Character in EMA - Is Kalpana right or wrong to accept Raghav back.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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This post is for all the people who is questioning Kalpana's decision to accept her marriage with Raghav. I was also shocked when She accepted the sinddor incident as marriage. But then I Started thinking about her character.
Is not that the same girl who loves her mother madly. Her mother who did not care for her happiness, slapped her every time without any reason. Her mother slapped her when She worked in nettu's house for her mother only. She got slapped by her mother on the day of her engagement as she dared to love someone whom Pakhi loves. Was Kalpana at fault on both occasions. But she still loves her mother and allows her mother to remove sindoor from her maang. Her love for her mother never decreases. Her father claims to love her but always supports his wife. Does not Kalpana still love her Father. Her brother claims to care for her but always listen to his mother. Does not Kalpana still love her brother.
Kalpana loves her family a lot and she craves same love from them. But instead of that she gets only slaps and disappointments. But she still loves them. Now come the love of her life, Raghav. Raghav claims to love her and left her in the wedding mandap and married Pakhi as the same way as her mother saved Pakhi instead of her in drowning incident. Kalpana who longs for the love from her aai does not get that love. But whenever her aai says that she loves her and defends her every action, she believes it and accepts her. Same happens with her when Raghav accepts her mistake and Says that he loves her. She starts believing him again. She does accept a marriage which does not hold any value in the society but she still chooses to accept that marriage. Does not woman in her try to refrain her from accepting this marriage.
I think yes. But She still chooses to honor a marriage which is sin in the eyes of society. As Kalpana is helpless in her love. May be in her heart she has accepted the fact that unconditional love is not in her fate. when her own mother did not give her that unconditional love, why to expect it from Raghav. Her longing for love made her to accept the marriage.

I think in all the inconsistency in EMA, only Kalpana's Character is consistent.
I am sorry if I have hurt someone. It is just my point of view.
I never wanted Kalpana to accept Raghav back so easily.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Yes!!!! Kalpana always loves her aai even though her aai chose Pakhi over her at many occasions. She knows that Raghav was helpless as he came to know the reason behind his father's death and mother's fate and so had to take this drastic step of marrying Pakhi and so Kalpana understands that he still loves her and she needs to wait for his mother's sake.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Kalpi has never questioned Raghav's love!! If Raghav had ditched her because he found someone else better than Kalpi then she would have truly backed out..I agree with you, once Kalpi loves sum1 then no matter what that person does to her, she will always in her heart try to forgive them...Noone wanted Kalpi to accept Raghav so easily...But since the cvs r hell bent on making us insane, at this point we r willing to accept any illogical track regarding RAGNA 😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: erikalui

Yes!!!! Kalpana always loves her aai even though her aai chose Pakhi over her at many occasions. She knows that Raghav was helpless as he came to know the reason behind his father's death and mother's fate and so had to take this drastic step of marrying Pakhi and so Kalpana understands that he still loves her and she needs to wait for his mother's sake.



I read some post in which someone asked what kind of woman Kalpana is as she is supporting raghav in taking revenge from an innocent Pakhi. But Kalpana did not support Raghav for a moment in his revenge. She is just a normal human being who is helpless in her love. She accepted back the same man who humiliated her leaving her in altar, She had forgiven Raghav for the insult she faced as she loves him. he is neither supporting Raghav nor accepting his ways. But she knows that Raghav will not listen to her like her mother who never cared to listen her. She is torn between Raghav and Kamla who both claim to love her but do not care for her. Raghav put sindoor on her maang to mark her as his and her mother removes that sindoor from her maang for her Pakhi baby's happiness. Raghav did not ask Kalpana before filling her maang and Kamla did not care for Kalpana's pleadings while removing sindur from her maang.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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After finding out today through the precap that Kalpi told Ragav that they should next meet when the year is up... her decision is correct.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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loved this post on kalpi... you said it all... she always believed in her mother's words and doing same with raghav too...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: amy.r

Kalpi has never questioned Raghav's love!! If Raghav had ditched her because he found someone else better than Kalpi then she would have truly backed out..I agree with you, once Kalpi loves sum1 then no matter what that person does to her, she will always in her heart try to forgive them...Noone wanted Kalpi to accept Raghav so easily...But since the cvs r hell bent on making us insane, at this point we r willing to accept any illogical track regarding RAGNA 😆

@bold:me too partner 😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Its a logical point!! Never thought this side of the story..very good obsevation and awsome post i must say..

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