Mr and Mrs and Mrs Singhania

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Yeah I am a tough one to please sometimes... Or not. I just know where I stand on certain things and infidelity is infidelity no matter how much one tries to pose it off as something else.
So some Ragna fans are probably celebrating. CV's probably thinking we can't complain now because they gave us what we wanted which was in essence Raghav marrying Kalpi.

I on the other hand well here is where I stand. When I saw that scene it was O_O to O_o to -.-

That wasn't romantic. That wasn't awww. That was just WHAT IN THE WORLD.

Because ladies, listen, if think that romantic then think about this. You could be the married woman sitting in your house waiting for your husband to come home but he busy by some temple putting sindoor on another woman head. Does it sound romantic now? It sounds rather despicable doesn't it?

Well that is what it was. The fact is Raghav is still married to Pakhi. He is LEGALLY married to Pakhi. In the eyes of the law and society she is his wife. Yes he loves Kalpi, yes Kalpi loves him, yes they said they accepted each other as man and wife since the moment they accepted their love for each other but it still remains, PAKHI IS HIS LEGALLY MARRIED WIFE.

So... That whole sindoor act was annoying to see. Kalpi was made the second wife and let's not stop there but now ALL of society including her family is going to point fingers at her. Raghav isn't going to get half the blame that she is going to get.

And as for Pookhi well once again she is made the innocent victim here, at the expense of the decimation of Kalpi's character.

That scene was not romantic for me. I did not approve of it. It unfaithfulness. It's wrong.

If he wants to marry Kalpi then divorce Pakhi first. Then he will have the right to put that sindoor on Kalpi's head.

Stop corrupting young girls mind into thinking that is romantic and right. It is not. It really is not.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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i wasnt romantic i was woah!! I am happy their married but i dont want kalpu to be the second one or the mistresss! rags better divorce that paaki
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Exactly Vidya, how can we rejoice for this, when this has reduced Kalpi to the second woman in Raghav's life.
She will loose all her respect in front of others and in fact everyone's sympathy will be towards Pakhi the innocent Sati Savitri wife

Before only Raghav was accused of hurting the innocent Pakhi and Kalpi too was the innocent victim now she becomes the opposite because of what happened

I desperately want Ragna but not like this, it should be done the right way either by him divorcing Pakhi or by Pakhi stepping away voluntarily but it's too late now, they have already put Kalpi in the wrong by no fault of hers 😕

And Kamala will be the first one who'll totally tear her down and destroy her from inside with guilt by accusing her of loosing her character 😕

This is so wrong, CV's have done it at last destroyed Kalpi's character and made Pakhi mahan
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Now raghav shld divorce pakhi otherwise i'm still not watching..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Completely agree !!! For me its like a mockery of marriage and the emotions invloved. These serials have made a joke out of the pure rituals of sindoor and mangalsutra . Paakhi puts on sindoor and magalsutra all by herself and Kamla gives her bhashan on power of mangalsutra? So like if tomo I decide i want to be Ranbir Kapoor 's wife i should just get some sindoor and magalsutra and apply it me in his name ? What nonsense!!!!!
And Raaghav is applying sindoor to Kalpi to what? Stake his claim and wah will their relationship be named as? Its not legal and definitely immoral , na pundit na witnesses na parents to give her away or bless them so how dos this become a traditional marriage? So now Paakhi is his legal wife and Kalpi his traditional wife? And u know the best joke? His name is Raghav i.e the name of Shri Ram who was famous for being monogamous ...ek vachani maryada purushottam ...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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U R right dear I can't disagree with u but personally I prefer the sindoor than any legal document I was married according to hindu rights to my husband then 5 years after that ceremony we made our marriage legal by law because I always believe that I should live with a person and know him before I marry him legally but hey I am from the western world so I don't know how it is in India
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Ohh BTW pleease pleease make a CC on this new fiasco love your CC pics and always am looking fwd to them ... Thanxs Vidya.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Hi Vidya,
Loved your post. This is not marriage. But with this act, kalpi will either loose her mother or her mother will make sure that everyone in this world comes to know about this. Kamla is very traditional. She will not just sit quite. She will give bhashan to raghav and kalpi. She may even disown kalpi.

This news will surely go to nitu. Nitu will not sit quite. She will make sure that pakhi knows it. So it is just start of the divorce process. May be like raghav will be legally charged by kapoors,because he has married some one else also breaking their deal. Some thing will be there i guess. So this sindoor thing will just initiate the process where,kalpi will be left with no one and raghav will responsible for her. The deal may make raghav to pay lot of money to kapoors. Or give them their property. So RA---KHI marriage will break. Then Ragna can get married properly.


This is what i guess. Share your views.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: drdee142

Exactly Vidya, how can we rejoice for this, when this has reduced Kalpi to the second woman in Raghav's life.

She will loose all her respect in front of others and in fact everyone's sympathy will be towards Pakhi the innocent Sati Savitri wife

Before only Raghav was accused of hurting the innocent Pakhi and Kalpi too was the innocent victim now she becomes the opposite because of what happened

I desperately want Ragna but not like this, it should be done the right way either by him divorcing Pakhi or by Pakhi stepping away voluntarily but it's too late now, they have already put Kalpi in the wrong by no fault of hers 😕

And Kamala will be the first one who'll totally tear her down and destroy her from inside with guilt by accusing her of loosing her character 😕

This is so wrong, CV's have done it at last destroyed Kalpi's character and made Pakhi mahan


It is absolutely disgusting. And the way it was executed was not great either, you know how he picked up the handful of sindoor and threw it on her face.

I was like Say what! Have some respect! Again that wasn't romantic! It was as though Kalpana was some kind of property he just claimed his right on.

Seriously! Women have move value than that ok!

Girls listen to me... Anytime a guy does that to you, he deserves a slap! Because you are not a canvas for him to paint his right on. You are his equal in every way and should get that respect.


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Posted: 11 years ago
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I also agree with you. I was hoping that kalpi would stop him putting sindoor, for my surprise...she was waiting for him to put it on her forehead...The writers destroyed her character. Bad...

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