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Posted: 11 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: aparnauma

The problem is they don't know how to tackle this lady without hurting her.

She ran away from family when she was young and came back searching for a family because she was alone and lonely
They are irritated with her and this lady is prickly
If they hurt her she may up and leave and she has no where to go
Anandi apologising her is her way of buying her support
Begin with a sorry if she was hurt but please listen to our POV too is Anandi's plan to deal with her

I hear what you are saying, but haven't Shekhars just been pacifying DB all along; and what is the result? She just gets more empowered and demanding with passing time.
Isn't it time they realise that DB is of a different breed, and attributes like sophistication, tolerance, politeness will not work in her case. I would rather have leave the house (if she had the guts) than putting up with so much of insult. Atleast that way Shekhars will know if she can really leave or is it just futile talks.

Too frustrated with this silence and goodness in BV everywhere

Tomorrow will be one more sorry drama. Is Anandi just left to keep changing one person after the other.

Tomo is Sa's drama, and I feel so disgusted seeing Saurabh and his cheap trick (credits to the actor for pulling the character well) that I am gonna survive on WUs for couple of days I guess.


Edited by Missesha - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Who is Dadibua to order Ira, Meenu and Anandi?
It is Ira's house, she is the one who should decide what to do in her kitchen and what not to do.

Dadibua is a guest only. Daddu must open his mouth and tell her to mind her own business.

Alok was laughing. Anoop I am sure will soon start faking Amnesia.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Do they want to give message that persons like DB should be given free hand to do what they want to do otherwise they will leave the house? Isn't it time to tell her that she is wrong, that she is alone because of her own nature? If somebody has had a difficult past, does that mean he/she is free to make other's life difficult? Perhaps daddu should have make her understand at the beginning itself (during her insistence of pallu) that they believe in modern living and she cannot impose her belief on his family.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Missesha

I hear what you are saying, but haven't Shekhars just been pacifying DB all along; and what is the result? She just gets more empowered and demanding with passing time.

Isn't it time they realise that DB is of a different breed, and attributes like sophistication, tolerance, politeness will not work in her case. I would rather have leave the house (if she had the guts) than putting up with so much of insult. Atleast that way Shekhars will know if she can really leave or is it just futile talks.

Too frustrated with this silence and goodness in BV everywhere

Tomorrow will be one more sorry drama. Is Anandi just left to keep changing one person after the other.

Tomo is Sa's drama, and I feel so disgusted seeing Saurabh and his cheap trick (credits to the actor for pulling the character well) that I am gonna survive on WUs for couple of days I guess.


It should start with Daddu and he should tell her straight while he loves her and wants her to live with them she should learn to live and let live and stop imposing her views on every one. They are mostly keeping quiet out of respect for Daddu's feelings and Daddu should consider their feelings
Politeness will not work and if they are harsh with her she may get up and leave and they end up feeling guilty for driving away a lonely homeless woman🤢
But I guess this will go on until she learns Sanchi's story too🤢
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Posted: 11 years ago
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The only thing I applaud BV for is to lift this secrecy and shame off something as normal as periods and take up issues of woman needing rest during these days, yet functioning normally as much as she can.
I find DB a hypocrite. She was talking about shastras. Which shastras condone a woman running away from home and marrying against family wishes? Why does she not cover her head even while doing pooja whereas others should cover head always? Why does she not think of sattvic/tamsic stuff in food? Bade achaar chaat khaati hai! She knows only about customs related to women but none about men?

Even I felt Alok was trying to suppress his laughter today.🤢

I feel KB men except Shiv are spineless. Maybe mute also. How come they do not say anything?

Daddu is too useless. Why couldn't he tell Subhadra to just stop? She is throwing her weight around only because everyone is silent!

I hate all drama in BV these days. The one at Jetsar is even worse with all focus on DS, her so called ilaaj by spiritual cum political guru cum wannabe psychiatrist baba! I hate those fake meditation sessions and that baba's fake peaceful accent.😡
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Posted: 11 years ago
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anandi says that she will try to explain but DB is not the type who will accept explanations from someone like anandi. anandi should leave it to Ira to do that.

anandi is always takes initiative which backfires and irritates her detractors like db and sanchi.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I am surprised anandi herself followed them recently till ira told her to stop following them. After being a sarpanch and educated she was still following this custom till she got married to shekhar household. I don't like shekhar women bending to dadi buaa customs and becoming regressive. Why change their lifestyle for a new person in the family. Don't like anandi with the pallu again the show.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: SPuja

Do they want to give message that persons like DB should be given free hand to do what they want to do otherwise they will leave the house? Isn't it time to tell her that she is wrong, that she is alone because of her own nature? If somebody has had a difficult past, does that mean he/she is free to make other's life difficult? Perhaps daddu should have make her understand at the beginning itself (during her insistence of pallu) that they believe in modern living and she cannot impose her belief on his family.



Bold@ That's what should've exactly happened, instead of listening to her, Daddu could've easily convinced her that they dont believe in such things. As a guest, isn't DB influencing too much on Shekhars? Is it possible for a guest or a relative to be so demanding and bossy in a relative's place? They should try to explain their pov, like how Daddu, Alok and Ira explained CM when she was against Ansh wedding. But now seeing them blindly listening to DB's taunts and bearing her behavior don't go well with their characters, even though they were portrayed as modern fools...
Edited by Nayana21 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
#19
This is a minor matter compared to how amol is treated.

I am surprised all the shekhars are opening their mouths and these same shekhars kept quiet while something horrible was taking place with an adopted child.

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