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Posted: 11 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: Aholic

Guys marrige cant be thrown away like this-.cvs are imsultin it. They should neevr have gotton married.
But If the cvs has decided so, they must no handle such a sensitive issue in such a manner :(

marriage is a two rupee thing for zee t v in all their shows they do the same
hero marry somebody.has affaire with somebody...then divorce then marry the affaire wali...and it goes on and on
its nothing new cvs did
its just that we fell for a crap show...and now deal with crap they throw
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Posted: 11 years ago
#12
😆 Is being deceived into marriage not insulting the institution of marriage? Knowing the man who married you treats like dirt and will never love you, not an insult to the institution of marriage? So why should the person remain in that marriage?😆😆


And in answer to your title, yes marriage is a joke according to Indian Makers of television shows.


And sympathy for me is given to those who are not dumb to fall dumbness. No offence!
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Posted: 11 years ago
#13
Marriage isn't a joke but also being trapped in a marriage where ur partner never b able to love u is better to b end..love can happen 2nd time but the situation where raghav is in he never could able love pakhi cause he will forever b in guilt that he ditch kalpi for his revenge and break her heart for no fault of her..so its impossible for him think beyond kalpi and fall for pakhi..agar aise shaadi me pakhi atki rahegi to zindegi me jo bhi umeed baki hai wo bhi khatam ho jayegi..but its true that raghav can't marry kalpi without divorcing pakhi properly..so i think raghav and pakhi ke liye divorce is the best solution otherwise a bad marriage will make both of their life hell..pakhi kyu ye sehen karegi ki uski pati ke dil me kisi aur ki jaga hai hamesha ke liye?pakhi ko koi aisa milna chaiye jo use pure dil se pyaar kare..raghav don't deserve her even she shldn't try to win him..self respect bhi koi chees hai..pakhi kyu aisi shaadi nibhaye jaha pyaar nehi?hum jante hai uski galti nehi per wo khud kyu nehi samajh rahi ke bina koi galti ke main kyu iss fake shaadi me atki hui hu?use hi pehle raghav ki mu pe divorce paper fekna chaiye agar usme thodi si bhi self respect and dimag hai to..
Edited by Momrin - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
#14
Hi Jules and ShanUlas,

Loved your replies.

And to the author of the post:

Marriage to the person who doesn't love you is ok. Most of the arranged marriages happen like that. I mean no love no hate. The relation starts with SR. But if he is telling u directly he loves some one else..and that too her close friend and pakhi is not reacting. She should be the one initiating the divorce.

It is not easy for raghav to fall for pakhi, because it is not circumstances which separated him from kalpi. He himself did it. So he will miss kalpi. He knows he loves her, and she loves him back. So what is the reason for falling in love with pakhi.

What i am trying to say is cvs never handled the character pakhi properly. Now they assassinated all the characters except kalpi. But after this sindoor wala wedding need to see what they will do to her character.

Edited by Sanjuniki - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
#15
Agreed, marriage is a social institution, but know one is forced to live in,thats the reason even constitution gave provision to seperate.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#16
Agree marriage isn't a joke but isn't it a deal to bind urself in unwanted relation forever..
If there is no love,no peace only torture & hate then life becomes miserable & this time that certain person wishes better to die rather than sink in this unwanted relation..
Here neither pakhi at fault nor kalpi..
But yess no sympathy for dumb,self-centered person like pakhi who has no self-respect & always see wht she wants to see...
May ne she nevr treated kalpi nastily but nor she treated her good manner...
Already she snatched her mother right frm childhood now snatched raghav too...
She knows RagNa loves each other but even then she is sidelineing this fact & going gaga to woo raghav...i mean wht the hell yaar this girl need a wakeup call
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Posted: 11 years ago
#17

Originally posted by: Aholic

I know everyone in this forum loves RagNa.
And yea they are good.

But Is marrige a JOKE? Marring one day and getteing divorced the other?

Okay what is Pakhi's Fault? Kalpana may have treated her bad, but she never.
And I seriously cant beleve the thing love happen only once 🤢

Like Really?!
For such an institutiom of marrige must be given a chance. Its so pure!
You all may bash me ;)

But I had to write My opinion :)

So sad for pakhi :(

You are absolutely right. Now a days people have made marriage a joke, not only in serials but in reality too. Who can understand this better than me as I have been through it.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#18
I believe that if you are not happy in relationship then getting separated is the option. There is no point in living in a relationship where you are not happy. Ragav should have not use the marriage as revenge solution. There were many other options he could have choose. In a way, they had made a joke of marriage which is a pure relationship of love and trust.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#19
Yes Marriage is a sacred institution,

lets go back 100years and bring back the "Sati pratha" and let the widows burn with their husbands corpse coz she ain't eligible to live anymore.

Lets get the rapists marry their victim coz sanctity of marriage will erase the evilness from such men.

Lets throw two people who don't love each other into marriage and make their life miserable coz its a sacred institution.

Yes Paakhi loves Raghav so much that its enough to last a lifetime of happiness. She's such a bechari 21ar century non educated girl who doesn't know the consequences of being in a relationship where there isn't love. coz she's from Kamalamma's dadi ki zamane ki larki right?
Paakhi is setting a good example to the gen-X girls 👏👏

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