Whats wrong with nikhil? share your opinion

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Nikhil is seen frustrated for no particular reason when ever he hears lajo's name. Theres something that irritates him. Even he cant understand what is going on with him.
According to me, It is his heart that is telling him that he actually can never forget lajo and that he is in love with her but his mind, contradicting his heart, tells him that he is not made for lajo and he is ought to forget and move on. Ishana is his one and only love. That is what his mind tells him. He cant find peace i guess. he forcefully tries to be with ishana so he can forget lajo. Its crystal clear that he has feelings of love for lajo otherwise it wouldn't have been so tough for him to move on.
What is ur take on this ?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Well Nikhil miyaan ko pyaar ho gaya hai,I feel at subconscious level he has always always loved Laajo,she was like a soothing presence in his life. When initially he tried to move on away from ishaana his and Laajo's affinity was increasing and there was awareness between two of them ,which used to confuse and irritate Nikhil. but since had so badly convinced himself that ishaana was the one ,he never thought whatever he felt for Laajo could be love. Same thing is happening now'.His mind is asking him this question in form of Laajo.today's dream was his own subconscious asking him why he was not happy. Why couldn't he feel relieved that she has moved on and is not going to sit in village crying for him. If he had no feelings for her ,he would then be very happy with what his chacha told him. Instead he got angry with everyone including Laajo.
Simple reason is Nikhil cannot live without Laajo. otherwise he would have never ever brought her back from sonbursa.He never thought once about Ishaana on his phera with Laajo.He just thought about Laajo,her and his family in village. He held her hand and brought her home. even later on he kept thinking about how it was unfair to Laajo.So love was the process that started long back ...but now with possibility of breaking of that connection forever...Nikhil is lost ..his heart is asking him to recognize and accept his destiny as intended by almighty ...that is with Laajo.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I completely agree with u. Nikhil's situation is " Lakeer ka fakeer" .. He has by-hearted the fact that ishana is his love just like a child by hearts his lessons.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Nikhil must have read this quote and put it into practice, lol

"What is important is to spread confusion, not eliminate it." - Salvador Dali


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Posted: 11 years ago
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All of you have nailed it . Nikhil loves laajo and was always there for her may be not realizing it is because of the soul connect he has with her i.e Love. He could not leave her at Sonbarsa for the first time, even though it meant he would be forgiven by his mom for the guilt he carried all through his childhood. Then he had full faith in her honesty when Sid tried to molest her and all his family were rallying behind Sid. He never gave up on her even in dire situations, Isn't it his unflinching trust in Laajo which made Laajo Love him. Is this not Love?
Coming to the confusion , I think the C.V's have overworked it!!! Yes Nikhil is confused because since his childhood he was lonely and the only friend he had was Ishana. His thought process started and ended with Ishana so he doted on her. Ishana being a selfish person loved being pampered and getting so much attention. So Nikhil due to his loneliness and Ishana due to her self importance thought that they were in Love with each other. All this changed when Laajo entered Nikhil's Life as his wife. Nikhil was no longer lonely but was cared for. Laajo made him feel important and she even supported him in whatever decision he took. He was his self with Laajo but with Ishana he was always trying to be a person which he is not. So Nikhil can never give-up Laajo as his responsibility because She is the one who made him meet his real self and also instilled confidence in him. This Nikhil is realizing now and badly missing her. He knows that Laajo with her six month stint with him has influenced his life more than Ishana whom he claims he loves for years.
I am happy that the C.v's have not made Nikhil realize his love for Laajo only by exposing Ishana's selfish schemes but made it look that Nikhil has always had feelings for Laajo but is now realizing it when she has left him. Love happens without any preconditions and that is the bottom line.
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Originally posted by: varshitap

All of you have nailed it . Nikhil loves laajo and was always there for her may be not realizing it is because of the soul connect he has with her i.e Love. He could not leave her at Sonbarsa for the first time, even though it meant he would be forgiven by his mom for the guilt he carried all through his childhood. Then he had full faith in her honesty when Sid tried to molest her and all his family were rallying behind Sid. He never gave up on her even in dire situations, Isn't it his unflinching trust in Laajo which made Laajo Love him. Is this not Love?

Coming to the confusion , I think the C.V's have overworked it!!! Yes Nikhil is confused because since his childhood he was lonely and the only friend he had was Ishana. His thought process started and ended with Ishana so he doted on her. Ishana being a selfish person loved being pampered and getting so much attention. So Nikhil due to his loneliness and Ishana due to her self importance thought that they were in Love with each other. All this changed when Laajo entered Nikhil's Life as his wife. Nikhil was no longer lonely but was cared for. Laajo made him feel important and she even supported him in whatever decision he took. He was his self with Laajo but with Ishana he was always trying to be a person which he is not. So Nikhil can never give-up Laajo as his responsibility because She is the one who made him meet his real self and also instilled confidence in him. This Nikhil is realizing now and badly missing her. He knows that Laajo with her six month stint with him has influenced his life more than Ishana whom he claims he loves for years.
I am happy that the C.v's have not made Nikhil realize his love for Laajo only by exposing Ishana's selfish schemes but made it look that Nikhil has always had feelings for Laajo but is now realizing it when she has left him. Love happens without any preconditions and that is the bottom line.


You said it very right, Nikhil's soul is connected to Lajo's. He has been in love with her simplicity, honesty, helpful nature etc... deep with in even he knows that lajo is far better than Ishana.

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