Originally posted by: sweet_diksha
Hi Mansi... i understand ur anger ... even i was a bit of angry after watching it... but not much... i don't know why, but i somewhat expected it...and to be frank, now when i think of her behavior, i feel , what she did was right... i myself in her position might have done the same thing
what Jodha did yest? do u think she saved Ruku? ... No... Jodha saved the person she loves most, from breaking down completely... Jodha saved Jalal from the lifelong guilt he might have faced after his anger had cooled down , and then he would have hold himself guilty for being one of the reasons of Ruku's actions... and that guilt would have shaken his trust in himself, his ability to trust any other person ever in his life , his confidence would have been shattered as a King as anybody would have asked abt his ability to judge other ppl and even there would have been questions abt his ability as a king who can be fooled by anybody, and then instead of changing that weakness in him , he punishes the other person who fooled him...
i m not saying what Ruku did was right... she was dead wrong... but punishing her that moment , was certainly not the solution... if punishing others gives u more pains for entire life, then that punishment is not right... the punishment should be such that will give u satisfaction of doing proper justice, and that it should never give u feeling of guilt any time in ur life...and here had Jalal punished Ruku, later he would have held himself guilty for her behavior and that would have done injustice with his relationship with Jodha as well as with himself as a king, as a husband , as a friend and as a human...so the truth abt Jalal letting Ruku go scot free and that too coz of Jo, is only one thing... JODHA NOT JUST SAVED JALAL FROM COMPLETE BREAKDOWN, BUT ALSO EARNED THE PLACE IN HIS LIFE OF THAT OF A BACKBONE, HIS ULTIMATE SUPPORT AND HIS TRUE COMPANION AND LOVE... she gave him a new trust, that no matter what, he will never be alone in his life anymore, that she will be all the way with him to share and fulfill his every dream as a king, as a father, as a friend, as a husband and as a human being...
yest after pouring his heart to her, he said one sentence that she not just understands him but even his relationships... and that's true... coz just some time back when she had asked him to think if he has ignored Ruku while getting close to Jodha, he had acknowledged the truth behind her words...ok, we think Jo to be mahaan, but no friends... Jo was just being a woman... the same woman who is not happy to share her husband even with his first wife... and so if she understands Ruku's mind, then i ll say it's good of her... coz had Jo not understood Ruku's problem, what difference would have been btw her and others?
and why just Ruku? Jodha even proved to be a better wife that any other wife of Jalal , by understanding him even better than he understands himself... she stopped him at right moment from punishing Ruku, she supported him , stopped him from breaking down, she helped him in restoring his trust in himself and gave him the trust that he still has some ppl in his life who won't backstab him, those ppl whom he can trust to take care of Jalal as a person, as a child, as a friend and as a husband, when he will be busy taking care of his subjects and his kingdom... she gave him that feeling of peace and completeness to hold on to himself... what's wrong in that?
i m not praising Jo... but yes, now i do understand and like the woman in Jo who proves herself to be a good woman, a good wife and a good human...
and now the thing remains abt Ruku... yes, what she did was completely wrong, and if we think Jalal has forgiven her completely, then it's not right... he has given her that deadly warning, that this was her last mistake he tolerated, that this was her last chance he is giving her... and one more mistake from her, and she will lose everything... now it's upto her if she learns her lesson or continues with her misdeeds without understanding Jalal's true intentions of letting her go with just a warning...
and if still ruku didn't change herself, and continued with her misdeeds, then next time when Jalal will punish her , the punishment will be ultimate and most imp thing is that he will never feel guilty of his decision... and that time even Jo will support him completely...
folks, don't be disheartened ... the ever heartless Jalal , is now taking decisions with his heart , is the thing that makes him a good , a true human than a cruel ruthless person... and the peace and support he is finding in Jo and her love will certainly give him stability in his personal life , and that will be when he will be able to concentrate more on his duties as a king which will finally lead him towards becoming the GR8 emperor, who is loved and respected , not just by his own ppl , his own subjects, but even by his enemies...
Anupamaa
