Who Do you Support? Zain or Aliyah or Both? - Page 3

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Posted: 11 years ago
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But it has happened twice

that little sister will be pissed

first Alya told in front of all about the escort party

now she destroyed her engagement

more than Zain vs Aliya i think it will be Aayat vs Aliya

i was right , she is no two braided doll but quite a teekhi mirchi

much stronger than Aliya too

first she came to Mumbai alone now she told sister to butt out and that she wants engagement

and the most horrid part is i don't think that Gauhar is lying

Aliya has sensed that she is talking truth this time

its a real mess

if Aayat breaks with Rizwan who is there for Ayat ...Zubbu😕
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: shahz

That's tough one...But stil il try to explain what I feel.

Zain was right in supporting his mom regarding the doctor issue...but he was wrong to just stand there while his mother went on insulting Aliya he did the same when that Khadija bi was insulting and cursing Aliya last week.
Aliya was right to stop the engagement but the way she did it was wrong.I feel she could have stopped the engagement and spoke to her family in private rather than make big tamasha of her family in front of outsiders.And aliya didn't demand Rizwan to marry Gauhar she says If Rizwan is the father then he should marry Gauhar not Ayat.
I don't think it's fair that Rizwan should marry Gauhar becuz what ever happened was Gauhars doing but I don't think Rizwan and Ayat should get engaged in this situation.
This isn't just about Rizwan Ayat and Gauhar theres a child involved in it which makes thing very complicated.
now Ayat wants to overlook this fact that Rizwan is the father of Gauhars child becourse she doesn't understand the effect it will have on her life in the future when Rizwan will want to keep in touch with his child.

I don't support Aliya giving Mamu the medication secretly.


Zain and Aliyah are both wrong in their actions, but thats where they come into each other, one hurts the other heals. They have always worked like that and i do believe they will continue to do so.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I Support no one , blame no one but want to give just some observations

The women did not want their husbands to utter a word in the fight .

Fahaad was shushed up with u keep out of this ...but what he said was not wrong ...guests were there , guests of the Abdullahs and though the brother was Shazia's the party was held at the Abdullah residence amongst HIS socialites

Zain was told u keep out this is my sister

but the sister for whom she unintentionally hurt husband told HER to keep out of her decision .

Now this is not the first time Zain has been pushed aside for other people ...he had been left to give Zubbu insaaf and do the right thing ...and like Ayat , Zubbu too turned on Aliya .

Even now she wants to do the right thing . Even now the ones she wants to help have turned against her .Even now she has hurt husband and did a gossip ruckus in sasural .

I always felt she should not have walked out to do the right thing in Zubbu's case but prioritised her marraige and helped him secretively . Even now i feel same thing , why , for Ayat , Rizwan and Gauhar should she make HER sasural the center of gossip and hurt HER husband . Husband felt hurt coz HE had done a lot for Ayat , protected her in the escort party .
To him she was his kid sister there had been no difference in his mind that she was his wife's sister .Just as Aliya always helps Fahaad as her brother , he too helps Ayat as his sister .

Rizwan is really not at fault but trapped by fate .

Gauhar looked truly repentant and i think she will be indebted to Aliya after this as no one stood by her , only she .

I felt Shabana should have been told in private by Aliya and the engagement should have been allowed as guests were there . It can be broken off later .

I also felt sorry for Aliya as she was alienated and meant well . Her intention was to save Ayat and Gauhar both .

Suraiyya was enjoying the tamasha , cackling hee hee haa haa inside her devilish mind .


Edited by koolsadhu1000 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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An awesome post Zainab :) 👏👏
My question to you guys what if Gauhar had said that the child is Zains? Would she ask for divorce and tell Zain to marry Gauhar? I am not siding anyone but asking a simple question than what?

@BOLD - This is a million dollar question and I would love to know what Aliya would have done!!! In this case, especially if Zain was targeted, i bet she would have thought abt it and not bombarded the issue in front of the gathering. I feel she would have sushed gauhar and called her a liar as her hubby cannot do such a thing. Now does she know Rizwan well enough? If she does, then i would say her act was wrong in the episode. Assuming she does not know Rizwan well, what she did was normal. Believe me, when you are "in a situation" you don't tend to think; you just act. That is exactly what Aliya is doing NOW!! She knows Suraiyaa will never support her and neither will her bhabhis. So left is Zain and she has seen Zain not voicing his support openly and so she has started acting in secrecy. That explains her giving medicine to Usmaan as she believes that this will cure her mamu. Shows do not have logic usually and hence i doubt any side effects will be shown to Usmaan as a result of having 2 diff medication. But frankly the repercussions can be fatal and If that is shown i will not be surprised if Zain himself throws her out just as Barkat has said!!! So in a way she learns here that this is not the correct way to do things. Truth always comes out, no matter what and she knows this very well. Desperation is making her act the way she is these days. Same desperation also has made her stop the engagement. her thought process might be - i will find the culprit later, but let me put a stop to this engagement as I do not want my sister's life to be ruined and in that emotion she insulted everyone including Zain. When we are in such a state, we do not see who is right in front of us. So i believe two learnings for Aliya - Keep calm and never keep secrets from your loved one, especially when he is the ONLY one who might believe in you. This secrecy of hers will put a seed of doubt in Zain wrt her honesty.

Coming to Zain -- he has also been situational :). He is right in thinking that his mom has the ultimate right to decide who will be the doc for his father. Now-a-days he is trying not to rile his mom. He also somewhere takes Aliya's understanding for granted and that is why he keeps quiet when she is insulted by his mom with only family being around. But see, he did put a stop to his mom's instigation when she started in front of the gathering. When Usmaan was there, Zain was more bold as his father's support was there with him. Now that physical support is missing and even though he knows his mom well and knows that she does not like Aliya, he tries to pacify situations by siding his mom and that will quieten her. Aliya - he can make her understand and he feels she will never misunderstand him.

So here i would say as a conclusion - both have taken each other for granted in their love, both have flaws. Zain has grown a lot, but he still needs to balance his mom's and wife's emotions. He needs to be firm with his mom and wife depending on the situation. Aliya needs a lesson, an eye opener. She was very calm and intellectual before she knew that Zain loves and trusts her. But now, she acts before thinking bec she is basking in that security that Zain will never leave her side.

In a way - both need eye openers and i hope CVs are aiming that!!!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Btw that secret medicene giving to Usman ...does not it conflict with the other allopathic medicenes already given and is it right of any family member to give it without Suraiyya's permission😕
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Posted: 11 years ago
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But now, she acts before thinking bec she is basking in that security that Zain will never leave her side.

she was also sure that Ayat would never leave her side ...but Ayat did .

And so i felt bad for her naivete .

Edited by koolsadhu1000 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Btw that secret medicene giving to Usman ...does not it conflict with the other allopathic medicenes already given and is it right of any family member to give it without Suraiyya's permission😕


Definitely, something we all worried about. Not just that but the fact that will the medicine even suit Usman? That Grumpy doctor didnt even get a good look at Usman Leave alone checking him. What if he reacts poorly to the medicine alone. Than what?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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great post...much needed one to say our mind
i think both are right and are also at faults
the one i support is Beintehaa...as a whole, i can't choose whom to support, coz they both are my favorites
like normal ppl, they are listening and doing what is right at that point...you can't unsupport anyone in such cases...coz they are right on their own mind


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