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Posted: 11 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: Saanjh26

We are in 21st centuries. In this century, Marriage means respecting. trusting and loving each other.
Pakhi does not have to behave sati savitri type for the person who cheated her. It is not dharma, it is stupidity and her selfishness.

I also did not like Raghav and Kalpana's sindoor marriage. But from their point of view, it is not marriage but a commitment to each other to be true to each other.

Kamla is no right to decide what is right and wrong for her both daughters. She has spoiled Kalpana's life by making her isstrang. but in reality she just weakened her so much that she is ready to accept Raghav like she is accepting her so called mother. After all she is Kamla's own blood. if Kamla mata can forgive murderers, then her blood daughter can forgive a cheater. Kamla has kept pakhi delusional. She is encouraging her to see false dreams.

Morality is a debatable topic. For some people it is immoral that Pakhi is trying to woo Raghav when she very well knows that he is in love with Kalpana and he had married her just for revenge.
It also seems immoral to many people when Kamla does not take Kalpi' prasad to vithoba as her daughter trusted her so much.
We can't decide what is morally right or wrong in case of love. Because love itself is a moral for the person who is in love.

Sorry for such a long comment. sorry if u dont like it.





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Posted: 11 years ago
#12

Originally posted by: Saanjh26

We are in 21st centuries. In this century, Marriage means respecting. trusting and loving each other.
Pakhi does not have to behave sati savitri type for the person who cheated her. It is not dharma, it is stupidity and her selfishness.

I also did not like Raghav and Kalpana's sindoor marriage. But from their point of view, it is not marriage but a commitment to each other to be true to each other.

Kamla is no right to decide what is right and wrong for her both daughters. She has spoiled Kalpana's life by making her isstrang. but in reality she just weakened her so much that she is ready to accept Raghav like she is accepting her so called mother. After all she is Kamla's own blood. if Kamla mata can forgive murderers, then her blood daughter can forgive a cheater. Kamla has kept pakhi delusional. She is encouraging her to see false dreams.

Morality is a debatable topic. For some people it is immoral that Pakhi is trying to woo Raghav when she very well knows that he is in love with Kalpana and he had married her just for revenge.
It also seems immoral to many people when Kamla does not take Kalpi' prasad to vithoba as her daughter trusted her so much.
We can't decide what is morally right or wrong in case of love. Because love itself is a moral for the person who is in love.

Sorry for such a long comment. sorry if u dont like it.




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Posted: 11 years ago
#13

Originally posted by: Saanjh26

We are in 21st centuries. In this century, Marriage means respecting. trusting and loving each other.
Pakhi does not have to behave sati savitri type for the person who cheated her. It is not dharma, it is stupidity and her selfishness.

I also did not like Raghav and Kalpana's sindoor marriage. But from their point of view, it is not marriage but a commitment to each other to be true to each other.

Kamla is no right to decide what is right and wrong for her both daughters. She has spoiled Kalpana's life by making her isstrang. but in reality she just weakened her so much that she is ready to accept Raghav like she is accepting her so called mother. After all she is Kamla's own blood. if Kamla mata can forgive murderers, then her blood daughter can forgive a cheater. Kamla has kept pakhi delusional. She is encouraging her to see false dreams.

Morality is a debatable topic. For some people it is immoral that Pakhi is trying to woo Raghav when she very well knows that he is in love with Kalpana and he had married her just for revenge.
It also seems immoral to many people when Kamla does not take Kalpi' prasad to vithoba as her daughter trusted her so much.
We can't decide what is morally right or wrong in case of love. Because love itself is a moral for the person who is in love.

Sorry for such a long comment. sorry if u dont like it.




see i dont believe that everybody is right or anybody is wrong. Kamal as a woman who has seen the world and how the world lookes at such relationships that is presently between raghav and kalpi. leave aside theri love for each other. but for all the world and law raghav is a married man. and kalpi is not his wife. she becomes the other woman. and all the world knows what society thinks of the other woman in a marriage. Kamla is simply trying to protect her daughter.
Pakhi, is living in a world of delusion, but being Raghav wife is also her reality. it is regressive that a woman has to put up with a loveless marriage. but pakhi was already in love with raghav, it was her dream to be his wife, and she does become his wife only now her dream has truned into a nightmare. Pakhi psychosis has been damaged for good. by marrying her with out loving her Raghav betrayed her, kalpi lets raghav put sindoor in her mangh, betrayed her. kamala hid this fact from her pakhi only sees it as a betrayal. pakhi is stuck in a place that she has no control of.

i know a lot of people dont like pakhi. but this revenge marriage is not her doing. she was put in this position by raghav. pakhi's life is now basically over, she is going to end up in a mental asalam or jail. and for this Raghav is souly to be blamed.

why i dont like Raghna love story is because for me love inspires and makes you a better person.
but in this story both characters are week, and are unable to take the right decisions at the right time. Raghav feels guilty for what he did to pakhi, so he has accepted the relationship as a friendship. he does not want to hurt his mother so is going to remain married to pakhi for a year.

Kalpi wow who has such great love for raghav does not trust him, so he has to prove his love and that he will come back to her by putting sindoor in her mangh. how can these two people be the epitome of love. Kalpi loves her parents but lies to them, her parents trust her but she brakes their trust. all becasue Raghav and kalpi cant bare to be away from eachother. so they keep rubbing their love in everybody elses face, especially pakhi.

Raghav shouldnt have married Pakhi in the first place.

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Posted: 11 years ago
#14

Originally posted by: pads23

...any one who has ever been in love will understand the plight and feelings of raghav and kalpi...it is an overwhelming..uncontrollable emotion...which does not recognise or fear barriers...class or even morals...or even duniya kya kahegi...these two will reach that stage as well...

i know that feeling, but the truth is that after you brake all the rules of morality, values and society, this same love drags you to the pits of hell. and that one person you have made the center of you universe, becomes the sun that is way too close and is destroying your very existence. i can say for experience that the love that makes you break all the laws of society only leads to destruction.
this fearless love that brakes all barriers of class and morality, do not have a happily ever after.

and history is vitness to that

love that strives to join community and societys, and families. that stays within the norms of society and takes into account the welfare of others. a love not afraid of sacrifice, that can give new life to another and not destroy another;s life. is the love that sustains.

love is all consuming, but love also set you free. it just depends which path one takes in love
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Posted: 11 years ago
#15
Come on guys, lets not fight, can't we all just get along and agree to disagree 😆. It's only a show, the characters are not at fault, blame the creatives for the rubbish they have written, all for the sake of drama 😡. They have ruined the characters, yes I'm disgusted by how each characters look and my biggest disgust is how they portrayed these two young ladies, basically like Raghav is a prize and both a running a damn race to see who wins him first.
Edited by Ginger-Spice - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
#16
raghav and kalpi r behaving exactly like two lovers and as we all say
ishaq and ashiqui ka fitoor jiske mu laga wo banda is duniya se to gaya
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Though here i will say Kalpi is by every means behaving the way a woman with self respect fallen in love should behave while Raghav is behaving exactly like a ashiqu with a crazy mom


as for paaki well after seeing today episode al i can say is that lady has no self respect .being a wife and making ur marriage work does not mean u sell ur self respect in market at rupee and be a dog waiting to fed by ur owner. Paaki is behaving the same right now .


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Posted: 11 years ago
#17
Who cares about society! We live our life to suit ourselves!! To hell with society! What matters most is love for eachother! And of Paaki was in her right mind she wod know that rags never loved her and never will! Foolish girl! So caught up with herself she fail to see the truth and fooled herself into thinking that rags loves her! It's her own stupidity that put her where she is right now! Along with Kamla!! Which is the one to blame!!
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Posted: 11 years ago
#18
Love itself have many definitions. Every person have their felling and way to describe love. I like youe thought for love and respect your felling abt love n values.

But ema is the story abt two girls -one got every think without any hardwork or must say fight. Other have to fight for every think even for her own mother love.

Now going track is also abt the same. Kalpi is fighting for her love n pakhi who always got every thing without any fight not ready to left raghav even after knowing the truth. bcz this only pakhi jhid that raghav is mine. She actually not in love with him..


I do agree that the rangna marriage is not acceptable, for that we all aaasmanis are fighting together.

That's my pov for ema

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