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Hi Guys,
I am here to express my disappointment towards Kamla the Mother. I perfectly know that this is just a serial a mere fiction, and most of its part is based on unreal facts, but still I am disappointed when I see a mother not at all acting as every mother should.
How can a mother neglect her own daughter so much to even unable to hear what her daughter's heart says. How can a mother be so blind towards her own daughter? Its shameful. And more than that, very disappointing. I think Neetu, on the other hand is much a great mother to her duo- son and daughter than what Kamla can ever be in wildest dream. Though Kamla is a great social worker who took all responsibility of other's daughter and completely forgot her initial duty as being a mother to her biological daughter Kalpana.
Few Days ago I came Across a Post whose title was quite amusing. It read, "Why is Kalpana Jealous of Pakhi?"
At that time I posted a comment, "From when you started watching the serial?" to which I got No reply. But that post did invoked in me a question and left me wondering If that thinking of the post maker was right... And then Something came into my mind.
Raghav said once that "who are near to me go away, and so I never trust any one, and thus don't allow anyone come near me and those who come I push them away."
Raghav said it, and lived it too. He has no friends except for Sammy who himself is attached to him and does not mind Raghav being rude to him.
But what about Kalpana? Does she has friends? Where for the first time Kalpi met Raghav during the Placement interview, Pakhi was with her friends discussing about the guy who saved her (Raghav that is) but what about Kalpi? Wasn't she alone?
Is it not only Raghav with whom she is free to talk and expresses her self much more than even her Father? Yes, Only Raghav is there in her life who as taken years of loneliness from her life and filled it with companionship, friendship and love.
Kamla never was there to discus her fears, her disappointments and even her failures and never believed her. The thing is Kalpi was never jealous, but she was too lonely to think anything but a gush of anger that ever child feels when there parents concentrate their lives on someone else. It was simple child's psychology. It even happens between bros- and sisters of same parents and then Pakhi was just another.
And now to say that Pakhi is not like that... Well how can she feel similar? when she has taken the attention of Kamla while her own parents are still concentrating on her and not on any one's else child. She never have experienced something that Kalpi is experiencing from childhood. The neglect of her mother. the lonely nights and no one to talk to about her teen age life.
I don't blame Kamla for sending her away to hostel but when she was back atleast then she could have been her mother. But she always makes her realise by her actions that Kalpi is the other while Pakhi her own. She feels more pain when Pakhi is in pain and not when Kalpi is in much more in pain.That we were shown in even kalpi- Pakhi's b'day sequence.
No I am not letting out my anger towards Kamla aur Pakhi, But I am just sad for the Character who was made to sacrifice. But I don't want CVs to make her sacrifice now. Now I want her Saviour to fight for her. Show her and prove her that she is not alone, that he is there with her.
I hope Kamla realise her mistake and what she is doing...
Just that...
BTW do tell me what you think...
Mannat Har Khushi Paane Ki
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