in my mind. Can't fast forward 7 years into the future like a soap.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Agree...Ruda has closed himself up emotionally again...Was so sad to see Dhruv saying sorry for having upset his Dad by mentioning his Mom...guess it's understandable...It's great that Dhruv has Mythali to take care of him

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