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Hello everyone..
I am very new to this forum. Infact life maain dusri baar aisa hua hain ki I am addited to some show and onscreen jodi to this extent that I feel compelled to write about them...
Like many of you, I am also super upset about the current track and feeling sad about ishita's plight...i was so upset 😭 yesterday night (01/07/2014) that I didnt open the forum page (which I am generally doing every hour of the day last few days..amazing fanfictions by you guys...) coz ddnt want to see all negativity and get further upset...
The reason i decided to write this post is that i wanted to share my POV and try to bring down the 'Raman bashing' a lil bit...
Raman and Ishita is in a situation where they have started to depend on one another in good times and bad times.. they call their relationship friendship.. and is what the truest base of any relationship, even marraige and love (speaking from experience😳).. They are slowly falling in love with each other and yet that realization hasnt struck themselves as of now. I strongly believe that Ishita's blurting out "Aapko kaisa lageka jab koi aapse jhooth bole jinse aap..." She didnt know herself what she was going to say. Pyar ka initial stage main you have a strong pull towards the person.. and yet you cant explain it.. raman is also in the same soup. First un logo ko khud yeh realization hoga firna they can act upon it. And that will take time.. The initial stage of love when you are not sure about how exactly you feel yourself can be a very bittersweet experience.
kabhi kabhi pyaar ka realization ke liye, thodi doori aur misunderstanding jaruri hoti haain.. I also strongly believe that this track will do that only...
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Secondly, about Raman's overobsessive behaviour regarding his son.. You know how a person's thought process changes when she/he becomes a mother/father..it changes you completely.. You can do anything for your child.. Dont think I am supporting his stupidity.. yes agreed raman is ultimately spoiling this guy's future by pampering his demands.. But then again who said parenting is an easy task.. Trust me its very tough.. specially when your son doesnt call you dad and hates you to the core.. then I kind of feel raman's dilemma..
But yes one thing I dont like is, who is stopping him from talking rudely with Shagun (even thou he is helping her).. But that is the dialogue writer's fault.. not raman's, hain naa??
And last but not the least, i want their nokjhok to continue for some more time.. trust me, this initial thoda thoda pyaar situation is a very lovely situation... first kiss, first handholding, first hug...there is something so so special about it...😛
Thanks
Shalz...
PS: Hope I havent bored you all to death...
