ZGH---Episode 23---Kashaf is expecting

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Zaroon Junaid is a kid. I remember Kashaf saying this in episode 20 during the beach scene."Bade bacchon jaise harkatein karte ho tum" And even saying it in her mind during episode 22 "Pehle uss bacche ko toh sambhal loon jo muhe nikahnaama ke saath mila hai."Zaroon is like that little kid who wants attention, seeks attention and grabs attention by his antics at times, cute behaviour at times and sometimes owing to his stupidities and weird mind set. Kashaf behaves the right way with him today. She was at the right side and I loved the way she took a stand for herself.I can't thank Zaroon's father enough for saying what he said. The way he says"Main apne aapko bahut lucky manta hoon." was just amazing. he truly loves his wife and they both are lucky to have one another. Respect for that couple totally.I love the way Zaroon tries to make u by taking Kashaf on lunch. the way he says "bahut acchi lag rahi ho." in his deep voice. Gosh I would have frozen if my husband who looks like Fawad Khan and is like Zaroon Junaid would stand right behind me and says that to me.

Zaroon's stupid blabbering was cute even though his bahviour uncalled for. His ego is coming in between. His whole take on husband wife is getting difficult for Kashaf to understand and her to interpret it any further. Him cancelling the lunch shows how stupid and irrritating he can at times.

I loved the way the whole family was saying good stuff about Kashaf. The ice seems to have broken from Ghazala's side as well. Loved the way they praised Kashaf.

The way ZaShaf fight during night was way too adorable. The way they blabber and Kashaf keeps saying "I agree." was very cute. And the final blow was from Zaroon's side "Dimaag khaati hai mera."

Zaroon :shaadi duniya ka sab se ghatiya tareen kaam hai
Kashaf :I agree
Zaroon :toh nahi karni thi
Kashaf :toh tum na karte
Zaroon :tum kaha tha!
Kashaf :tum ne bhi kaha tha
Zaroon :agar mujhe zindagi dobaar mile toh main marr ke bhi shaadi na karo
Kashaf :main bhi
Zaroon :main toh phirse paida hi na hona chahoo

Kashaf :main bhi

One stupid thing I noticed is that ZaShaf both remove their rings before sleeping. Like it is a similar habit. even my mom does it. But I just sort of noticed it.

The way Kashaf comes to know about her babies and then cries was justified. The fact that she is hell confused on hwo to look at this kind of situation is understandable. Kashaf may not agree but she is one vulnerable lady who has seen her mother suffering a lot and imagining herslef in a similar situation scares her. The thought of girl or boy child makes her relive those sour memories which will always be a part of her sad childhood and screwed up past. It is not that she isn't educated enough or independent enough to knwo what is right what is wrong but she seems to knwo for a fact that she herself ahs always lived with teh abggage of being a girl and now doesn't want to be labelled for ahving given birth to one. She knows it is wrong to even think that way but her insecurities make ehr think taht way. She doesn't want to but ends up thinking that way. I like the way she draws a comparison and says

" Yeh jante hue bhi ki Zaroon Abba jaisa nahin hai." That was the best part. Kashaf knows thsi thought wouldn't creep him, wouldn't affect him but it her complexities whih lead to the whole cropping up of such irrelevant questions. She knows he isn't a man of old-fashioned thoughts, Her fear of the same thing happening with her is not stupid or irrelevant. She thinks that fear is overtaking her, will leave her bitter all over again. The thought of becoming like her father in her approach, the thought of even ahving a similar fear leaves her hurt. She has a sense of shame in recognising this new reflection, this new image of hers which according ot her is doing something similar to her father.

The way Zaroon reacts to the whole situation was amaizng...I just loved the wya he

said "Toh tum ro kyun rahi ho.Tumhara dimaag kharab hai." His happiness was so infectious...that smile so radiant and the way he even asked Kashaf to loom at him and just simply stop crying over it was adorable. The way Kashaf says "Mujhe khud nahin pata." was way too cute. CREDIT--tumblr
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Okay some questions pls answer Zoha 😆... why is everything that Kashaf does or feels justified and why is everything that Zaroon does or feels termed as chauvinistic, egoistic, childish, stupid, etc, etc. Is it that women can't be wrong coz they have a reason for everything or that men are always wrong coz well they are men??? 😆
I mean if Zaroon is such a kid why didn't I see Kashaf solving all this with the maturity of an adult that she is??? why is her behavior termed as taking a stand?
Like Zaroon says today ek to main khud hi rootha tha aur ab khud hi mana raha hoon. banda goes to her compliments her... reciprocation chodo smile bhi nahi deti and walks away... so why is he the only one who is egoistic??? Isn't ego working both ways here??? 😆
They are both wrong in this issue.. One started with his insecurities the other joined in with hers and then his ego came in and hers joined in and they were happily being idiots till sweet babies sent some brain waves their way 😆
So why is Zaroon the only one getting all the love??? 🤓

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Posted: 11 years ago
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again thank you Zoha for the beautiful post..it makes epis all the more entertaining!!!🤗

@Jeannie I agree with you here both are equally immature..Zaroon with his insecurities n Kashaf with her rudeness...I liked that she din go after Zaroon n took a stand because Zaroon was wrong but later her discussing about their fight to Sir Abrar was wrong too..n I think that pissed him off further..I liked it when he complimented her, there she was rude..agreed she was pissed at him for being a jerk but after so many days of fighting the guy was actually making some effort..she could have been a little polite..
So both are equally flawed n immature!!!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: JeannieJA

Okay some questions pls answer Zoha 😆... why is everything that Kashaf does or feels justified and why is everything that Zaroon does or feels termed as chauvinistic, egoistic, childish, stupid, etc, etc. Is it that women can't be wrong coz they have a reason for everything or that men are always wrong coz well they are men??? 😆

I mean if Zaroon is such a kid why didn't I see Kashaf solving all this with the maturity of an adult that she is??? why is her behavior termed as taking a stand?
Like Zaroon says today ek to main khud hi rootha tha aur ab khud hi mana raha hoon. banda goes to her compliments her... reciprocation chodo smile bhi nahi deti and walks away... so why is he the only one who is egoistic??? Isn't ego working both ways here??? 😆
They are both wrong in this issue.. One started with his insecurities the other joined in with hers and then his ego came in and hers joined in and they were happily being idiots till sweet babies sent some brain waves their way 😆
So why is Zaroon the only one getting all the love??? 🤓

oh dear...don't take me wrong
but Zaroon was totally unjustified in asking Kashaf about Osama's proposal...he was the one who was wrong...Kashaf tried to explain him the whole thing yesterday...yes her tone wasn't right but she gave her justifications or rather answers as to why she thought this was an irrelevant thing to be discussed or even pondered over. Then yes Kashaf was wrong in not explaining the whole thing again and then there was this tea party at her office. Kashaf was wrong in not telling him but Zaroon was also wrong in saying that a tea party should be less important to her than him his exact words being " Aur agar main ghar pe tha tumhein meri parwah zyada honi chahiye thi us tea party se." I won't say his issue of her not waking him up and telling him was wrong but the way he said it was. Then the way Kashaf reacts---her stubborn self was also wrong. The way Zaroon cancels the lunch for no reasons was again not correct according to me. I am not even in favour of him saying "ki tum sab working woman ki yahi problem hai...pata nahin kyun apne ego ko apna asset samajhti ho." He could have phrased the whole thing wrt Kashaf but generalising all working women was wrong especially when HE ALSO has an ego issue.
I was saying Kashaf is justified in her insecurities related to being a mother...I think that is understandable...her fears...her reactions are. But her take on the fight between her and Zaoon is not justified and I haven't said that.😃
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Zoha, adorable post as always.
Weirdly enough, I was feeling bad for Kashaf through the episode. Then I came to the forum, read Lannister's post, and realized how we are sort of programmed into sympathizing with her.
Zaroon is a child. We all know that. We are annoyed with him too. But why does Kashaf refuse to take one step towards Zaroon? It's like she is waiting for him to screw up, so she can say, I told you so. This is not the right attitude to have towards relationships, or life in general.

The problem between them is that Kashaf needs to open up to Zaroon. Just talk to him. Be with him. Touch him. Zaroon's issue is that he wants too much from Kashaf. He wants her attention, her obsession, her love, everything exclusively reserved for him. Zaroon, in a way, is too overwhelming to deal with, especially for a woman like Kashaf. He is so passionate, so possessive, so intense- overwhelming. It's like you need to fall completely for Zaroon with nothing held back. Zaroon's personality demands complete surrendering of heart, Kashaf can never really do that.
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High time daddy issues are discussed with Mr.Husband.
I had told yesterday also,Kashaf shouldn't have taken the matter to Abrar. Its just broke the most basic rule of marriage-husband wife issues remain husband wife issues. Anyway,if this Zaroon hadn't behaved like such a baby,all this would have never happened. Silly boy. Got hyper over nothing.
And Kashaf,u silly girl.Why were u crying?

What I liked was how Zaroon seemed so concerned seeing her cry,despite the fact that he was so angry. Awww.

The disclosing of pregnancy was cute. Zaroon saying "toh tum ro kyun rahi ho?tumhaara dimaag kharaab ho gaya hai kya?" Lol. Zaroon's laughter-priceless.

And Kashaf justifying with the "main confuse ho gayi thi."

Duh.

I kept feeling like Zaroon should have hugged Kashaf while she was crying. Arrghh.Dont they hug at all?Ever?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Star_girl

Zoha, adorable post as always.

Weirdly enough, I was feeling bad for Kashaf through the episode. Then I came to the forum, read Lannister's post, and realized how we are sort of programmed into sympathizing with her.
Zaroon is a child. We all know that. We are annoyed with him too. But why does Kashaf refuse to take one step towards Zaroon? It's like she is waiting for him to screw up, so she can say, I told you so. This is not the right attitude to have towards relationships, or life in general.
The problem between them is that Kashaf needs to open up to Zaroon. Just talk to him. Be with him. Touch him. Zaroon's issue is that he wants too much from Kashaf. He wants her attention, her obsession, her love, everything for him. Zaroon, in a way, is too overwhelming to deal with, especially for a woman like Kashaf. He is so passionate, so possessive, so intense- overwhelming. It's like you either fall completely for Zaroon with nothing held back. Zaroon's personality demands complete surrendering of heart, Kashaf can never really do that.

I agree...Kashaf needs to take a step forward as well. You know I am not expecting Kashaf to remain bottled up through out her life...it would be very difficult to deal with...but then Zaroon also needs to calm down if Kashaf needs to open up. Both are at faults and both need to understand one another. And they should talk more definitely.
@bold u summed up all the reasons as to why I want a guy like Zaroon Junaid❤️😳
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: The.Patthaaka.

High time daddy issues are discussed with Mr.Husband.

I had told yesterday also,Kashaf shouldn't have taken the matter to Abrar. Its just broke the most basic rule of marriage-husband wife issues remain husband wife issues. Anyway,if this Zaroon hadn't behaved like such a baby,all this would have never happened. Silly boy. Got hyper over nothing.
And Kashaf,u silly girl.Why were u crying?

What I liked was how Zaroon seemed so concerned seeing her cry,despite the fact that he was so angry. Awww.

The disclosing of pregnancy was cute. Zaroon saying "toh tum ro kyun rahi ho?tumhaara dimaag kharaab ho gaya hai kya?" Lol. Zaroon's laughter-priceless.

And Kashaf justifying with the "main confuse ho gayi thi."

Duh.

I kept feeling like Zaroon should have hugged Kashaf while she was crying. Arrghh.Dont they hug at all?Ever?

yes the basic rule being broken was all the more problematic😆 didn't she know it or what😕
@bold his laughter was just PRICLESS...his happiness...uff I was dead and grinning like crazy😃
@red I thought I was the only one who had thought of it😆😳
*SPOILERS ALERT*
they don't hug...EVER
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Star_girl

Zoha, adorable post as always.

Weirdly enough, I was feeling bad for Kashaf through the episode. Then I came to the forum, read Lannister's post, and realized how we are sort of programmed into sympathizing with her.
Zaroon is a child. We all know that. We are annoyed with him too. But why does Kashaf refuse to take one step towards Zaroon? It's like she is waiting for him to screw up, so she can say, I told you so. This is not the right attitude to have towards relationships, or life in general.

The problem between them is that Kashaf needs to open up to Zaroon. Just talk to him. Be with him. Touch him. Zaroon's issue is that he wants too much from Kashaf. He wants her attention, her obsession, her love, everything exclusively reserved for him. Zaroon, in a way, is too overwhelming to deal with, especially for a woman like Kashaf. He is so passionate, so possessive, so intense- overwhelming. It's like you need to fall completely for Zaroon with nothing held back. Zaroon's personality demands complete surrendering of heart, Kashaf can never really do that.

@bold
I felt Kashaf did that during the last 3 mins of the show😆 I don't know if it's just me or many many ppl felt the same but I saw a very different version of Kashaf when she finally confessed her feelings for Z.She looked completely head over the heels in love with him.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Star_girl

Zoha, adorable post as always.

Weirdly enough, I was feeling bad for Kashaf through the episode. Then I came to the forum, read Lannister's post, and realized how we are sort of programmed into sympathizing with her.
Zaroon is a child. We all know that. We are annoyed with him too. But why does Kashaf refuse to take one step towards Zaroon? It's like she is waiting for him to screw up, so she can say, I told you so. This is not the right attitude to have towards relationships, or life in general.

The problem between them is that Kashaf needs to open up to Zaroon. Just talk to him. Be with him. Touch him. Zaroon's issue is that he wants too much from Kashaf. He wants her attention, her obsession, her love, everything exclusively reserved for him. Zaroon, in a way, is too overwhelming to deal with, especially for a woman like Kashaf. He is so passionate, so possessive, so intense- overwhelming. It's like you need to fall completely for Zaroon with nothing held back. Zaroon's personality demands complete surrendering of heart, Kashaf can never really do that.



I love love love your post. you are absolutely bang on - he is too overwhelming. on the other hand kashaf is the exact opposite - too restrained, absolutely cold. and yet she chose him instead of Osama who actually seemed more compatible.

maybe bec she needed someone just like him - someone that gives her that sense of being wanted. of belonging. but what did zaroon need? the current stupidity aside, he is relentless in his love for her even though she spurns all his romantic efforts . what abt zaroon?

I think in the end, it was that this woman who is so unattached to anyone loves just him. so an inch from her is like a mile from someone else. but what made him persevere inspite of the cold shoulder , I don't get

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