Hi Guys...on popular demand ...Here it is...
My moms view of RR last week and the Shadi...,
So my mom was very happy that the Shaadi happened...
She said ...the girl had no place to go, and she wouldn't have gone anywhere anyways...because she had accepted the guy as her husband...so she would have stayed...and that wouldn't have been nice...So by marrying her...he has given her the social status she deserves...
Sush ...asked...but mom the way the marriage happened...what did you think about that?
To Sush's surprise...mom actually got a chuckle out of that...she was talking about some movie where Aamir Khan married Madhuri Dixit by burning a stove and taking feras around that...because Anupam Kher (the dad) would not approve of the marriage...Of course, I have no idea what movie was that...but to mom ...it was like OK...whatever way it happened ...it happened and thats what counts...
Then she also talked about Nootan movie and old one...where the guy realizes a long after being married to the girl...the importance of marriage rituals...Sush...was like...but mom doesn't I bother you that there was no pundit...and that the vachans were all...so horrible...?
Mom goes...In Hindu Dharma...marriages are done by having fire as witness...Agnisakshi...Pundit and all were added for convenience later...Even though the pundit wasn't there...the marriage is legit by Hindu Dharma...in her mind!
About the vachans ...she says vachans don't change ...whatever the boy may have said out of frustration does not matter(those really Dont count as vachans). Once you are married...the vachans are the vachans according to Hindu Dhrama...and she reminded me of the vachans I took when I got married (yes it was the Hindu way...) ...although I have to check on the net what those vachans were...I seem to have forgotten...😆
So there you have it...her view of the marriage...she was quite amused with the Majors 180 degree turn about the marriage...knowing how against he was of it...in the first place...In any case...she is very happy with the marriage and appreciated Kakusa and Maithali and even Samarat...in showing the acceptance...!
Overall RR and JA are her two most favorite shows ...with YHM being the third one...😃
Edited by -Sush- - 11 years ago