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The deceased Prof. Randy Pausch of Carnegie Mellon University stated in one of his last and immensely famous lectures that a sincere apology has three parts:
1. I m sorry.
2. I know it was my fault.
3. How can I make it right?
He added further that most people forget the third and most important part. It is the most significant bit cuz it actually determines the sincerity of your apology.
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While watching Paro's extraordinary concern and care for Rudra today, I wondered if she was going overboard. But then I remembered these wise words and told myself naa... She's doing it right!
She immediately fulfilled the first two requirements like most of us as soon as she realised that she was at fault - maari ghalti thi, maarey ko maaf kardo Rudra. Now she is hellbent on fulfilling the third requirement. This point of view was further reinforced by the words of the pandit at the temple today who elaborated on the nature and fruits of sincere apology. This girl is gonna give whatever it takes from her to make things right! If you don't understand it this way, you might misinterpret Paro's insistence and persistence.
So yeah it is not an instance of zero self-respect but rather an attempt to make a sincere and complete apology!
What I would like the creatives to do is to make sure that this remains Paro's journey of repentance. I don't want her to develop any feelings for Rudra until she proves her innocence and achieves forgiveness and leaves Ranawat house. It would be okay for Rudra to have some feelings for her once he learns that she did not set his father's room on fire.
Just a thought I wanted to share before I fall asleep. Good night!
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