She dod not asked for permission from AD but rather just asked for a month time period to ghet her children back. make it clear just time noit children. and DEB supported her so she is not at fault.
Mahimm,
What if AD had said no and moti MIL supported him? What would have been her decision? So she was asking for his permission. She should have said to him before sitting at the mandap - Mr Deb I need to get custody of my children before thinking about anyone else including moti MIL. Thanks for all the help in the last 5 years but my children are my priority.
How hard would that be? Her kasams to complete strangers are more important than her children. That is part of the reason that Bani fell from grace yesterday.