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I have something that's been bugging me for sometimes now. My cousin got married last year and this year she came to USA. Before she came to the USA, I always felt like I mattered in the family, but after she came here no one even bothers talking to me. She lives 10-15 some hours away at her sasural but now the only time I am needed is if something needs to be done. For example before she got married I use to do everything in my power to find a dulha for her. I even registered her name through the matrimonial sites as a premium member few times. I am not bragging about that but when I did all that I apparently mattered but now that she is married and all it's like she is so important that it feels like to hell with me. After she moved here about a month or two ago she needed to order something online for her husband and she is not familiar with how to do that so she calls me and tells me to place the order. She gave me the credit card # and everything and for that moment I mattered. Before this happened and after this happened she had not called me one time to even say hi after she moved to the USA. She sometimes replies my text after I text her first. Not once has she taken the initiative to talk to me. At this point I take it as my responsibility to do things for her with keeping her parents and my parents' relationship in mind. I am at a point where I am doing things because it's "suppose to be done" or out of the respect for our parents not because I want to do it from my heart. And for all the people that knows me can tell you that I hate doing anything unless I do it from the heart.
We feel you should talk it out with your sister, and say how how exactly you feel and see what she has to say in return ,and depending on that you can decide how you want to take their relationship further,some times siblings do tend to take you for granted specially once they are independent and have their own life but the idea of being family means to talk it out and to be there when needed😳 & Plus good deeds should never be regretted for any reason,like they say neki kar kuyen mein daal 😳
Dear crazy creativesI'm from Bangladesh and I'm quitely bookish who always come 2 first or second in the class.But in 2013,my SSC result was out n i didnt get golden gpa 5 coz i didnt secure 80+ marks in on subject,but some of my friend got that..Problem is i just cant forget this incident! now when i read,there is a inner sound thats tell why r u reading? u can never do good,next time will happen the same n u'll officially be a failure :(
I'm so depressed,hope u'll help me :)
Success consists of going from failure to failure without the loss of enthusiasm -Winston ChurchillSee we can totally identify with what you are feeling but all we can suggest is when that inner voice tells you that dont read cause you are failure you say to yrself aloud that I will read no matter what cause eventually I will be a success cause thats what I have been for all these years .Dont let that one blip take over and wipe away yr years of glory Please!
All my friends know what to do and which college to apply to but Im confused and I have no idea where to start! Help me?Start from scratch. Make lists. Which subjects you enjoy, what are your strengths weaknesses, what your parents think. Once you've got that figured out do some research, i.e., find courses that fit your decision on subjects and find colleges you can apply to, talk to relatives etc. That's a start right? At this stage its normal to be confused since its a big decision but the trick is to know yourself. Listen to advice from parents and close ones and make a decision, and make sure its YOURS. My mother has been too intrusive and she hovers too much. She'll scold me for nothing at all sometimes when I try and tell her how I feel she doesn't want to listen! Help?Maybe your mother is in under a lot of stress, she just needs somebody to take it out on. She cares for you too much that she doesn't want you to do anything wrong. Try not to argue with her and just remain calm. Think of it like she is doing all this for you own good.I need to lose weight. I really do. But I can't get myself to work out regularly and eat properly. What should I do? Where should I start? How can I get more motivated?One huge way to get motivated to lose weight is GO SHOPPING! Once you see all the amazing clothes out there and you don't get your size, you'll be motivated, definitely! And take a pledge that you will work out for one hour everyday and won't sleep until you do so! Take out time from your busy schedule and do something for yourself. I feel lonely in school and I feel out of place. I don't have many friends and I am bullied by a few kids. I don't wanna seem like a tattletale by telling on them to the principal or my mother because it will just get embarrassing. Is there someway I can just stand up to them and do something about it?There are many stages here. First try to talk. (Well, usually doesn't work.) Then in order to stand up to them, be strong, be bold and you don't have to be nervous to ask for an apology. You need to show those people that you aren't scared and the one thing you need to work on is SELF CONFIDENCE. That's the key. Feel good about yourself. Trust yourself and always love yourself. Nobody's perfect and you are just fine the way you are. No one can say anything to you! If you love yourself and treat yourself properly, others will tooDear anonymous,why do i feel insecure at times,especially for my loved ones?? That's Because your are unable to trust yourself and your love for them...trust yourself and your love for them you will know no one can take them away from you no matter what. love them wholeheartedly and you will pass off this insecurity :) cheers! most importantly believe in yourself :) Until Next Time , Ciao Ciao
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