Stabbed and shattered ... Time to go on vacation

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Posted: 11 years ago

Ok I'm not going to say much except that disappointed, heartbroken and gutted are total understatements in my case and the forums case. I came with a dry eye knowing that Paro would be shown dead and tried to stay strong, but seeing it on the SBS...I was in tears.

All I'll say is that I'm going to deal with this the best way I can. And that is by taking 2/3 weeks off Rangrasiya. ( I will only come to the IPKKND forum to update my stories) But NO RR forum for me. No SBS, No SBB, No episodes, No Spoilers, No nothing.

Two reasons.

1) Can't deal with Paro's death. I'm not going to put my self in a position where the CV's can have parties over my tears.

2) I'm going to pretend that the beautiful story of Parud ended with them having a baby and lived happily ever after.

When/if I return to watch RR after a few weeks I will pretend it's a whole new show where I'm seeing a whole new love story. If I can digest it I'll return to the RR forum. If not... it's goodbye.

Just like Arshi has made a place in my fond memories and heart, Parud has too and will always have it's place where no NEW one can replace it. So I'm giving this new RR after a few weeks a chance to make me fall for this new couple and story line, because the power of Sanaya's acting may just make me treat this new couple as simply another love story separate from Arshi and Parud.

Yes I'm depressed now, but I know I'll look back thinking this was a beautiful time where I met loads of fab people on the RR Forum. Time is a healer. So if I do decide to come back after a few weeks, I'll see you when I'll see you. But if I don't decide to come back, please forgive me if I have during my time on this forum ever hurt your feelings even accidently as I'm sure I would never have meant it. To everyone who loves Parud and feels the way I do, take some time to figure out how to get yourself out of this sadness. Everyone's different so you might have a different way of dealing with this loss of a beautiful soul like Paro.

But overall love you all very much and maybe I'll see you all here on the RR forum soon.

*Tight hugs to all*

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Shweta

@Sunset90

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Posted: 11 years ago

Take your time honey... I took my leave a week ago...

It's hard to go through pain for a fictional character... Our rational part of our brain says it's stupid to be depressed over fiction but our irrational brain is depressed anyway

Edited by -Sunset- - 11 years ago

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: -Sunset-
Take you time honey... I took my leave a week ago...

It's hard to go through pain for a fictional character... Our rational part of our brain says it's stupid to be depressed over fiction but our irrational brain is depressed anyway

@bold. 100% agree

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Sumneet

@Zeffy

Rocker

Posted: 11 years ago

Hi Zara,

It is loss not only for the fans, but all the readers/fans of your lovely write-ups, posts!

Hope we get to see you soon!

Enjoy your non-IF days! 😊

Edited by zeffy2k2 - 11 years ago

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Erika

@Erika1

Voyager

Posted: 11 years ago

Very nice, I think this will be a good plan for me too. The staying away for a few days/weeks so as not to get teary over the death of my beloved heroine. I can't deal with that, and don't think I ever will. 😕😭😆

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aaliah3108

@aaliah3108

Rocker

Posted: 11 years ago

Dear Zara,

This loss is ir-repairable. I am kind of clinging to a small thread of hope where in there may be some way the Cv's are able to get us out for this and unite Parud but logically my mind says it is not possible. Not after looking at what all SBS etc have aired.

Or it is my madness and love for Parud that refuses to believe that she is no more for her Rudra and the baby. I think I will live in this world of Parud until I am able to gather myself and accept .. acceptance it can be but perspective will be different. I cannot and will not take Rudra without Paro. it is okay to move on but then everything is not replaceable or is it.

All this is making me ask a question ..which is that if Love is replaceable easily then what is love actually. Please take your time and I share your grief.

😊

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Rishita.SIholic

@Rishita.SIholic

Dazzler

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Posted: 11 years ago

PaRud's beautiful journey will always be in our hearts. And no one can replace them. Hope after taking a break you feel a little better. 🤗

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Shweta

@Sunset90

Rocker

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: -Zara-

@bold. 100% agree

I guess it is a kind of maturity I developed after watching dramas😆

If you get too affected by what goes on in your drama...

Then stop!

Think whether the next track is gonna make you sad... if yes, then pause the drama watching for a while...once it gets on the happier note, come back rewatch the sad scenes and go on to the happy ones...

I get way too attached to dramas... it's stupid... it's like PaRud is a real couple in my brain...

So I always have my checkpoint... It's hard to stay all depressed when you can't even explain to others why you are depressed... It seems stupid to say :" Hey I'm depressed coz my fav character in my fav drama is gonna die... "

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Tiangka

@Tiangka

Explorer

Posted: 11 years ago

SBS Again!!!! They are not the creators of RR. They are just having a field time with all this. Well just wanted to say, enjoy your vacation and hopefully it will be a short one because good news will be awaiting when you are back😊

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Sidda

@Sidda8

Rocker

+ 3

Posted: 11 years ago

#10

Zara, I am also deeply upset for the loss of Paro. I've gotten myself to watch LRL, Sanaya's first show. It's actually making me feel a bit better. I'll probably treat RR as a new show now. I just wished Paro didn't meet a horrible end. It reminds me of one of my favourite Tamil films, my favourite actress gets killed after hiding her newborn child from her husband's enemy. Her husband wasn't there to protect her much like Paro's.

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