Stars of the Episode: Vitthal and Raghav (In-Depth Analysis) - Page 3

@Sejal loved your pov on kalpi and raghav... and hame bhi janna hai;)

Loved your analysis! I was totally washed out yesterday to put my two cents! 😉 But so glad you did! My fav scene of the day was the calm composure with with Raghav talked with Kamla. All his dialogs were superb. Every one hitting the right spot! Amazing!

Hey Shona,

I just had to stay away from the forum yesterday. After all this while of praising CVs, trying to see things from their POV, trying to see all aspects of the characters before ranting 😊, last night's episode was a kick in the gut for me.

Two positive things in the episode for me was that the MU is cleared and Raghav clearly stated he will not marry Pakhi even if Kamla does not allow Ragna to marry.

Kamla showed her real class and thinking by her behavior yesterday. This illogocal track was building up towards it but actually listening to her ridiculous dialogues yesterday made me sick to my stomach. Her character is unbelievable. Kamla is flawed like everybody else's but it rankles when all her actions are justified and she is made to look like a holier than thou, righteous lady with high morals and principles out to save the world. Actually I had mentioned on one of Anum's post long ago that someone should make a post on Kamla, character analysis POV, why she is the way she is...She has some major issues IMHO.
Yet, strangely I understood her dilemma yesterday given her character sketch.

I am disappointed with Vitthal honestly. After he told Kamla a few hometruths, he goes and puts the ball in her court. There are many nice characteristics in Vitthal worth admiring, but CVs make him look like a hen pecked husband often. As parents both can make decisions for Kalpi. In this case, he can make the decision alone but he leaves the final decision upto Kamla yet again. So if Kamla the master puppeteer decides Kalpi should not marry Raghav even if he doesnt marry Pakhi ( reasons to be discussed later), will Vitthal still support his wife's ridiculous demands?

Raghav handled the situation with maturity and sensitivity, kind of expected it. His reaction in precap when Kalpi said she will not marry unless she has aai's blessings, even if it was for a split second broke my heart. He may loose The woman who he has made his world if Kamla doesnt agree to this match. Precaps are edited and this Raghav himself wouldnt marry Kalpi without Jadhav's blessing still the I felt it was his worst fear, phobia playing out.

Kalpi - I would have liked to see some more of her thoughts,maybe we get to see it today. This whole mahasangam is too rushed without proper time given to emotions, expressions and as always editing sucks big time in EMA.

Originally posted by: shahsb_26

I don't want juttas right now..!! edit: Neither do I want to open my Books of freud and defence mechanism right now.. 😆😆😉😛
Pehle u say.. whats in ur mind..!! then.. I will agree or disagree..!! and detail it up alot more.. if I agree..😆 Till then It's Passion and only Passion..😉😉😉

😡well said!!! ur pov is spot on!!! how can any mother put someone else happiness above her pwn sojust not to loose face!!! rididulous!!! KAMALA MA U SO DISAPPOINTED US!!! SHAME ON U!!

Originally posted by: ShanUlas

fine then let me be straight regarding raghav singhania and his actual feelings towards kalpana

well i feel its more of an addiction then passion

agree karna hai to kar else give ur views..i invite u for a discussion.Hope shona wont mind that we hacked her thread 😆

I call it Obsession..!!!😆😆😆😆😆

So here.. let me open my sigmund freud ki theory book ..!!
Shona.. mind it.. again a psychology..!

As usuall... coming with comparision of love..!! Pakhi to Raghav and Raghav for Kalpi..!!

Paakhi is kind of chilled pilled delusional doll..!!
Sigmund freud ki language mein, she rationalizes everything..!! or say sublimation.. where she transforms everything unacceptable, with some rational belief, to avoid pain..!! role of defence mechanism is to defend urself from the *Pain* of being mentally hurt..!!
So.. Paakhi baby.. when.. raghav didn't reply to her ILU, she was upset and hurt, but next second.. she rationalized... oh, but he didn't even say, I don' love u..! Rachna ka interview sun kar.. I am being bit more optimistic, she wouldn't turn obsessed lover kinds..!!

Whereas.. Raghav ka case is more severe then Paakhi... when it comes to kalpana...!! It's pure case of obsession...!! Kalpi.. as far as I know... She did reject the proposal twice..!! (which people didn't even notice, because they didn't want to) but.. she did reject it twice.. without SOLID reason..!!
One was in office, when Raghav decorated.. he again, confessed his love.. and asked for her answer... she said.. NAHIN SIR, Aap kahan aur mein kahan... yeh sab galat hai..!! and another one was after hawaldaar incident, when she made a clear statement,... that their relationship from now onwards will be restricted to that of sir and employee..!! But oh well..! 😆 people were too busy enjoying raghav running after Kalpana..! So mechanism raghav kept on using was denial..!! She cannot reject me.. I am Raghav.. the Great Raghav Singhaniya kinds ka..!!

Phewww... ab ... Pheko Jute... chappal, aur tamatar

Sejal I am such a psych-obsessed fool that I never mind a psych debate, especially the ones held by psych majors themselves 😉