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jay_bpm

@jay_bpm

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Posted: 11 years ago

Yes this damn track, making me write so much

Raman dear can cry and feel guilty all he wants. He can say all he wants he cares and loves Ruhi and whoever, but in end his actions only show his obsessiveness for his mistakes (read Shagun 1st mistake, Adi 2nd mistake 😆)

Many would say Raman is going through turmoil and all so he's not in control of his actions. Well he's the one who is allowing such turmoil to take place. If I'm not wrong, Adi asked Raman to sign some paper that says Raman's name no longer to be used as his fathers. For all these years he was away so why now? I don't get why he's so obsessed with this brat 😕 coz he's first child or coz he's "son" - who cares. At the end of the day for Adi or his stupid turmoil, more than ones he has hurt Ruhi and Ishita.

Well if he is feeling so damn guilty about whole thing, that itself is proof enough he needs to make hard decision and release Ruhi & Ishita from his nonsense. He can not continue this "trumoil" for Adi crap forever and still expect Ruhi-Ishita to stick around. Either you accept your brat kid with all nonsense or tell him straight he can't manipulate.

If Raman is so weak to decide that, then Ishita needs to show Raman his place. If she too accepts Raman's stupidity for sake of stupid "lubb" 🤢 then no respect for her either !!!

So in the end, Raman can cry all he wants, feel all guilty, say how much he loves Ruhi & cares for Ishita, whatever turmoil he experiences blah blah 🥱 🥱 🥱 it's his actions and behaviors that matter !!!

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Darcyadmirer

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Posted: 11 years ago

Amazing post! Totally agree!

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BombayTroll

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Posted: 11 years ago

Well good post

I agree completely

He had easy option of telling everything to ishita but choose to listen to airhead

Here even if Raman himself comes and says he did it ppl here will find creative ways of defending him

And finally no emotional turmoil allows you to shout at your daughter like that

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Juanita

@BlurredLines

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Posted: 11 years ago

YHM really had me so much invested in the story now i simple dont care, raman acting harsh with ruhi at the time DNA fiasco was horrible but i thought those days are over and raman has matured but woah wat a twist he goes back to the same old raman i hated again.

come on fine your are hiding a huge secret, all people will have huge secrets but that doesnt mean they cry over it and bash at those who love them. if he has a inner turmoil go ride to a park scream your frustruation or cry if you want to , dont bring it home and hurt a little girl.

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parichayan

@parichayan

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Posted: 11 years ago

saying nice post will be an understatement now😛😆

well coming to the topic well said i agree to each n evry point u raised why is he so much obsessed wid adi😕,resisting all his mistakes n rude behaviour which is no where to acceptence at all !!,there wasn't any reason that he reacted so rudely to ruhi😒,ok fine he is under pressure of his basics n his situation,but knowing how he himself accepts this fact that ishita is much more matured women then shagun n can handle the truth if he would've told her .

they both started good as couple with believing each other n accepting wid each otherz true personalities no matter being different from each other hence i dont find raman being hiding the truth from ishita n releasing kept hurting his beloved ones this situation can very well be handeled n solved if dealt wid maturity(no offence to anyone jus my pov😊)

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adorableshy

@adorableshy

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Posted: 11 years ago

Wow great post.. i totally agree wid u..

If raman knws dat it is wrong den he shldnt b doin it n if still continues wid his mistake den it doesnt make him bechara or poor soul n he deserves punishment causin it wont b juz a mistake

If he is so obsessed wid adi den juz go bak to him beg him n stay wid him n leave d angels so dat dey cn stay peacefully widout any confusion

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jay_bpm

@jay_bpm

Stunner

Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: kidsname

YHM really had me so much invested in the story now i simple dont care, raman acting harsh with ruhi at the time DNA fiasco was horrible but i thought those days are over and raman has matured but woah wat a twist he goes back to the same old raman i hated again.

come on fine your are hiding a huge secret, all people will have huge secrets but that doesnt mean they cry over it and bash at those who love them. if he has a inner turmoil go ride to a park scream your frustruation or cry if you want to , dont bring it home and hurt a little girl.

that's the issue, how many times is he going to repeat same cycle over and over.

He does that with his family coz they are there with him. when he was afraid of loosing Ruhi, he knew not to mess up. So he needs a reality check again and this time it has to be for good

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jay_bpm

@jay_bpm

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: parichayan
saying nice post will be an understatement now😛😆
well coming to the topic well said i agree to each n evry point u raised why is he so much obsessed wid adi😕,resisting all his mistakes n rude behaviour which is no where to acceptence at all !!,there wasn't any reason that he reacted so rudely to ruhi😒,ok fine he is under pressure of his basics n his situation,but knowing how he himself accepts this fact that ishita is much more matured women then shagun n can handle the truth if he would've told her .
they both started good as couple with believing each other n accepting wid each otherz true personalities no matter being different from each other hence i dont find raman being hiding the truth from ishita n releasing kept hurting his beloved ones this situation can very well be handeled n solved if dealt wid maturity(no offence to anyone jus my pov😊)

I too don't get his obsession with Adi, sure no matter what he'll always care very much abt him being son. But this is not just affection of father, it's madness.

He does value Ruhi & Ishita in his life, but when it comes to that brat; he loses his mind. He did that few times and it was small matter. But how many times going to be on same path over and over and over and over again. It's time he needs serious reality check !! 😳

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jay_bpm

@jay_bpm

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: adorableshy
Wow great post.. i totally agree wid u..
If raman knws dat it is wrong den he shldnt b doin it n if still continues wid his mistake den it doesnt make him bechara or poor soul n he deserves punishment causin it wont b juz a mistake
If he is so obsessed wid adi den juz go bak to him beg him n stay wid him n leave d angels so dat dey cn stay peacefully widout any confusion

Yes, his turmoil, confusion, guilt and all that is fine. I give it to him.

But his behavior always shows up as in favor of that brat? Sure he values Ruhi & Ishita in his life, but they are also at mercy of that little brat. If all goes well with him dude will behave nice with them 😕

Guilt, redemption, pain all are at one side. But you can't always use guilt as your savior. Actions impact more and he can't continue this Adi nonsense forever. He needs to make decision on matter. If can't do it, then Ishita needs to give him reality check !!

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jay_bpm

@jay_bpm

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Originally posted by: --mancityfan--
Well good post

I agree completely

He had easy option of telling everything to ishita but choose to listen to airhead

Here even if Raman himself comes and says he did it ppl here will find creative ways of defending him

And finally no emotional turmoil allows you to shout at your daughter like that

problem is, he's getting in habit of making same mistakes again and again.

He's not only one who feels pain, guilt, turmoil, blah blah...

If instead of Amma, it was someone else what would he do? But it's Ishita's mother so he can make this decision? 😕