Why is bani's role shown with so many flaws?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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After watching yesterday's epi I am wondering why have they written bani's character with so many flaws???... why have they sketched her character in this way?

I had thought that they will show bani as the one trying to unite soji (not taking into consideration the acting or expressions)... but yesterday's epi was a huge disappointment.
there was a good chance for bani to show her matureness being rajji's elder sister n coming out with some other plan or atleast trying to act a bit apprehensive about abt rajji said.
but no they again further damaged bani's character by making her just cry n show shocking expression to wat rajji was saying. all the focus was just on showing that bani is so Mahan. and rajji's dialogue that bani can do anything was so not needed.
what do they think by showing such dialogues n scene bani will become Mahan or ppl will sympathize with her.. no not at all... it is just making her look foolish.
and then bani's dialogue to rajji that " tumare hote hue me sohum ki patni kaise ban sakti hoon (how can I be sohum's wife when u r still there) ".. this one dialogue just spoiled everything very badly... I wonder how did they even thought of this dialogue. have they lost it???
what does this mean.. that bani would have happily agreed to be sohum's wife if rajji was not there?..
and then wen bani came in front of sohum her behaviour was changed completely... it was looking as if she is more than happy to be sohum's wife. it was looking as if she was just waiting for rajji to give her nod n here she is being sohum's wife.
and the last scene wen rajji is staring at sohum n bani goes out giving a look at rajji ..I got scared for a moment looking at bani's expression. it was looking as if she is giving villan's expression.. just like a villan gives the kind of expression saying see now ur husband is mine kind of.. I really got scared...
I don't know if the scene actually required it to be so or was it the actor's expressions n gestures which made it look so.. I think it is the work of director(or who ever is concerned) to extract the right expression n right reaction from the actors for the scene.
but here nothing was looking right. bani's words and her expressions didn't matched at all.. her words said one thing while her expression n gestures conveyed something else.
there was no hesistance or reluctance on bani's part while trying to act as sohum's wife...
and even in the on location videos of dhaba scene it is shown bani is dancing happily with sohum n according to the articles too she is uncomfortable with sohum coming close to her but she remains silent due to situations...
how can they show bani in such bad light especially when the show is on her name.?..
why cant they show bani strong n firm on her words?
I want them to show bani trying her level best to unite sohum n rajji n help rajji in bringing back sohum's memory..
now though bani is praying to unite soji but her actions n expressions convey something else.
she seems to be going with the flow of wat sohum is saying n doing just bcoz his health is not good.. how long will this go? cant bani take any stand of her own or think of some plan to maintain distance from sohum?..
this is wat the complain I am having with the writers. why r they not showing bani take a stand of her own? why r they not showing bani look reluctant to act as sohum's wife?
and now by just one episode of sohum's memory loss this is the condition we r seeing.. it just doesn't looking any interesting to watch the coming story..
I so want to see bani becoming strong and finding ways to unite sohum n rajji... that should be her ultimate goal now..
right from the start of this show they have showed bani rajji as dear sisters..but till now only rajji is shown to be the one doing everything for bani's happiness.. there is being no concern or true love shown from bani's side for rajji..
for rajji bani has always been her first preference.. for bani she never thought of her own happiness.. for bani she even jumped in water to save her and didn't even thought for once about her life or her baby's life while jumping in water...
I think now its high time they show bani 's side of true love and concern for rajji.. just like taking revenge from parmeet had become her mission .. now they must show bani taking oath to unite rajji and sohum and this being her new mission.. now its right time bani does something good for rajji and solve the problems in rajji's life.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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i wonder why do you guys hate her so much and keep looking at faults in every single things she does just cos u love rajji and sohum and want to see them in every episode na?
guess you guys are forgetting BANI is the lead so she will be shown the most others come after her
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ZaYaHolic

i wonder why do you guys hate her so much and keep looking at faults in every single things she does just cos u love rajji and sohum and want to see them in every episode na?

guess you guys are forgetting BANI is the lead so she will be shown the most others come after her

i Support U Dis Guys Always Point Out Hr Mistke She Is D Lead Thn Also As Cmpard To othr Soaps Cv Gve Sojis So Much Space Thn Also Thy Wnt Soji I Mean We See Dis Serial For Bani Nt For Soji Soji😃
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Posted: 11 years ago
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nami, I get your point.. I have made posts long time back as well that there is something wrong in the way Bani's character has been developed. She has been shown to be very self-centered in terms of the actions/deeds she does but the words spoken by her or those around her do not match the action/reaction to anything she does. Which is why I sometimes get confused..

I don't remember when it was, but I had also said that Bani becoming a negative shaded character would be so acceptable due to her antics and expressions but she being the lead of this show, it will not be acceptable as per the norm. The key part that struck me from Sophi's update yesterday was the line you mentioned - 'Rajji, with you around, how can I be Sohum's wife'. I mean, which fool made up that line for her unless to show Bani indicate wanting to get Sohum through a slip of the tongue or an indicator of things to come..

Edited by BullsEye777 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ZaYaHolic

i wonder why do you guys hate her so much and keep looking at faults in every single things she does just cos u love rajji and sohum and want to see them in every episode na?

guess you guys are forgetting BANI is the lead so she will be shown the most others come after her


i agree with you that there is not much we can blame BANI for in the last episode and all that nami said, IMO, is mostly due to shefali bad acting.

Now that being said, it's clear that not a lot of people in this forum like her, i can't speak for others but the reason i don't like bani is because this show was supposed to spread a message about NRI marriage, with the main character BANI, but in the end, the track completely went in another direction and anything that bani has done has made me hate her. Yes, everything that she does isn't wrong but every single major decision she has taken up until now was the wrong one.

I don't hate shefali, even though she isn't suited to be the lead IMO, but i hate what the cvs tried to do with bani's character. We're in 2014, it's time to see some strong female lead, and not just a whiny girl that only purpose is to make the audience feel sorry for her.

Also, why we like rajji so much? Because she is the strong one in this story. that just proves my previous point : we want to see strong lead, we are the audience, we are what this cv and actors and producers work for and if we're not happy with a pathetic storyline (be it because of the script or dialogue or main characters) we have the right to tell it.

My last point : in this forum, everyone has kept their comments in the "constructive critic" zone (no matter how much we're frustrated by what we're seenig) so there is nothing wrong with posting our thoughts.
Edited by rajji-cutest - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ZaYaHolic

i wonder why do you guys hate her so much and keep looking at faults in every single things she does just cos u love rajji and sohum and want to see them in every episode na?

guess you guys are forgetting BANI is the lead so she will be shown the most others come after her

Did you even read the post?😕 nami is asking for Bani to get a better track so that she can be shown to do something for others..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: BullsEye777

nami, I get your point.. I have made posts long time back as well that there is something wrong in the way Bani's character has been developed. She has been shown to be very self-centered in terms of the actions/deeds she does but the words spoken by her or those around her do not match the action/reaction to anything she does. Which is why I sometimes get confused..


I don't remember when it was, but I had also said that Bani becoming a negative shaded character would be so acceptable due to her antics and expressions but she being the lead of this show, it will not be acceptable as per the norm. The key part that struck me from Sophi's update yesterday was the line you mentioned - 'Rajji, with you around, how can I be Sohum's wife'. I mean, which fool made up that line for her unless to show Bani indicate wanting to get Sohum through a slip of the tongue or an indicator of things to come..

Ya BE.. agree wid u.even m not liking d way they have developed bani's character. N dat too wid the fact that she is the lead of the show.. i feel her character is the weakest lead i have ever seen.. she is just being shown gaining sympathy or getting praises for no reason or shed tears.. had she had done some really acknowledgable things then she would have got genuine praise.. but all her bhaktgan in bhular house keep praising her for no reason..
If she is the lead of the show than show her doing something which will give hapines to other characters.. here she has always been the reason for everyone's problems... is dis a lead or villan? ...
Morever inspite of geting all d screenspace there is nothing significant shown in her role..
Ya BE i remember ur post long back 😊.. it was wen bani was seeing sohum taking care of rajji n bani's expression at that time..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: nami9j

Ya BE.. agree wid u.even m not liking d way they have developed bani's character. N dat too wid the fact that she is the lead of the show.. i feel her character is the weakest lead i have ever seen.. she is just being shown gaining sympathy or getting praises for no reason or shed tears.. had she had done some really acknowledgable things then she would have got genuine praise.. but all her bhaktgan in bhular house keep praising her for no reason..
If she is the lead of the show than show her doing something which will give hapines to other characters.. here she has always been the reason for everyone's problems... is dis a lead or villan? ...
Morever inspite of geting all d screenspace there is nothing significant shown in her role..
Ya BE i remember ur post long back 😊.. it was wen bani was seeing sohum taking care of rajji n bani's expression at that time..


agree with you both!
we always see her crying and people who always help her!
and yes bani should do somethink to reunite sohji because rajji always help bani with parmeet etc!!

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: nami9j

Ya BE.. agree wid u.even m not liking d way they have developed bani's character. N dat too wid the fact that she is the lead of the show.. i feel her character is the weakest lead i have ever seen.. she is just being shown gaining sympathy or getting praises for no reason or shed tears.. had she had done some really acknowledgable things then she would have got genuine praise.. but all her bhaktgan in bhular house keep praising her for no reason..
If she is the lead of the show than show her doing something which will give hapines to other characters.. here she has always been the reason for everyone's problems... is dis a lead or villan? ...
Morever inspite of geting all d screenspace there is nothing significant shown in her role..
Ya BE i remember ur post long back 😊.. it was wen bani was seeing sohum taking care of rajji n bani's expression at that time..

ok.. I Hav Read all Urs Opinion I Jst Wanna Ask U One Thng Tell Me D Name Oof Any One Tv Actor Whoes Acting Is Perfct Evn Though Many A Tym Tht Rajji Also Ovracts Sry Bt Dis Is True Nd Abt Bani Seeing Tht Soham Is Taking Care Of Rajji Nd bani S Expression were like Devils Thn Once U Thnk If Lyk D Lyf is Of Bani If It Would B Urs.. Thn U Will Get D Ans. She Is Nt Jealous Of Soji She Is Only Upst Abt It Tht Why Nt hr Hubby Luvs Hr.. U Guys Jst See Rajjis Tears I Cnt See She Has A Luving Hubby Who will Luv Hr Whn Hr Memory Will Cme Bck.. Nd Wat Abt Bani How Cn She Trust Hr Hubby Who Tried To Kill Hr U Jst Luv Dis Neha And Adivik Thts Why U R Saying
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Posted: 11 years ago
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@shefalidebo... i find it funny that u think i am saying all this bcoz i love neha n adhvik.. well I am not blind to just love any character bcoz I love any particular actor/actress. I love neha adhvik bcoz of the character of rajji and sohum that they have potrayed and not the other way round as u have mentioned..
anywayz u r trying to bring irrevalant topics in my post.. I guess u have not read my post properly or u have not understood it..
so I don't really find the need to comment on any of ur replies.

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