Straight question to laajo

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@ziks

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Posted: 11 years ago

How stupid it is or she is ? What does she think of her self ? She can take any decision
and can do any thing with out her husband's consent and she expects him to support.

Why she is behaving like this like sami di said for trps ? seriously yesterday i was so proud
at her i did nt think about nikhil then . But after seeing today's episode , his happiness
his longing gto be with his wife , his efforts , his plans , he thought about laajo studies
also .

I mean laajo a straight question to u cant u become something worthy , prove ur self
acheive something great by being with ur husband ? Why u hell bent on seperating from
ur husband ? Is there ant reason or because already sagar entered u want to entertain
him and want to give more screen space 😡?

I really cant understand what cvs are trying to say that one can acheive something only
when they stay seperately from their partners . Cant they acheive while staying
with their partners ?😕

As nikhil said today laajo is behaving so selfish so unreasonable without thinking
about him .

Already she given a word without asking hinm taken a decision and now what
support she wants 😡 .

So much obsessive about career laajo . U did nt even think about ur love his love
she is thinking in selfish manner thats the bottom line .

First time laajo bashing from me . I am so mad at this girl . Laajo how could u ?

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premparbat

@premparbat

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Posted: 11 years ago

I have not seen the episode yet nor read the updates but can still find some sense in her decision.

I too had the same thinking as to why does she need to separate from her husband to become more suitable to her new family. I got my answer yesterday in her confrontation with Barhka . She is doing this for Nikhil as she said to her saasu ma that no matter what she will find a way to humiliate her son because of her inadequacies.

Barkha will humiliate her which her husband will not like or vice versa. The only way Laajo's thinks she will find respect when Barkha herself will call her back.

I do not see it as selfish but a sacrifice that she is making. She has also been asking Barkha to forgive her son .

But this is my theory , it just maybe CVs way of extending the drama that a seperation or misunderstanding may cause in a daily show.

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@sami01

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Posted: 11 years ago

u know what I agree with both of u

I agree it was bit selfish, bit pride and also a lot for Nikhil.I think she feels Nikhil will confront those situations every day and doesn't want him to suffer humiliation. I think in ideal world they should both talk it out, he should assure her that all she needs is 6 months of grooming and he would help her, they could do it together, but no it is for trps as I always say...and of course for leads to show loads of good acting talent in sad track😭

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neetha

@Nesubi

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: ziks
How stupid it is or she is ? What does she think of her self ? She can take any decision
and can do any thing with out her husband's consent and she expects him to support.

Why she is behaving like this like sami di said for trps ? seriously yesterday i was so proud
at her i did nt think about nikhil then . But after seeing today's episode , his happiness
his longing gto be with his wife , his efforts , his plans , he thought about laajo studies
also .

I mean laajo a straight question to u cant u become something worthy , prove ur self
acheive something great by being with ur husband ? Why u hell bent on seperating from
ur husband ? Is there ant reason or because already sagar entered u want to entertain
him and want to give more screen space 😡?

I really cant understand what cvs are trying to say that one can acheive something only
when they stay seperately from their partners . Cant they acheive while staying
with their partners ?😕

As nikhil said today laajo is behaving so selfish so unreasonable without thinking
about him .

Already she given a word without asking hinm taken a decision and now what
support she wants 😡 .

So much obsessive about career laajo . U did nt even think about ur love his love
she is thinking in selfish manner thats the bottom line .

First time laajo bashing from me . I am so mad at this girl . Laajo how could u ?

I totally agree with you...she can become something and prove herself ...she don't have to stay separate...they can stay together and support each other...in sorrows and happiness...she is really being selfish...nikhil was so true when he said that...nobody even asks what he wants ...his feelings...his emotions...poor nikhil...all women in his life are kind of selfish perople...bharka,ishana,and now lajo...

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suwas

@suwas

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Posted: 11 years ago

I completely agree,

1. She should have discussed the idea with Nikhil & know his opinion before making such promise to Barkha.

2. She can groom herself to fit in in Nikhil's circle( not Barkha's) while staying with Nikhil separate from the family. If she & Nikhil can separate for short time then same way Nikhil can stay away from his family for short time. As he said Chachu, Gunja & Rishi would come & even his dad would have come to meet them. Nikhil can help her in that. Why stay away from him. She knows that for him she is only person who really cares for him & he has waited for someone like her his whole life.Why deny him that now.

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Marvi_21

@Marvi_21

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Posted: 11 years ago

I guess Lajo as said earlier by her father is a very " Swabhimani" kinda girl. She wouldnt want nikhil to suffer all because of her. Although Nikhil assured her that he wont let any such thing happen now but how? How is he going to shut the mouth of society? ok agreed he might no more care about the society but Lajo would still feel guilty that because of her, her husband gets to hear from people, doesnt matter if he cares or not but from lajo's point of view, she would obviously feel guilty and might find herself a burden on his shoulder that he has to face the society and answer them all because of her.

According to me, the decision to first make herself fit for his society and then be with him is right. Being with Nikhil, among his friend, she would always feel inferior for not knowing their styles of life...now again it doesnt matter if Nikhil is fine and completely ok with how lajo is but seriously...!! if i were lajo, i would surely feel inferior,insulted and would lack confidence to be among people...!!

From lajo's point of view, she is right according to me..!!

From nikhil's point of view, I know he is going to miss her and wont be able to live without her but sabar ka phal meetha hota hai...

If she stays with him and achieve what she wants that is obviously going to take time and in the mean while she wouldnt want to get insulted...

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londonkababu

@londonkababu

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Posted: 11 years ago

Hey Guys,

My take on this storyline is that Laajo is being ultra negative, also this is a major decisionshe has to make it after talking it through with her husband. This shooting from the hips first philosophy

isn't that big bad Barkha's style? Would Brakha, nanniji, Gunjan, Shaila the butler make this decision , the answer is an emphatic,YES!

Would Inder, his brother, Nikhil, Laajo's father even Bansi the baghat take such a drastic decision on their own without consulting , err...NO!

The women on this show are nutso's and the men, well they are all spineless. What's going on???

I know of so many people who have come from villages of India to the UK and 6 months down the line they are all doing real good. in GD land it's a transition from a village to a city in India for God's sake.

May be I'm going nutty, the story is going pear shape for me.

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