What would you have done if you were Ankita?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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There has been alot of discussion on this. Ankita 's character is bit unrealistic. I do agree with letting Naren go. Naren is not the same person ever since he became normal. If I was in her shoes, I won't want to be in forced marriage. At the same time I won't be so mahan and would be upfront with the truth. In short, go right ahead with your love and you do have love child. I would get proper divorce and make sure child has rights and move on.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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That is exactly what she should do. But on the other hand I feel that Pari was being nice too and not wanting to break Ankita's marriage so she had to take this way which I think she did right because if Pari and Naren did not marry, then all 3 would be unhappy.
the only problem is how Naren and Pari are treating her. They both know exactly what kind of a person she is but are still thinking low of her.

I think she should just leave and let them deal with their own issues. She should only worry about her siblings.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Nothing new here... Purvi-ovi-Arjun triangle repeat ho raha hai. ...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I would have:

1.) Told Naren the truth about the pregnancy. If he is unwilling to accept marriage and baby, then would have demanded a proper divorce so that the baby is not called illegitimate in society.

2.) Demanded a huge fraction of their property as alimony (to spite/annoy/take revenge from Rushali and Kinnari 😛 ), then would have kept 10% of it on the baby's name (for future security), and donated 90% of it to organisations working for benefit of rape victims and orphans (two in one- good deed done as well as to spite and annoy Rushali and Kinnari some more 😉😆 ) They wanted to kick the daughter in law out as soon as their purpose was over, fine, would have made them pay for it. 😈

3.) Told Pari everything and told her that she is free to marry Naren without feeling guilty if she wishes to, but would also warn her of what sort of family she would be going into- where her mother in law Rushali is conniving, selfish and manipulative, her sister in law Kinnari is a snobbish, self centered obnoxious woman, her father in law is a mute spectator, that they are dependent for business and finance on Sunanda Atya, and finally, that her brother in law is a rapist. Then would have let Pari take the final call about her life.

4.) Would have bought a house on the hills and started a new life. 😃
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: pfalcon1949

Nothing new here... Purvi-ovi-Arjun triangle repeat ho raha hai. ...


Agree. It's so tiring. There is nothing new. Ever since Naren became normal he has forgotten Ankita, but Pari knows her. Being Purvi's child, Pari doesn't have any of Purvi's sanskar. By treating Ankita so poorly and blaming Mansi's husband for Ankita's pregnancy...wow! how low can be go?

I guess, after the leap, it will be shown that Pari can't have a child, then, they look for Ankita, Ankita scarificing her baby...then, maybe Mansi's secret about her baby too will come out...Gosh, it's a repeat and repeat...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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if ankita's baby gets separated from her post leap just coz that selfish pari cant have a child, i am going to quit watching this show coz that is last straw for me. i m so hoping that ekta does not ruin it and let ankita fight for her baby and not give the baby up for anything. not even that selfish naren. today's tamasha proved that none of them (D family, karmarkars) deserve ankita or this baby. i m hoping soham leaves this messed D family and goes far away taking all his kids just like ankita is about to do. atleast they will have peace of mind. today soham proved that he is a better person than sachin any day. it is unbelievable and disgusting to see that even in this situation all sachin and his greedy wife can think of is property.

so far leaving naren goes, it does not make her unrealistic. she does not want a compromise, why is that so hard to understand? it is rushali who has manipulated her and hence her decisions of hiding the truth. she loves naren to the point of no return and she wants him to happy without any guilt why is that so difficult to grasp? she is using her heart to make these decisions and she cant tolerate any more hatred, accusations or her own character related rumors hence wants to run away from everything that hurts her. that is what makes her so realistic and not mahaan coz the punch line is naren does not love her and she is not able to handle that. moreover she has to think abt her child too. by demanding alimony and going through legal stuff,she is not going to get back anything except money. she supported her family all these years and she is capable of taking care of herself and baby. so instead of going into legal hassles she is choosing to focus on her baby and herself. why is that so wrong?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: nikitagmc

I would have:

1.) Told Naren the truth about the pregnancy. If he is unwilling to accept marriage and baby, then would have demanded a proper divorce so that the baby is not called illegitimate in society.

2.) Demanded a huge fraction of their property as alimony (to spite/annoy/take revenge from Rushali and Kinnari 😛 ), then would have kept 10% of it on the baby's name (for future security), and donated 90% of it to organisations working for benefit of rape victims and orphans (two in one- good deed done as well as to spite and annoy Rushali and Kinnari some more 😉😆 ) They wanted to kick the daughter in law out as soon as their purpose was over, fine, would have made them pay for it. 😈

3.) Told Pari everything and told her that she is free to marry Naren without feeling guilty if she wishes to, but would also warn her of what sort of family she would be going into- where her mother in law Rushali is conniving, selfish and manipulative, her sister in law Kinnari is a snobbish, self centered obnoxious woman, her father in law is a mute spectator, that they are dependent for business and finance on Sunanda Atya, and finally, that her brother in law is a rapist. Then would have let Pari take the final call about her life.

4.) Would have bought a house on the hills and started a new life. 😃


Love #4. thats the first thing she should do :) and hire someone to do the other 3 :D
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: JazzyM


Agree. It's so tiring. There is nothing new. Ever since Naren became normal he has forgotten Ankita, but Pari knows her. Being Purvi's child, Pari doesn't have any of Purvi's sanskar. By treating Ankita so poorly and blaming Mansi's husband for Ankita's pregnancy...wow! how low can be go?

I guess, after the leap, it will be shown that Pari can't have a child, then, they look for Ankita, Ankita scarificing her baby...then, maybe Mansi's secret about her baby too will come out...Gosh, it's a repeat and repeat...


It isn't a repeat of Purvi-Ovi-Arjun because Ovi was the third party in that triangle. She forced her way into Arjun's life and Purvi being self-sacrificing let it happen. Here, Ankita knows that Naren doesn't love her and is stepping away. The way she went about doing it could have used some help but other than than, I think she did the right thing.

At that time Purvi was bashed about letting go of her love. And now Ankita is being questioned about her sacrifices. Purvi sacrificed to join two people who didn't love each other; but Ankita did to save love between two people.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Congradulation Ankita, I am proud of you, you took a stand today and stick by your decision, what is the purpose of telling Naren you are carrying his child, so that he can marry you and hate you at the same time. it is better to be a single mother who still has her dignity.
Pari will come to regret this marriage, marry in haste regret later, naren memory will return and with it a new set of problems.
Rushali ,oh what a tangle web we weave when we first seek to deceived, she will regret this decision of forcing Ankita out of Naren's life.
At the end of the day they are all living a lie. the bubble will burst soon on pari and Naren wonderland.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: john909

if ankita's baby gets separated from her post leap just coz that selfish pari cant have a child, i am going to quit watching this show coz that is last straw for me. i m so hoping that ekta does not ruin it and let ankita fight for her baby and not give the baby up for anything. not even that selfish naren. today's tamasha proved that none of them (D family, karmarkars) deserve ankita or this baby. i m hoping soham leaves this messed D family and goes far away taking all his kids just like ankita is about to do. atleast they will have peace of mind. today soham proved that he is a better person than sachin any day. it is unbelievable and disgusting to see that even in this situation all sachin and his greedy wife can think of is property.

so far leaving naren goes, it does not make her unrealistic. she does not want a compromise, why is that so hard to understand? it is rushali who has manipulated her and hence her decisions of hiding the truth. she loves naren to the point of no return and she wants him to happy without any guilt why is that so difficult to grasp? she is using her heart to make these decisions and she cant tolerate any more hatred, accusations or her own character related rumors hence wants to run away from everything that hurts her. that is what makes her so realistic and not mahaan coz the punch line is naren does not love her and she is not able to handle that. moreover she has to think abt her child too. by demanding alimony and going through legal stuff,she is not going to get back anything except money. she supported her family all these years and she is capable of taking care of herself and baby. so instead of going into legal hassles she is choosing to focus on her baby and herself. why is that so wrong?

Nice post! and I agree. What, Ankita did was right.

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