Originally posted by: -Purva-
All I mean to say is that when you think you are in love, don't forget to put yourself first. When you forget yourself and your own welfare, interests, hobbies and individuality in the pursuit of being a couple then that is a surefire recipe for disaster. Always retain the "I".
In life and elsewhere if you do not consider yourself and your own interests then nobody will give them any importance. If you are not important to yourself, why should you and your interests be important to anyone else?
That's why I said these sentiments of "giving up your life for someone else, loving someone more than yourself, sacrificing everything for someone" - they all sound nice in teleserials and fairytales- but in real life - ALWAYS pay attention to the "I".