Originally posted by: Saanjh26
We are in 21st centuries. In this century, Marriage means respecting. trusting and loving each other.
Pakhi does not have to behave sati savitri type for the person who cheated her. It is not dharma, it is stupidity and her selfishness.
I also did not like Raghav and Kalpana's sindoor marriage. But from their point of view, it is not marriage but a commitment to each other to be true to each other.
Kamla is no right to decide what is right and wrong for her both daughters. She has spoiled Kalpana's life by making her isstrang. but in reality she just weakened her so much that she is ready to accept Raghav like she is accepting her so called mother. After all she is Kamla's own blood. if Kamla mata can forgive murderers, then her blood daughter can forgive a cheater. Kamla has kept pakhi delusional. She is encouraging her to see false dreams.
Morality is a debatable topic. For some people it is immoral that Pakhi is trying to woo Raghav when she very well knows that he is in love with Kalpana and he had married her just for revenge.
It also seems immoral to many people when Kamla does not take Kalpi' prasad to vithoba as her daughter trusted her so much.
We can't decide what is morally right or wrong in case of love. Because love itself is a moral for the person who is in love.
Sorry for such a long comment. sorry if u dont like it.
see i dont believe that everybody is right or anybody is wrong. Kamal as a woman who has seen the world and how the world lookes at such relationships that is presently between raghav and kalpi. leave aside theri love for each other. but for all the world and law raghav is a married man. and kalpi is not his wife. she becomes the other woman. and all the world knows what society thinks of the other woman in a marriage. Kamla is simply trying to protect her daughter.
Pakhi, is living in a world of delusion, but being Raghav wife is also her reality. it is regressive that a woman has to put up with a loveless marriage. but pakhi was already in love with raghav, it was her dream to be his wife, and she does become his wife only now her dream has truned into a nightmare. Pakhi psychosis has been damaged for good. by marrying her with out loving her Raghav betrayed her, kalpi lets raghav put sindoor in her mangh, betrayed her. kamala hid this fact from her pakhi only sees it as a betrayal. pakhi is stuck in a place that she has no control of.
i know a lot of people dont like pakhi. but this revenge marriage is not her doing. she was put in this position by raghav. pakhi's life is now basically over, she is going to end up in a mental asalam or jail. and for this Raghav is souly to be blamed.
why i dont like Raghna love story is because for me love inspires and makes you a better person.
but in this story both characters are week, and are unable to take the right decisions at the right time. Raghav feels guilty for what he did to pakhi, so he has accepted the relationship as a friendship. he does not want to hurt his mother so is going to remain married to pakhi for a year.
Kalpi wow who has such great love for raghav does not trust him, so he has to prove his love and that he will come back to her by putting sindoor in her mangh. how can these two people be the epitome of love. Kalpi loves her parents but lies to them, her parents trust her but she brakes their trust. all becasue Raghav and kalpi cant bare to be away from eachother. so they keep rubbing their love in everybody elses face, especially pakhi.
Raghav shouldnt have married Pakhi in the first place.