I can't ignore my kids for films - Kajol

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Kajol says her two kids are her top priority and she can't just head off to work while leaving them to care for themselves.

For actress Kajol, who is set to feature in her husband and filmmaker-actor Ajay Devgn's home production, her priority is her children and she can't "dump them and go off to work".

Kajol and Ajay, who got married in 1999, are the parents of two children - daughter Nysa and son Yug. After the birth of her daughter in 2003, she has done very few films such as "Fanaa", "U Me Aur Hum", "My Name Is Khan", "We Are Family" and "Toonpur Ka Superrhero".

In an exclusive interview, Kajol told IANS: "My only reason why I am not doing films is my children. My children need my attention and it's my duty to give them my time. I have not given birth to them to just dump them and go off to work. I am not that kind of a person."

"I have my kids and I want to see them growing up and turn out the way I always wanted them to be. Even kids expect that kind of time from you, and my husband is always working. He does four films in a year, so at least I have to be with them."

A strict mother, Kajol felt that certain guidelines should be laid down to discipline children.

"Of late I have not been shooting; so I have been busy spending time with my kids. I am a very strict mother and as a mother it's my responsibility to guide my kids and tell them to go how far and no further. There should be rules and guidelines for the kids and they should know their limits," she said.

Aware of the fact that she has a fan following that wants to see her on the screen, the actress said she likes to have her space.

"I know my fans are waiting to see me on the screen, but I like my space and I like to do one film in a year or so and not more than that. I was always choosy but now I have become more chooser and picker when it comes to scripts," said the actress who has been active in front to the camera since 1992 and has about 40 films to her credit.

The celebrity couple came together on the screen in "Gundaraj", "Ishq", and "Pyaar To Hona Hi Tha", "Raju Chacha" and "U Me Aur Hum", which was their last film together.

When asked about teaming up again with Ajay Devgn, Kajol said: "Frankly speaking, Ajay and my tastes don't match when it comes to films. We are poles apart when it comes to films. We don't agree with the same kind of films; so it is very difficult that we agree on same films and it only happens once in eight or nine years."

Meanwhile, the actress is also associated with "Help A Child Reach 5", which aims to eradicate preventable deaths like diarrhea by teaching lifesaving hand washing habits.

She said: "I am spreading this awareness and taking it nationally. I am pushing this campaign to other countries this year. We hope to bring the change."

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Posted: 11 years ago
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None of them who work after having children 'dump' them and go off to work. They learn to balance both.

It's nice to see you giving your kids priority but that doesn't mean you make such stupid statements.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Dumps them ?

Kajol grew up with parents who were separated. Many of her choices like remaining married despite all the rumors, living in a joint family and the way she uses words like 'dump them' makes me think she felt abandoned as a child and wants to make a secure childhood for her kids.
Understandable and laudable but her perception about working mothers seems skewed
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: awesomegurti


When asked about teaming up again with Ajay Devgn, Kajol said: "Frankly speaking, Ajay and my tastes don't match when it comes to films. We are poles apart when it comes to films. We don't agree with the same kind of films; so it is very difficult that we agree on same films and it only happens once in eight or nine years."


Thank you Kajol for saying that! 👏
Its quite obvious after seeing them together in a film. 😕
Does that mean her husband will be angry?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Wow!! What logic ? Is she trying to say that all working mothers dump their children to go for work.?.😆..She has got hit very hard on her head recently I bet..which is why she is giving all these nonsense statements.. like I look Rich and now this..😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: meribaat

Dumps them ?

Kajol grew up with parents who were separated. Many of her choices like remaining married despite all the rumors, living in a joint family and the way she uses words like 'dump them' makes me think she felt abandoned as a child and wants to make a secure childhood for her kids.
Understandable and laudable but her perception about working mothers seems skewed


So true .. every parent tries to do the best for their kids, based obviously on their own understanding of what kids need.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: oblivious.

None of them who work after having children 'dump' them and go off to work. They learn to balance both.

It's nice to see you giving your kids priority but that doesn't mean you make such stupid statements.

I agree with you
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Celeb job isn't like us 9 - 5, sometimes they have to work till late night, sometimes out station for a few days ... every working mom in the office also normally comes up with stupid excuses, i can't do OT, my kids at home, I am so worry about my kids if only, can I work from home If you cant do your work properly then might as well dont work 🤢
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Kajol ji...please ask your kaam wali bai...whay she DUMPS her kids to to come work at your home and let us know ki ussne kaun se number ki chappal kheench kar maari...🤢
This woman is insane and insensitive...she disrespected all those hard working women who work to make ends meet...not everyone is RICH like you Kajol ji...people in the real world actually have to work and don't have the luxury of staying at home and looking after their kids...Get ur ass out of those Mills&Boons books and get real🤢
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Posted: 11 years ago
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What a snotty idiot! Nobody dumps their kids when they go off to work & you have the luxury to defer work 'coz you can afford to! I guess the intent of what she said was harmless but it all came off wrong!

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