Paro is entitled to her feelings...but trying ...

...to impose this on Rudra is absolutely wrong. You can't force someone into accepting one's feelings. He has his feelings and thoughts and she has hers. It was great to see her open up and explore her feelings but her wanting him to reciprocate the same is not acceptable.

Exactly this is what I was thinking..

Yeah ...I agree with you... Paro is forcing Rudy to accept her by force and he is left with no choice ...I dont know why she is doing this

I remember when I had strong feelings for this one guy. There was a flirtation between us for a while (different from Paro and Rudra's equation, I know) and I bent over backwards trying to get his attention and to always be in his sight because I was so certain that he was just playing 'hard to get' and deep down he was into me. He wasn't and I didn't understand that until much much later, when I heard from my friends that he couldn't stand me by the end.

I agree. She has every right to prove herself innocent,every right to confess her feelings (irrespective of the reasoning behind them) but to turn a blind eye to Rudra's thoughts and force him into accepting her is so not cool...there are better ways to make a man realize his feelings than sitting on top of his head all the time.She is practically doing the same thing that rudra did to her. After listening to daanveer I was ready to give paro the benefit of doubt thinking that the rituals might have left a deep impact on her but she was not at all shown pondering over those rituals,which means that this theory is not true. Even if tomorrow the bsd forces rudra into marrying her,that'll still remain her fault partly bcz of her public declaration of love. Maybe she's naive but that doesn't change the fact that she's wrong in her approach this time. I would have said the same things even if it had been the other way round. Today if a laila had been doing the same,the no.of curses hurled at her would have become uncountable.

Well said and I agree.

I agree and she told him lots of times already how she feels about him, I wish they would stop showing her in this light. It seems so pushy now. I am disappointed with the creative writers of the screenplay. 😕

Originally posted by: squivi

I remember when I had strong feelings for this one guy. There was a flirtation between us for a while (different from Paro and Rudra's equation, I know) and I bent over backwards trying to get his attention and to always be in his sight because I was so certain that he was just playing 'hard to get' and deep down he was into me. He wasn't and I didn't understand that until much much later, when I heard from my friends that he couldn't stand me by the end.

Well, Paro is doing the same thing. She strongly believes his words don't match his actions, which here she is right about. She thinks/knows his denial of her is just nonsense. I believed the same.

When we are smitten, regardless of it being love, a crush or hero worship, our actions are totally against everything we've ever done or believe in. That's why I can't get annoyed at or judge Paro because I've been in a similar situation. When you have feelings for someone, it can consume you. In the end, we all know Paro will triumph because her faith in him is correct. Of course she can handle it in a different way, but in her mind: how else can she get his attention? Just my opinion.

I actually disagree here. Oyster explained it all very well in her post "Understanding Paro's Frame of Mind...". I think the problem here is we are putting too much logic into this than necessary.