WHY Your Negativity Is Ending your Show...

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Look.

Why are you reading this post? What made you open this link and give me five minutes of your time? Its because you give a damn about Rangrasiya, okay? Its because you care. You don't know me, and if I start discussing the current world crisis with you, which is much more important than some fictional show on some random desi channel--- there you'd go, to the small X in the corner, to click and shut this window.


You still with me? You think I have something important to say about Rangrasiya, and just from that--- I know you care. This show matters to you. Yeah, with all the crappy tracks, with the rage you are feeling towards Saurabh Tewari for being glib and stupid and saying things like--- go ahead and do a legal battle to fix the TRPs, and until then, don't bother me with your petty issues. With too much of the jokey, teasing Paro or the joru ka gulam Rudra or the Wood-Thy-Name-Is-Mala track.


You want intensity--- because you care. And even if you get them onscreen acting like a married couple with about 6 kids and even with you devouring a simple hug as if its manna from heaven, you care. Every time you complain about the lack of an intense Rudra or the requests for something to bring romance in--- you care. You whine, baisa, but you care.

So guess what? The show has you. It has your I-F friends. It has the TV spot reserved from Monday-Friday (and during Maha episodes please God), 10 PM onwards. And you know what? Until the show shuts down---and beyond, on YouTube---you and BOTH know--- we will watch this time slot, this channel. This magic, Baisa, is still there. And more importantly, the promise for the magic is still there. This post is to remind you of this-- for once, the show we watch-- it has the kind of CVs one can actually feel good about.


We can rely on the CVs to do their jobs, and if you agree that the Paro in your head is NOT going to be the Paro onscreen---and that's okay too--- you'll see she is a damn fine woman, no matter how shes shown. If you don't like a track... you literally have to wait one week, and you will be able to see a change in the direction. You will not see a BD through 5/11/22/44/65 days, as you HAVE had to deal with before. You'll see a random guy's back in 2 shots out of the 25 that shows you the Major Saab himself.


Give the CVs a shot, give Parud a chance-- because every time you have, they HAVE delivered. Remember the scenes on the 20
th (a date forever etched in our heads?) They did that. The concept of Paro asking for the Major's hand, surely a first on Indian TV? Them. The concept of showing Paro as a village girl, the epitome of traditional, still being strong enough to TALK about whatever is in her head--- and Rudra being man enough to do the same? Them. The open communication between a couple that IS Beauty and Beast, only eons better? Them. The toe-curling chemistry onscreen ...okay, that's Sanish--- But the dialogue? THEM.


So ignore Tewari. He just funds this. But the CVS have NOT disappointed you as badly as you think they have. The first three months of the show still bears repeated viewings, and the last 3 months of the show have given us some incredible moments, (along with some uneven TRP hunting.) But instead of saying -why chase the TRPs? Remember this-- Remember RR is in the field with competition, so comparisons are merited. And as a watcher of other shows, let me tell you-- the CVs for RR have given you NOTHING as bad as other shows have offered to their audience because of their TRP hunt.


You don't have Goopi Vau, Phlegm Dikra, you don't have Bobbo, you don't have Archie-ana and the Munna Bhai. You don't actually have kitchen politics, if you think it over. The concepts RR deals with--betrayal, love, security, safety, family--big ones, right there. Sure, you've had vamps and mothers, poisoned laddoos et all-- but no one has yet accused Paro of evil for forgetting to cook the evening daal. THAT'S kitchen politics.



RR actually has not approached the dregs. So you know what? I'll make a prediction, right here, right now. Tomorrow, Monday, you'll be in a good mood all day, though it's the START OF YOUR work-week or a weekday, and you have horrible classes all day. It will still be--- You, waking up, thinking.. AHH! Finally! Thank God for Monday! You'll smile like a loon at 10 in the evening, wherever you are, because either you'll be watching the show, or looking forward to it being uploaded somewhere, or hell, you'll be on India Forums asking --- Kya hua? KYA HUA!!!! As fast as your fingers can type.


You'll talk about how the show SUCKS nowadays, even as you calculate exactly how tightly Major Saab's arms have wrapped around his bride and can she even breathe? And you'll tune in, as long as it takes, for the magic has not faded.


So what's with the negativity, baisas? Be open about your passion. Be frank about it. Im not asking you to send a fan letter signed in blood when you don't feel like it-- but hell, a little positive criticism, some critical analysis, some discussions aren't impossible naa? I'm saying this because there are silent viewers who get really freaked out by the forum's negativity, who truly think things are awful (when those of us obsessed with RR are the ones saying its AWFUL with a capital A). Who get depressed when forum members bash not the characters--- but the show itself.


There is a difference between constructive criticism and "f**k.. I'm outta here" style comments. You and I know you don't mean it. You expect a lot, because this is your passion, your entertainment. You've lost your heart to a man in a moustache, now there's no going back to when things were normal and you only liked stubbled fashion designers. Thoda venting banta hai.


BUT---those seeing this reaction day after day--- they don't know its venting. They'll quietly go out into asli duniya, and they'll simply--- not watch at 10 pm. You and I wont do that. Major Saab needs us. But those people? They'll make the show lose its audience, without even meaning to. And you know what, Baisa? You, who's been on the forum and are reading this long ass essay? It'll cost you exactly the same energy to be optimistic, instead.


You care, Baisa. Farak parta hai, Baisa. The fact is--- Tewari, he knows he's got you. He knows he's got me. He says--"dekhna hai toh dekho." And kya karu? Mujhe dekhna hai. Bohut saal dekhna hai.


Aap nahi dekhenge, meri saath?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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100% agreed!! awesome post!! 👏
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Napster,
MUJHE BHI DEKHNA HAI😃 Okay hindi is not my lingo..hope i didnt screw up...

Seriously.. THANK YOU... I MEAN IT...THANK YOU for this post. negativity is ruling this forum. It is depressing. Why talk abt silent readers when even active members feel the same. There's constructive criticism and there's bashing. Its not the same...Sigh...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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UN RES..

Navinsa,

Phew, ever since I read your post upar upar se.. it has been on my mind.. pushed the guests into the elevator.. and ran into the bedroom to switch on the laptop...

And in between your post and attending the guests something churned in my stomach: what if your post is in response to my post where I spoke my mind .. but after reading your post in detail... I think I am being spared to some extent except for the reference to Mr Tewari. I may be completely wrong too... and there would be no connection whatsoever.

Baisa, I have already confessed that 5 tv sets which are in my direct control have been dedicated to Rangrasiya and now I am working on my maid so that she also sees RR at 9.30 pm..so dekhnaa to hamey hai hi... chahe kuch bhi ho jaaye...

So drunk and addicted I am with Rangrasiya that Rudra is now my new Paro.. and Parvati..is my chandramukhi... raat din I live with them. And as someone who loves to cook and feed equally, my current crisis in life is why does Rudra ever not complete his dinner/lunch? and that such half meals will impact his health in the long run...

The other day I was almost convinced that the real reason for Rudradev treating his beautiful and super sexy wife as his guru-behna is because he is so tired and the reason being: ... khaana nahin khayega to taaqat kahan se aayegi.??.

I mean seriously.. all THIS for a fictional character? God!

This Navinsa is not madness. I am convinced that this is just the first step towards total LUNACY.

And all this for Rangrasiya. For Rudra. For Paro. I tell you yeh Rudradev aur uski Parvati ke chakkar mein...my patidev has been the biggest loser. Poor Nehal, even now he just cannot believe that I am hooked to a TV series that too hindi one... something which according to both of us, of course till RR happened to me ONLY, was too much saas-bahuish..

My work has taken a back seat and instead of drafting a press release I am nowadays keying in 500-plus words IF posts. Sacrilege of the highest order.. lekin yeh dil apne dimaag ki suntaa kahan hai? Hopeless.. completely gone case...

Baisa, I am with you totally .. totally when we you say that the creatives of this show are awesome and we have super three months as proof points, hmm..so what if there are sequences, very very few indeed, which are quite similar to those from the show that should not be named and in Mr Sharma's launch pad on the channel, which was a sister of a news channel where I worked tirelessly till it started sinking as well...and also where Mr Tewari was the top boss..

But, tell me: Ultimately, isn't it the story/content which is king/queen/emperor/empress and reigns supreme in any show?

And while we were in for a fantastic "voyeuristic cum intellectual treat" till sometime ago they too seemed to have buckled to erase their out-of-the-box mindset, followed by awesome thinking which had then translated into superb writing and ended with superlative performances by the two powerhouse actors. It seems they now write for textbook TRP audience and this seems to be the mantra to appease the TRPmata.

And who can ever forget 20th June? Or 12th March when she burnt her palms or each and every other moment the two have shared so far.. including the reverse back hug in Friday's episode.

No never.

I have watched the 20th June episode innumerable times that I was reprimanded by Nehal that I should not dare to even imagine standing on his feet. I am at least 5 kgs heavier than him you see.

Lekin, baisa agar content nahin to Rudadev aur Paro nahin. Aur agar woh nahin to show nahin. To show nahin to hum nahin. To akhir mein question is of our existence naa..

Probably, that was one of three reasons for me to file a rejoinder to Mr Tewari. The second being of course his statement to a fan asking him/her to petition in an Indian court and a reference to axing of the show. This actually got me. And third being a long discussion Shreya and myself we had..

And I have written a lot without a head or tail... and I need to stop.. and not blabber... I am going back to my RR world and figure out ways to make Rudradev eat a "wholesome" meal...

Edited by hiralnehal - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Well written, much needed one. No more negativity baisas.

And kya karu? Mujhe BHI dekhna hai. Bohut saal dekhna hai.


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Totally agree with you baisa
Every time I come here there is only bashing
Fighting about the episode n making others uninterested to come
We need to have patience
Because the time slot we have is obviously a tough one N we have many other competitive shows
I can't see the episode... But I come here to see what happened today
But all I can see is bashing the episode, actors etc
It's really hurting yaar


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Posted: 11 years ago
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What a post 👏Navin baisa ...
I admit , I do get negative on the trp thread every thursday 😕 Though try not to be like that on any other post in the forum. Will do my best not to fall in this trap again . This show and this forum is to be enjoyed and will do so till the last episode airs and probably after that also 😃

Loved this bit ...

We can rely on the CVs to do their jobs, and if you agree that the Paro in your head is NOT going to be the Paro onscreen---and that's okay too--- you'll see she is a damn fine woman, no matter how shes shown. If you don't like a track... you literally have to wait one week, and you will be able to see a change in the direction. You will not see a BD through 5/11/22/44/65 days, as you HAVE had to deal with before. You'll see a random guy's back in 2 shots out of the 25 that shows you the Major Saab himself.


Give the CVs a shot, give Parud a chance-- because every time you have, they HAVE delivered. Remember the scenes on the 20 th (a date forever etched in our heads?) They did that. The concept of Paro asking for the Major's hand, surely a first on Indian TV? Them. The concept of showing Paro as a village girl, the epitome of traditional, still being strong enough to TALK about whatever is in her head--- and Rudra being man enough to do the same? Them. The open communication between a couple that IS Beauty and Beast, only eons better? Them. The toe-curling chemistry onscreen ...okay, that's Sanish--- But the dialogue? THEM.


So ignore Tewari. He just funds this. But the CVS have NOT disappointed you as badly as you think they have. The first three months of the show still bears repeated viewings, and the last 3 months of the show have given us some incredible moments, (along with some uneven TRP hunting.) But instead of saying -why chase the TRPs? Remember this-- Remember RR is in the field with competition, so comparisons are merited. And as a watcher of other shows, let me tell you-- the CVs for RR have given you NOTHING as bad as other shows have offered to their audience because of their TRP hunt.
Edited by Guinea - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Naps I hate that I like PaRud so much! I wish I didn't I could easily move on!

So far I've been quiet optimistic about RR, now I watch jus for PaRud. But truth is as much as we vent we still watch ! Lol
Edited by Jaz1990 - 11 years ago
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Mujhe dekhna hai. .bahut saal dekhna hai...kya baat hai baisa..much needed post👍🏼
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Napster!🤗

Such honest lines - "You care, Baisa. Farak parta hai, Baisa. The fact is--- Tewari, he knows he's got you. He knows he's got me. He says--"dekhna hai toh dekho." And kya karu? Mujhe dekhna hai. Bohut saal dekhna hai."

And my answer, obviously is - Mujhe bhi dekhna hai. But is it wrong if I say, "Mujhe dekhna hai, aur enjoy bhi karna hai."? I love RR and I'll stick by till the last episode. But is it wrong if I expect to enjoy the stay as well?

I haven't been in the forum much for the past few days coz I had my nightmarish finals to deal with, so don't have much idea about the extent of negativity on the forum. I did come across one or two posts, I had so much time to just read the replies on the first page and that's it.

Let me make an honest confession - I am one of those who is not satisfied with what the CVs are serving us. They aren't doing bad, but they can do better, much better. I think you'll agree with that.
You are asking us to give them time but haven't we already done that enough times? I know I have.
And now, optimist as I am, I am sad to say that I have actually given up hope.
I am not angry with the RR team, nope m not. I know they're working really really hard. But the thing is, suppose a patient has cancer, and the doctor gives him all the meds for AIDS. He stays up whole night looking after the patient, cares for him in every damn way possible but in the end, the truth is that the patient will die. Won't you blame the doctor then? Or will you forgive him just because he did lots of hard work?
That's how I feel about all this. This is not a rant, I haven't ranted much, actually I don't even feel the need to rant. Just feel a lil sad sometimes, when I see the first few episodes and think about the potential the show had. When I read the FFs and think how beautifully things could have turned out. When I think about how I used to daydream about it whole day - in class, at lunch, dinner, everytime and I miss that feeling now. When I remember what incredible ways I took to watch the show, how I would stay up nights just to have one glipmse when I had college next day, and I miss that craze, the love for the show. That's all.

I understand when people ask for better things than what we are getting now. I can comply with some amount of ranting, positive criticism posts and CVs-I-wanna-see-this posts. I don't blame them, coz in my view RR is not the best show on TV right now. But then bashing and negative posts? NO! Spreading negativity in the forum DOES NOT help, peeps. And I hope people refrain from it. The forum is the place where I expect to come and have a good time even after the worst of episodes. Believe me, if the CVs actually listened to us, I myself would have made tons of posts asking them to show what I wanted to see. But they don't, it's all dekhna hai toh dekho. And since I love the show, as you have said, Mujhe dekhna hai. Aur enjoy bhi karna hai. If not the show, atleast I wanna enjoy here, and I know a lot of people do too. So I guess my message is more for the forum than the show - I urge people to not go all negative and ruin it for us who are here to have fun😊

PS: Archie-na😡 U had to connect my name to that woman, did you???
Edited by _SilverLining_ - 11 years ago

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