ZGH---Episode 23---Kashaf is expecting - Page 5

Originally posted by: nevah_mind

Abrar had a very close relationship with Zaroon. He was instrumental in getting Kashaf to accept his proposal Zaroon confided more in him than his own father at that time of this life.

Abrar also has the same level of confidence from Kashaf.

Junaid never had the same relationship with Kashaf as he had with Zaroon.

When there are very serious problems in any relationship, people are advised to even go to counsellors who intervene professionaly and often help the situation.

The best 3rd person to help when 2 people are at a dead end is someone who loves both, and truly wants their best interest. There are many people who get majaa out of other people's troubles. They make matters worse, no doubt. But someone like Abrar? he would be the best mediator.

Also that brings me to say why did Zaroon get so upset about Abrar knowing? and worrying over what he might be thinking? Didn't he feel about what he might think when he himself was begging Abrar to convince Kashaf to marry her? because he had a lot of influence in his life?

Point of difference, Again.😊

Originally posted by: JeannieJA

Was Sir Abrar acting like a mediator??? A mediator or counselor sits the 2 people in front of them and gets them talking, he does not start bashing one of them after listening to only one end of the story.

true that. But just that Abrar' relationship with Zaroon was such that he had the right or probably the comfort levels to call and tell him off, like a son, or like a close person. Zaroon could have also discussed it further with him, but chose not to. Which I'm also fine with, because otherwise it would mean I am changing the script! lol😆

Like Kashaf told Abrar ki main Osama se phn pe baat kar rahi thi aur Zaroon gussa ho gaya, ab itni choti baat pe agar Zaroon itna nakhra karta to main hi na uski burai kar rahi hoti. 😆but the matter was a bit more sanjeeda than that, there were hidden issues from both ends that he wasn't privy to. What Abrar was being was Kashaf's supporter, a supporter who would have not gotten involved if Kashaf were to get over her issues and sit that nikaahnaame ke saath mila baccha and try to make him understand at least a couple of times before getting anybody involved. It is a marriage not a play group ki teacher yeh mereko sata raha hai aur meri baat nahi sun raha, aap isko daato. She does not make efforts herself and then dismisses/ignores his efforts to solve the matter. THIS is what bugged Zaroon when she went and got Sir Abrar involved in their personal matter. She can confide in whoever she wants to, advice lo suggestions lo... un pe act karo... if every effort fails then bring in people who have any influence over that person yahan to kuch din nahi huye isse bhadak and usse bhaav khaake and she gets Abrar involved. 😆

Getting a common person between 2 people involved to take forth his marriage proposal and getting a common person to act as a mediator when a mediator was not needed, 2 very very different things. Tabhi the only thing Abrar thought was Zaroon is so serious towards and for Kashaf, here he thinks Zaroon is stupid & childish not knowing the whole story that both are in the same boat of stupidity & childishness in their own ways. 😆

yes, different issues, but one that I see a connection in because it involves the same 3 people. Who have a strong bonding between them. So it seems the most normal progression of the story.

It's fun having point of differences from time to time 😊

👍🏼 absolutely

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Originally posted by: JeannieJA

Okay some questions pls answer Zoha 😆... why is everything that Kashaf does or feels justified and why is everything that Zaroon does or feels termed as chauvinistic, egoistic, childish, stupid, etc, etc. Is it that women can't be wrong coz they have a reason for everything or that men are always wrong coz well they are men??? 😆

I mean if Zaroon is such a kid why didn't I see Kashaf solving all this with the maturity of an adult that she is??? why is her behavior termed as taking a stand?

Like Zaroon says today ek to main khud hi rootha tha aur ab khud hi mana raha hoon. banda goes to her compliments her... reciprocation chodo smile bhi nahi deti and walks away... so why is he the only one who is egoistic??? Isn't ego working both ways here??? 😆

They are both wrong in this issue.. One started with his insecurities the other joined in with hers and then his ego came in and hers joined in and they were happily being idiots till sweet babies sent some brain waves their way 😆

So why is Zaroon the only one getting all the love??? 🤓