Personally, I feel bad for Kalpi..

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Hi Guys,
I am here to express my disappointment towards Kamla the Mother. I perfectly know that this is just a serial a mere fiction, and most of its part is based on unreal facts, but still I am disappointed when I see a mother not at all acting as every mother should.

How can a mother neglect her own daughter so much to even unable to hear what her daughter's heart says. How can a mother be so blind towards her own daughter? Its shameful. And more than that, very disappointing. I think Neetu, on the other hand is much a great mother to her duo- son and daughter than what Kamla can ever be in wildest dream. Though Kamla is a great social worker who took all responsibility of other's daughter and completely forgot her initial duty as being a mother to her biological daughter Kalpana.

Few Days ago I came Across a Post whose title was quite amusing. It read, "Why is Kalpana Jealous of Pakhi?"
At that time I posted a comment, "From when you started watching the serial?" to which I got No reply. But that post did invoked in me a question and left me wondering If that thinking of the post maker was right... And then Something came into my mind.

Raghav said once that "who are near to me go away, and so I never trust any one, and thus don't allow anyone come near me and those who come I push them away."

Raghav said it, and lived it too. He has no friends except for Sammy who himself is attached to him and does not mind Raghav being rude to him.

But what about Kalpana? Does she has friends? Where for the first time Kalpi met Raghav during the Placement interview, Pakhi was with her friends discussing about the guy who saved her (Raghav that is) but what about Kalpi? Wasn't she alone?

Is it not only Raghav with whom she is free to talk and expresses her self much more than even her Father? Yes, Only Raghav is there in her life who as taken years of loneliness from her life and filled it with companionship, friendship and love.

Kamla never was there to discus her fears, her disappointments and even her failures and never believed her. The thing is Kalpi was never jealous, but she was too lonely to think anything but a gush of anger that ever child feels when there parents concentrate their lives on someone else. It was simple child's psychology. It even happens between bros- and sisters of same parents and then Pakhi was just another.

And now to say that Pakhi is not like that... Well how can she feel similar? when she has taken the attention of Kamla while her own parents are still concentrating on her and not on any one's else child. She never have experienced something that Kalpi is experiencing from childhood. The neglect of her mother. the lonely nights and no one to talk to about her teen age life.

I don't blame Kamla for sending her away to hostel but when she was back atleast then she could have been her mother. But she always makes her realise by her actions that Kalpi is the other while Pakhi her own. She feels more pain when Pakhi is in pain and not when Kalpi is in much more in pain.That we were shown in even kalpi- Pakhi's b'day sequence.


No I am not letting out my anger towards Kamla aur Pakhi, But I am just sad for the Character who was made to sacrifice. But I don't want CVs to make her sacrifice now. Now I want her Saviour to fight for her. Show her and prove her that she is not alone, that he is there with her.

I hope Kamla realise her mistake and what she is doing...

Just that...

BTW do tell me what you think...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I do hope that it doesn't go the sacrificing way. Cause that wouldn't be very new. I hope Kalpana fights for her right and finds her ek Mutthi Aasmaan with Raghav. I'd rather have no marriage at all than to see Raghav getting married to Paakhi. My worst case scenario is that Kalpana will break down and will leave home or something to build up her life and career to fulfil her moms dreams and Raghav going after her fighting for his love. I'm so excited and anxious for the upcoming episodes 😊
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I know I feel so sorry for Kalpi too and try as I may, I can't just understand Kamala.
Her actions sometimes seem like Pakhi is her daughter and Kalpi is her step-daughter.

I feel she show more empathy towards outsiders than to her own daughter, how can a mother be like this.

Raghav and Kalpana are two lost and broken souls who've found each other, that's why they fit like two perfect halves to a whole


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Posted: 11 years ago
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i started watching this show before the leap and till now I haven't missed a single episode and the reason why I am attached to this show is only because of kalpi coz somewhere I do relate to kalpi of how she wants to fulfill her parent's dreams just so they are proud of her and get her mom's undivided attention initial episodes of EMA before raghav's entry where so heart breaking kalpi's sadness loneliness her thirst for her mother's love all just made me wanna get up and give her a nice big hug I know which post you are talking about I never replied to that post but I really wanted to say yes kalpi is jealous who wont be if in her place
coming to this track I have said it earlier in sejal's post I'm gonna repeat the same if some way or the other kalpi is made to sarfice her love then it's gonna be an end for me because there my limit of watching kalpi suffer goes off it will not be just coz ragna didn't happen it will because again kalpi will be made to crush her dreams and aspiration just to make paakhi dream come true
anyways I'm just gonna keep calm watch CVs have stored for us and btw great post right now all I feel is sadness for kalpi she surely does need a consistent companion which is none other than raghav
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: RatiKoni

I do hope that it doesn't go the sacrificing way. Cause that wouldn't be very new. I hope Kalpana fights for her right and finds her ek Mutthi Aasmaan with Raghav. I'd rather have no marriage at all than to see Raghav getting married to Paakhi. My worst case scenario is that Kalpana will break down and will leave home or something to build up her life and career to fulfil her moms dreams and Raghav going after her fighting for his love. I'm so excited and anxious for the upcoming episodes 😊


Yeah I totally agree with you... But I am just too disappointed in Kamla.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: gina24

i started watching this show before the leap and till now I haven't missed a single episode and the reason why I am attached to this show is only because of kalpi coz somewhere I do relate to kalpi of how she wants to fulfill her parent's dreams just so they are proud of her and get her mom's undivided attention initial episodes of EMA before raghav's entry where so heart breaking kalpi's sadness loneliness her thirst for her mother's love all just made me wanna get up and give her a nice big hug I know which post you are talking about I never replied to that post but I really wanted to say yes kalpi is jealous who wont be if in her place
coming to this track I have said it earlier in sejal's post I'm gonna repeat the same if some way or the other kalpi is made to sarfice her love then it's gonna be an end for me because there my limit of watching kalpi suffer goes off it will not be just coz ragna didn't happen it will because again kalpi will be made to crush her dreams and aspiration just to make paakhi dream come true
anyways I'm just gonna keep calm watch CVs have stored for us and btw great post right now all I feel is sadness for kalpi she surely does need a consistent companion which is none other than raghav



I agree with you... but i just want to see the limit to which Kamla goes to destroy her daughter's happiness. I just want to see if she ever gets it, what she is wronging all these years?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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The best thing of Kamala's actions made Kalpi a strong, bold girl. I feel kalpi needs encouragement from her family, she ends up in pain. Its painful, at the same it makes u clear of what you want & the ways to accomplish things to succeed in life. Raghav is her life. She will not sacrifice him at cost.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: dmfever

The best thing of Kamala's actions made Kalpi a strong, bold girl. I feel kalpi needs encouragement from her family, she ends up in pain. Its painful, at the same it makes u clear of what you want & the ways to accomplish things to succeed in life. Raghav is her life. She will not sacrifice him at cost.


I just hope so... she shouldn't, he is her silver lining.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Very nice post and aptly described. What you say is validated by tonite's episode. When Raghav asks Kalpi why are there tears in her eyes, and she replies that no she is indeed very happy. Its only that she had never experienced so much happiness before.The girl's simple words touched my heart. Right from childhood she'd had to struggle so much for what was rightfully hers, her happiness, her mother's attention, her love & affection. Pakhi always gets everyone's love, attention & affection easily. She never had to prove anything to anyone to get it, or never had to fight for it. On the contrary, poor Kalpi has to prove to her own mother evry time, that she also is worthy of Kamla's love & affection, that irrespective of the fact whether she commits any mistake or not, Kamla would still show her love to her. be with her always, correct her mistakes lovingly, but would not make her go away from herself.
It was only Raghav who brought light into her lifeand now she'd have to fight for it too. What a shock would she get when she'll see that her mother was all around supporting pakhi's marriage with Raghav and not hers. That despite all d proclamations made by Kamla that mai aai hu". she could not read her own daughter's eye & heart, that where indeed her happiness lay.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Twitter this to PD,,!!!

Kalpi has no right to be happy is norm in this serial right now.. her mother damn questions her.. even if daughter wakes up with smile.. is a limit..!!
Do you expect to be sad all her life..!!?????

Why only question Kalpana.. did u once go and bother to ask Raghav why was he touching Kalpana all over her face??

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