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Posted: 11 years ago
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@sonia_1 _Thank you. 😊 beautiful quote yaar. Very apt for RAGNA..
@pads23 _ Yea, you're right. In her childhood, Paakhi snatched away her mothers love. Of course, we cannot forget that the main culprit here was and still is Kamla. Now, she even has the rights, at least in the social context over the love (Kalpi) of her life. Quite a painful fate.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Very well written post . You have said it all with opt words .
Raghav and kalpana together complete their Ek Mutthi Aasaman . Their happiness lies in each other's love .
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Awesome post, luna. I want Raghav to be little more strong. Gauri should take control over ragnas matter. May be this mother can understand her son and sort out things. I wish pakhi should turn against to kamala...(at least in her husband matter) and unite Ragna.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: dumppurvi

Beautiful Post!!

so true your words, that is why I was so upset with Kamla for telling Kalpi that her success will suffice for her heartbreak.
Kamla will never understand that Kalpi was so driven by success for her love, her acceptance and that is all that mattered to her.

Raghav somewhat filled that void and she lost that at the last moment, to the same person she always had to share with her Mother. Kalpi got the biggest slap in the face, stab in the back you name. Raghav will never in a million years understand how much his actions in a fit of rage has damaged Kalpi.

I too agree that Kalpi will never get the love she deserves from Kamla as long as Pooki is around.

Well said Post!!


Kalpi becoming memsab is all that lady cares about. Even when Kalpi told her she loves someone, Kamla said that its not her age and that she has to become very big in life. This is her other obsession after Paaki. hope he does. I'm also disappointed as to why they didn't explore that aspect of Rags understanding the impact of Paaki in Kalpi's life...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Love ur post..very thoughtful and so true. I always had a problem with kamla always being behind Kalpi to fulfill her dream of becoming a memsaab. I am completely against parents who want to fulfill their own ambitions through their children. If kamla wanted to become a memsaab what was stopping her from doing so.? Its not necessary to be educated to fulfill ur dreams . I know so many women who have had successful careers inspite of lack of education. And who stopped her from getting an education. Tey should have shown Kamla getting educated as her ema and left kalpi to follow her own ema. In the whole time not once have we found out what kalpi wants in the first place. W know for sure that kalpi is raghav's ema but what is kalpi's ema? Its not abt money or love its about ambitions what is their own goal in life...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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@ariarai, @dakshaavi, @harininaidu _ thank you for your appreciation 😊
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Originally posted by: Infofan



Such a beautifully written post. They fell in love with each other and found their Ek Mutthi Aasmaan in each other too. The ek mutthi aasmaan Kamla wants Kalpi to acquire are hers which Kalpi wanted to fulfill her mother's love. As you rightly said, no amount of success will give Kalpi the peace or happiness she found in Raghav's arms.

Bunch of us had several discussions on the forum why they never showed Raghav wonder at the close relationship Pakhi and Kamla shared with each other and the impact it might have had on Kalpi. There was that one moment after saving the chawl from Kapoors where Raghav observed Kalpi cry when Kamla hugged Pakhi while she waited with arms outstretched. He was wondering about it in the gym next day but it was never dwelt upon later sadly. Besides her results issue Kalpi didnt discuss anything with Raghav about her life.
If she had mentioned it to Raghav, he might not have taken such an impulsive decision. Like Hilly said, he can never comprehend the damage he has done to Kalpi's self respect, self worth, confidence among other things. It hurts to just think about it 😳

May I rant a little over here? I understand this is a soap so obviously there will be drama. But this Rakhi marriage, the butchering of characters and story done for this marriage to take place was a huge slap in the face and stab in the back for me, viewers. A huge letdown. The rushed tracks and poor execution, loopholes and blunders just adds to the disappointments. I dont know if I can ever feel the same enthusiasm for the show again.

@bold_Yes, that scene had so much potential. More depth could have been added into their relationship and the story if they had developed that. I'm sure that's what we all thought and expected. Then, maybe that understanding would have prevented him from marrying Paakhi, like you mentioned.
And, of course, you cant rant all you want 😆
Indeed, it has been annoying and frustrating from the Mahasangam itself. It felt rushed and the editing choppy. Seems like they squeezed scenes to accommodate the slot with SSLK. Everything was poorly executed from then. Very incoherent story telling, surely from blurred vision and poor planning.
btw, your name pls?
Edited by Syama_Luna - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Needvan

Awesome post, luna. I want Raghav to be little more strong. Gauri should take control over ragnas matter. May be this mother can understand her son and sort out things. I wish pakhi should turn against to kamala...(at least in her husband matter) and unite Ragna.

Thank you. I want him to be strong too. Didn't like how he was looking weak and small in front of Kamla today. But it is understandable with his guilt but still I would have appreciated a little more force. It's more infuriating with that lady pushing her weight around him, as it contrasts sharply. At least we saw Gauri coming in between this Paaki's plans in buying Rags heart. Paaki is so self-serving, I realy doubt she will turn against Kamla when she her own self cannot give up Rags.
Seems like Neetu might turn unwitting cupid for Ragna?
Edited by Syama_Luna - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: daisyfields

Love ur post..very thoughtful and so true. I always had a problem with kamla always being behind Kalpi to fulfill her dream of becoming a memsaab. I am completely against parents who want to fulfill their own ambitions through their children. If kamla wanted to become a memsaab what was stopping her from doing so.? Its not necessary to be educated to fulfill ur dreams . I know so many women who have had successful careers inspite of lack of education. And who stopped her from getting an education. Tey should have shown Kamla getting educated as her ema and left kalpi to follow her own ema. In the whole time not once have we found out what kalpi wants in the first place. W know for sure that kalpi is raghav's ema but what is kalpi's ema? Its not abt money or love its about ambitions what is their own goal in life...

Thank you 😊
😆 Imagiining Kamla being a memsab. 😆
Pity the company she works with...she will help competitors in the name of social service and good values 😆
You're right, Its very wrong to suffocate your children with your own ambition and disregarding their wishes. People must live their life through their own eyes not through another's eye. People can have many goals in life. In my opinion, EMA signifies all the happiness in your grasp. While success can give one fulfilment, Love can give you happiness. From what we've been shown so far, love seems to be it.
Edited by Syama_Luna - 11 years ago

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