Help can be a Hindrance - Page 2

Originally posted by: reeha...k

You're welcome for the analysis 😆

I do agree to some extent that she's caught in a difficult position, but it's still really odd:

- Her first encounter with her son is understandable, but even after then she's been in a daze where we haven't been able to see her interacting or thinking about Rudra OR paro. Like another person said in another thread, It's almost like she's in her own little bubble 😕la bubble may be a depression that inhibits neurons and act consistently

As for the rest, I do think coming home would be a shock to anyone, but she's still awefully silent, and hasn't attempted to even communicate with Paro, after all Paro has been through hell and high water, and she has "raised" and been "like a mother" to her for all these years...I don't know I think the CVs have failed to reiterate this maternal side that they've SAID to us, but haven't SHOWN us via actions that should have occured lately 🤔. Maybe that's just for now, but they'll show it down the line? Wishful thinking I guess! 😕I agree, it seems that it has lost the maternal instinct with his smooth face expressionless, but may be this is the expected goal.

By cons I want to see a little emotion on his face

Paro, is defo a Saint, so I don't think a UN job is beyond her 😆oh no I do not want Mother Teresa I need the romantic scenes to follow😆

Originally posted by: Msfrootie

Reeha, well said.. I was just ranting on the same on Diya di's post..

I respected her for being strong enough to get out of a bad marriage and even follow her heart if that was the case with Teju. She made her decisions and she lived it. Now why this self pity and expectation from Paro to solve everything for her. To the extent that Paro has to almost resort to falsehood to console her.. I feel this is another character going the Laila way. Laila was turned into the evil witch and Mala will be the spineless tear bag. Hope she takes a turn for the better in the coming days..😕

Originally posted by: ttt1

nice post :-)

something is missing in the characterization of mala

a woman who decided to end the marriage because it was meaningless , choose to be happy , choose to mother a random girl can either be a and self centered manipulator or a nice soul

either ways she cant be clueless , she cant be this weak

she can be either a go getter (then there sgouldnt be any self pity )

or she is as nice as paro believes her to be (then she should gather by now any attempts of paro to mend her relationship is putting both paro and rudra into captive situation like you mentioned)

feeling guilty for leaving rudra i understand , but this doesnt explain mala behavior completely , i see a flaw here

Originally posted by: SherryGS

Interesting take for sure. I think a huge part of the radon Mala is in this situation to begin with is that she is in fact a weak woman. She is easily manipulated and not able to stand up to people. Sad, but I think that is her character . I don't hate her, as most of RR forum does :) but I se that she is not a pillar of strength by any means.

Originally posted by: Dsntmatter

The problem is they won't show her as weak, they'll show her as a victim in a huge conspiracy by God knows how many people.

Originally posted by: _SenbonZakura_

When have you ever seen her do something Reeha?? I have always said, Mala is the weakest. I have no idea how her son and her pseudo-daughter turned out to be this strong.

Because, Mala, is not what you call strong.

Her sister influenced her. Her marriage wasn't good enough.. She left.

She tried getting her son back, once, maybe twice.. But that was it.

Fifteen years she spent in agony, I understand. But then, what did she do to alleviate that pain?

She was a Rani right? A Rani Thakurain... She had resources. Finding her son was THAT difficult? Nahi.

She was just weak. She just floated through her life. Never stepping up.

Aur uska kuch nahi kar sakte. She is like that only.

I really don't expect anything off of her.