Why such a hurry for marriages? - Page 2

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

My post is about marriage for women at a mature age or even later depending on circumstances.

One can marry at 21 or 31 or 41 or even later.

Nowadays education and career is taking priority and women are ready to wait and even to adjust when the time comes.

Take gulli's case. If hardik was not there? Gulli's grandparents would have been heartbroken and gulli would have cried for somedays and would have adjusted to her life. As it is her grandparents have no one other than gulli. Why cant gulli become the son to take care of them in their old age?
Nowadays many girls prefer to take care of their parents than get married and be away from their parents. And when did anandi last visit her widowed father?

Good post. Here my 2 cents. Marriage is a wondeful thing that human species has invented.

Even in India times have changed and girls are able to assert. I have a cousin who after her education got a lucrative employment and she has to visit foreign countries most of the time. No one is ready to marry her if she continues in that job and she does not want to leave such a good job and she loves to be on a continuous trip throughout the year. Her parents are damn worried. She is nearing 30.

Among the urban these days women are doing well. I am glad they are using this independence to

Originally posted by: Jan50

Among the urban these days women are doing well. I am glad they are using this independence to

Assert themselves. If a woman has good finabcial backing she is ok. But women who are employed

In lesser jobs like clerk, secretaries etc, their life is independent in western countries but mot in our country. Society can be said to have developed for the better only when ordinary people with

Ordinary skills are also able to live with dignity.because not every woman is that bright to be in a

Highly lucrative or influential job. It would have been nice if they showed an ordinary Gulli like

The teacherjee independent. For thst matter, they did show teacherjee. But did not give her

Role too much importance. In fact she was way ahead of times in that stupid village of Kazaan.

They could have shown some romance of such people instead of involving a match maker DS.

The girl I mentioned is not from a rich family. She belongs to an ordinary middleclass family but she is a hard worker and dedicated to her work. The parents took loans for her studies.

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

The girl I mentioned is not from a rich family. She belongs to an ordinary middleclass family but she is a hard worker and dedicated to her work. The parents took loans for her studies.