Paro is submissive? Seriously? :O

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Posted: 11 years ago
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This is in reaction to that DC article where they claimed that Paro is submissive and I am shocked that someone watched the same show as I and actually ended up with that opinion!😲

I mean in which way in hell is Paro submissive? She doesn't do ANYTHING Rudra wants!😲 She does the things she wants!
Did Rudra want her to stand out on the rain? or did he want her to leave him alone and go?
He wanted her to go and she wanted to prove him she would stay and did the exact opposite!

This is the first heroin I have seen who does things that makes herself happy instead of bowing down to any1's will! The fact that her own desires r not evil doesn't mean she is a doormat! They still are her own choices even if they r positive and gentle choices instead of a decision to go all guns blazing and creating mayhem!!

Hell even that promo puts a stamp on that! - Paro is wearing the wedding dress! He can put any spin to the vachans be is 8 or 200 in to it, but he hasn't dragged her kicking and screaming to the mandap! She has been the one to drag him there albeit innocently!!

Naivety of Paro is vastly different to what we saw with Gopi bahu some 4 yrs back when the show started. She was DUMB and didn't have a spine and was submissive! Paro is intelligent and utterly stubborn! I have never seen a more stubborn girl than her in comparison to the situations that has been meted out to her! The fact that she is silent, docile and doesn't scream her head off doesn't mean she is submissive in any freaking way!!

honestly do we equate strength/independence of will/dominance to screaming?
do these people know that a woman/girl can be utterly feminine and refined and still be very very strong?
The fact this utterly feminine creature who seem to be the embodiment of all things feminine with an old world charm - be it the fragile stature to the gentleness of her manner all the while having silent dignity and quiet perseverance and strength of character and the endurance that makes women is a delight to watch!

This article makes me think that they r definitely watching a different show and honestly when a respectable media publication employs journalists who would equate a woman who fights for herself and is a devotee with earth shattering belief in the divine powers to being a submissive doormat just cz she doesn't scream her head off what can we say?


this was written in relation to this article : https://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=3980463&PID=104358196&#p104358196
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shonasandy thumbnail
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Posted: 11 years ago
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well said dear ...
Totally agree with u...


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Paro is soft-spoken and gentle-hearted

but she is not submissive

Didn't we all see how she yelled at Rudra - Major Saab - sawaal poocha hai - about her clothes ?

She is doing what she wants to, never mind what Major Saab thinks or says. No matter what duniya says - didn't she declare her reverence to Major Saab in a hall filled with people ?

How is that submissive ?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Ahh, an article written by someone who watches in FF mode or 3rd hand from a written update from someone who watches in ff mode😆.
Btw, Sunara who or what is DC?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Sunara,

I read that article too and I just don't care what it says because it doesn't change anything. The level of TV journalism has seriously gone down. It wasn't great earlier but over the past year or so, the overall quality has deteriorated.

Bad English, half-baked reviews, criticism that borders bashing...you name it. Not that there aren't well-written articles...but you expect more from newspapers, with professional journalists.

Looks like, the journalist in question had to write this article and s/he has no clue about the show whatsoever...and hence, decided to watch the promo and maybe a few scenes here and there...and came up with this.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: jaya100

Ahh, an article written by someone who watches in FF mode or 3rd hand from a written update from someone who watches in ff mode😆.

Btw, Sunara who or what is DC?



😆

or someone who cant locate their remote on time.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Sunara, I cant believe you are taking the article seriously. I have no issues with people having different opinion. But they at least need to do some research. The article is filled with factual errors.

Anyhow any publicity is good publicity. lets hope people who read the article will tune in at 9.30.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Naach_Basanti

Sunara, I cant believe you are taking the article seriously. I have no issues with people having different opinion. But they at least need to do some research. The article is filled with factual errors.

Anyhow any publicity is good publicity. lets hope people who read the article will tune in at 9.30.


NB DC is a newspaper! I respected it like i respect TOI n didn't expect it to come down to the level of TC or E24 that is why i was shocked!😲

Criticism is more than welcome, i have no issues with pointing out negative points..hell u and I have also often done that with this show. It was just that the article was so wrong that shocked me in to writing this!!

ah ya.. hopefully a few more eyeballs for the show will tune in reading this!!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Sumer banna had also sent the rain pic to DC along with the press 😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: jaya100

Ahh, an article written by someone who watches in FF mode or 3rd hand from a written update from someone who watches in ff mode😆.

Btw, Sunara who or what is DC?



The writer of the article missed Paro's Danda Avatar and chilli-throwing skills, not to mention her dogged chase of Major Saab who is now wondering what hit him.

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