Why Paakhi Left Ayaan in Shimla? was she correct? - Page 4

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Posted: 12 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: -Alishah-

I actually think this was a mistake of the CV's because it was the perfect chance to show how far Ayaan and Pakhi's relationship has come, by her taking her son with her. I can understand pakhi not wanting to uproot him but there should have been some nice scenes where they speak on the phone and she explains to him, just small but meaningful scenes. Instead he's kinda just been left to do his own thing by pakhi which is not like her at all, it just doesn't match the kind of character she is to completely ignore her son.
Nice post :)

watch todays epi!!
U will loved it
Cvs r doing fab job btw!
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Posted: 12 years ago
#32
the whole discussions here are very nice and thought provoking in many ways.
Pakhi has made her decision and it is her life. here nobody can be blamed also. anshuman accuses pakhi on a sudden impulse and pakhi now decides to move away is also a sudden impulse of the moment.
Just I thought of one thing pakhi tole her brother the day she revealed her decision to move away. . She is asking all the members to treat anshuman in the same regard as the jamaisa, since he is her responsibility. (Jimmedari). She has been taught to carry out her Jimmedari come what may.
But now by deciding to move away she is running from her jimmedari of that of a mother at least if she cannot be a wife after anshuman calling her names.
the other point is she has waited for anshuman for 18 years while their family members wanted her to get away from the relationship and move forward. But she decided otherwise, in spite of anshuman family giving dhokha to them. and that too without knowing what kind of a person he is. and going with him knowing all the facts.
It seems little bit out of her character to take such a drastic step which we are forced to think is not that warranted.
Yet Pakhi is human and now she has started to think of herself and her life. It is very fine and welcome.
love the way the story is moving forward
Noone can be blamed except tania whose plan worked in the right direction.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#33
A mother who wants her husband to learn an lesson for which she will let a kid suffer, is just plain wrong in my view. No matter what if she's ok about making Ayan go through this phase she isn't being a good mother!
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Posted: 12 years ago
#34

Originally posted by: KyunkiImafan

A mother who wants her husband to learn an lesson for which she will let a kid suffer, is just plain wrong in my view. No matter what if she's ok about making Ayan go through this phase she isn't being a good mother!

Nope its not what the husband has to learn.. If u see.. Anshuman's dad had filled his head with all sorts of things abt his mother which anshuman carried all along his life and even impacted it on his life.. for which Paakhi is still suffering..
If Anshuman as a fully grown up person is not able to grasp the entirety of the problem and keeps dwelving on the point that ayaan's grandmother is a characterless woman, what example is he setting his son?? wudn his son learn to distrust his elders?? ayaan may trust his mother n not be able enough to understand what went wrong btwn his parents.. how would he react to similar situations in his life?? is it not important enough for him to learn it to..
It was only cuz f paakhi tht ayaan has now come to a situation where he believes one has to persist till one either gets forgiven or seeks punishment.. if u remember the ayaan of the starting episodes he was one who would believe what he saw or felt so much like his dad.. only after Paakhi actually demonstrated it wid her actions did the kid eventually learn.. so i think its definitely the mother's turn to mould her family!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: harithanhp

Nope its not what the husband has to learn.. If u see.. Anshuman's dad had filled his head with all sorts of things abt his mother which anshuman carried all along his life and even impacted it on his life.. for which Paakhi is still suffering..

If Anshuman as a fully grown up person is not able to grasp the entirety of the problem and keeps dwelving on the point that ayaan's grandmother is a characterless woman, what example is he setting his son?? wudn his son learn to distrust his elders?? ayaan may trust his mother n not be able enough to understand what went wrong btwn his parents.. how would he react to similar situations in his life?? is it not important enough for him to learn it to..
It was only cuz f paakhi tht ayaan has now come to a situation where he believes one has to persist till one either gets forgiven or seeks punishment.. if u remember the ayaan of the starting episodes he was one who would believe what he saw or felt so much like his dad.. only after Paakhi actually demonstrated it wid her actions did the kid eventually learn.. so i think its definitely the mother's turn to mould her family!

I agree that she is doing all to change Father & son's perspective about women but in process if she has to hurt the child its a wrong approach.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#36

Originally posted by: KyunkiImafan

I agree that she is doing all to change Father & son's perspective about women but in process if she has to hurt the child its a wrong approach.


In the situation we do see that while Aayan feels hurt, he's become a strong and mature character. He's all in for his mother's decision, hence he keeps saying he will not call his mother to return to him, because he wants her to return for Anshuman's sake, and it's only Anshuman who can make things right. If anything, Pakhi is no person who would do things such as this which will hurt her child in any shape or form, because if Aayan called her for his sake, she would return in a heartbeat for Aayan. If anything, we can all applaud the CVs for making a child so strong, that he's willing to be away from his mother, so that she can be happy.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#37
Thank you everyone for your kind efforts and discussions for the topic and the way all have addressed each other is quite impressive and this also shows that together we can make this forum more lively.
Let me first read each and every reply, thank you for appreciating the effort.

yes, indeed this is quite thought provoking.:)
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Posted: 12 years ago
#38

Originally posted by: KyunkiImafan

A mother who wants her husband to learn an lesson for which she will let a kid suffer, is just plain wrong in my view. No matter what if she's ok about making Ayan go through this phase she isn't being a good mother!



thank you 🤗 just feeling for young girls out there we are putting a message that abandon you children for your pride...walk out of your marriages if your husband offends you because your pride come first...do not accept apologies from your husbands if they are wrong because of your pride..I would say girls marriage is a tough bed you have to swallow your pride to make it a bed of roses and thorns will pop up but its worth the fight...except if it comes to physical abuse, rape etc then please get out of it and runnn!!!!
Edited by LadyZaib - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#39
Ayaan is an intelligent boy so he knows what his mother is doing is not wrong and even understands that she still loves him alot...plus Ayaan has school and everything...he cannot just leave everything because his mother has to keep her self-respect...he will feel more traumatized by such sudden shifting and change of environment...i havn't watch much but if Paakhi left ithout informing then it's not good but if she has explained at least some part of the situatiob to Ayaan then i don't think she is being irresponsible

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